jojo

Hi!! im jolene. im disabled, i have autism and adhd, check pinned for more info and hi

[jolitl]

pronouns: (she/kitty/kiddo)

So, Hi! I'm jolene! or jojo i mostly get called jojo. Here's a list of my boundaries and stuff that you might wannya keep in mind when interacting with me!

Im autistic and adhd (aswell as some other diagnosis im not gona list eveyrthin because my safety) and struggle a lot with my autism.

I feel like a kid a lot and like being treated that way, it makes me comfy and safe. Don't condescend or treat me dumber or immature for it please! (im not transage and dont support sexualizing minors)

I'm aromantic and asexual. Please don't show me suggestive or sexual things because they make me really uncomfortable and scared!

My favorite shows are The Owl House, Steven Universe, Bluey, Amphibia, She-ra, Adventure Time, Fionna and Cake, Sonic Prime, gumball, My Little Pony, Gravity Falls, My Melody and Kuromi and others i like cartoons mostly but some anime! Feel free to dm me about any of these shows

my favorite games are anything Sonic the hedgehog, Stardew valley, Roblox, Minecraft, Terraria, fnaf, undertale, deltarune, pokemon (i have a switch 2, pokopia, splatoon 3, hello kitty island adventure

That's it for now!! thanks a lot for reading it all. I'm open to making friends but pls interact with me first so i know you're okay!

[heart-of-ennui]

carlthecollector on instagram

[buggie-boi]

I wish diapers weren’t so sexualized. They can be a comfort item. Sometimes a little has a disability. Sometimes it’s because of how far you regress. Sometimes it’s due to physical trauma. I used to get so embarassed about wearing pull ups, and then suddenly it was a sex thing and this thing I needed to sleep comfortably because of physical trauma, was icky. It made me feel icky. I wish I could write cute agere stuff about pampers without it being turned into a sex thing.

Sigh

[moo-moos]

my sisters r rewatching icarly and we just saw the episode where spencer feels rlly lonely and they all try and get him friends but he gets upset bc everyone his age just talks about grown up stuff and they dont like him bc hes childish so the crew indulges him and spend the day playing with him.... permaregressor spencer i love u and i feel so seen (and i wish i had a friend group like that 😭)

[jolitl]

they should make autism group for neurotypical people too. this is my vision. a lot of people complain about being lonely and not making friends. autism group changed my life by just putting a bunch of people in a room and giving them fun activities to do. i think neurotypical people would benefit too

[repulsed-confessions]

being a sex repulsed adult is truly awful i wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy. i dont want to be in spaces full of kids, but there's basically no nonsexual 18+ spaces. even if they arent /about/ sex, people will talk about it from time to time or make jokes. and if you bring up that you dont want to be in conversations about sex the response is usually to just exclude you from those conversations because they dont feel like having to censor themselves in adult spaces. which is.. i mean i guess its valid, i cant force them? but then it comes down to me having to choose between being extremely uncomfortable and grossed out and panicky depending on how explicit it gets or not having any friends my own age, every single time. they never have to choose between having friends or talking about sex life, its just me.

like idk i wonder where the 'repulsed aces are all super childish' stereotype comes from, when everything 'adult' contains sex. i want to watch stuff with a dark tone, i want to have adult friends i can have grown-up conversations with instead of teens who only care about fandom, i want to go out at night, theres so many experiences i want to have but cant, because i cant predict whether the people there decide to have a drawn out conversation about their sex life. and if i ask i get left out! other than other sex repulsed aces, who dont even seem to make up the majority of aces, theres nothing accessible. so then as a minority of a minority of a minority who cant talk to anyone who isnt like me, what do i do.

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[jolitl]

no social skills

no emotional regulation

no basic tasks

but i do know how to play video games really good

[jolitl]

can people start tagging stuff before literaly putting pornography on my timeline with no warning. i do not consent to seeing those things. i've blocked a million posters and still the population of tumblr is too big to block everyone. can people TAG THEIR STUFF PLEASE

[crayoncubbie]

Affirmations for permaregressors!

I am allowed to ask for help.

It's ok to need accommodations.

I am not a bad person for taking longer than others to meet my goals.

It's ok to need time to self regulate and nurture myself.

Time is not running out.

I am not falling behind.

I deserve people who understand and appreciate the real me.

Being a permakid dose not make me less human or deserving of autonomy.

I'm allowed to make my own choices and take control of my life.

My mental age does not get to determine what others think I'm capable of.

[max-wayne12]

Pom pom

[jolitl]

i found out people from the us don't consider me white. that's weird

[princessbunnyzelda]

it’s not pride month yet but almost so here’s ace art! 🖤🩶🤍💜

[raystarkitty]

💖 Popstar Pika 💖

[jolitl]

i feel like i'm too innocent for this world. i dont understand lies, why people hurt , why people do sex, why people hate each other, why people look at me weird with my plushies, why people dont like kids shows anymore, why cringe exists.

[jolitl]

mourning someone who's alive

[jolitl]

nobody can ever give me a definition of nonsexual kink. ive tried so so so much to ask again and again what would be nonsexual abdl and nobody seems to tell me why it would be different from agere or padded agere. im getting desperate can someone just tell me what the difference is.

[candyhearse]

she's Audrey Weasel Horne and she gets what she wants 😏 (inspired by @/justrightpup's audrey-weasel design)