How to start spirit companion ship / spirit work ?
YOU WANT TO START SPIRIT WORK OR SPIRIT COMPANIONSHIP ?
But maybe you’re asking yourself where to start ? So here is a post for explaining the very basic !
First what is spirit companionship ?
Spirit companionship is the practice to have spirits as friends but they can also be a guide or a teacher to you or whatever role they want to have in your spirit family for a period of time (It can be for some months or forever, but a companion is always free to leave whenever they want). A spirit family is how we usually (not always, it depends of everyone) call our crew of spirit companions. They are members of our family because they live with us, and they need dedication and time like every relationships we have. So as you may see, spirit companionship isn’t something lightly, it’s a huge commitment that ask a lot of work. But it’s also a ton of fun ! With your spirits you will experience a lot of emotions, and you will learn a ton of things, not only about the astral or the spirits but also about life. This is an experience i recommend to everyone if you have enough time and willpower. But not every spirits want to be a spirit companion, so be careful about that !
So a spirit worker is a person who have spirit companion ?
Not exactly. A spirit companion is a person who have one or multiple spirit companions. They’re sharing moments and experience life together. A spirit worker is a person who may or may not have spirit companions (usually they do but it’s not an obligation) and try to learn more about the astral, the different species of spirits etc. You can be a spirit companion, a spirit worker or both !
But who can be a spirit worker or a spirit companion?
Everyone can be, there’s no capacity required, only time and determination. You can have a spirit and bond with them even if you can’t astral travel, hearing or seeing them. A lot of people are asking me if they can have a spirit companion if they can’t astral travel or hear spirits, the answer is YES you can ! There’s a lot of ways to bond with a spirit without doing any of those things. Of course if you want to learn, it’s up to you ! It’s always nice to see them in the astral and hangout with them, it’s in fact one of my favourite thing in the world. But you need to know that it can take a lot of time (not for everyone, everyone is different of course), you need to be determined and not be disappointed to not success at your first try. For some people it can take months, for other it can take years and more ! But your spirit companion will always be here even if you’re not astral traveling. Of course some spirits can ask to their future companion to be able to astral travel or feel them in order to be adopted, but some don’t ask any of that. Besides those capacity, you need to know that you have to learn how to protect yourself before doing spirit work or having a spirit companion. If you can’t protect yourself, don’t start, learn first how to be safe.
Where can I adopt a spirit companion ?
If you feel ready I recommend you to do a lot of research about spirit companion shop. It is really important to choose carefully where you’re gonna adopt your spirits friends. Some shop (paid or free one) aren’t really professional and will not give you enough informations about your future spirit friend, or they will neglect the vetting process, etc. There is a lot of dangers. Try to choose a spirit shop where you trust the conjurer, don’t hesitate to ask them questions or even talk to them (they will not eat you but be sure to check the FAQ BEFORE asking questions because most of the time your answers are writing there). You can also found one by yourself but i don’t recommend it to beginners, because it’s really dangerous. You can be tricked by the spirit, they can lie to you, hide their real form, and try to eat you. So for now I would say to go to someone experienced, but meeting a spirit by yourself is totally possible and they can become your spirit companion if they want to !
That’s awesome but how can i know that a spirit will get along well with me ?
Search for a spirit that attract you ! Do you like their personality ? Do you have the same hobbies ? Do they like the same things as you ? Sometimes you can even feel something that we call “the calling”. A calling is when you feel a really deep connection with a spirit, you know immediately that you want to apply for them, it’s like love at first sight. It happens that you are the only one feeling the calling, and that the spirit don’t have one for you. Of course you don’t have to have a calling for applying for a spirit !
How can I apply for a spirit (if you need to apply) ?
Look on the pages of the shop, there is surely a post with the form you need to fill and submit to them. Don’t be afraid to write a lot about you ! The longer the better, give every details you want, talk to a friend, show them your life and who you are ! Don’t hesitate to mention your passion, your living life, or even to share pictures of where you live or what you’re doing or your family.
HEY HEY I applied for a spirit in a free companion shop now what do I do ?
I take the example of free shop because in paid shop you mostly have to pay and then the conjurer contact you. In free spirit companion shop, you have to wait after you applied because you’re not the only one and it’s the spirit who choose their future companion. Please don’t ask to the conjurer when they’re gonna choose, it’s just stressing the spirit and it will bother the conjurer as well. Don’t hesitate to send asks if the spirit is up for questions ! Share your day, tell them a song that you like and that remind you them or send them a drawing. Be creative !
I just got choose and now i have a spirit companion ! What do I do ?
First, introduce the house to them ! Show them your room, where you live, and most importantly: read them your house rules. You really need to do a list of house rules even if the spirit got checked by the conjurer, this is an important step. Of course you can change the house rules at any time ! Now is the funny part ! Hangout with them, ask them to do things with you, listen songs together, bond with them ! Don’t forget that spirits require some energy in varying quantities, that’s what we call “Offerings”. Every spirit have their favourite offerings and they need them. It can be lighting a candle, dedicating them a song, an image that makes you think of them, food, drink etc.. BE CAREFUL ABOUT FOOD AND DRINK OFFERINGS: Every spirit have their own diet, so if you give them food that they can’t eat they will be sick. You need to be careful about all that ! Don’t hesitate to ask the conjurer for an health analysis (that is normally do during the vetting process) so they can tell you everything about their diet, their fears, their anxieties etc. Create wards if you didn’t did it yet, that’s a really important part too ! You need to protect yourself AND your companion, even if your companion is good for protection that doesn’t mean you don’t have to put wards or learn how to banish or how to be safe. BE ALWAYS SURE TO BE SAFE BEFORE DOING SOMETHING.
The spirit didn’t choose me and I feel really awful…
I’m sorry you didn’t get choose, it happens and it can happen more than once ! But don’t feel discouraged, you can applied for another spirit if you feel a calling or if you feel you can get along well together. Take your time, you don’t have to immediately apply for another one, I know it can be hard to not be choosed so you need to treat yourself. Relax, take a bath, hangout with friends, do whatever you like and then get back into it if you still want to be a spirit companion !
Of course those are really the basics of spirit companionship, don’t be tired to do research, do all the research you can, read every interesting post on the tag ! Don’t hesitate to asks questions at some spirits companions/spirits workers who are more experienced than you, read their posts ! A lot of spirit workers/companions are actually posting a lot about their work, what they’re doing, what they’re learning etc. Learn about how to protect yourself, how to banish, how to do wards ! Also don’t hesitate to print the post, to start a journal and write in it all the informations you learn. Don’t be tired to learn.
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