Wow. The patience, kindness and calm communication skills. Outstanding.
From raindovemodel
i just wanna add: thereâs a time for âok boomerâ and thereâs a time for respectful and understanding communication. that point is when the other person cares but truly doesnât understand the issue at hand.
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Hereâs a key sentence from the mother:
Thank you very much for talking me through without being angry
Too often discourses like this ended up a shouting match further polarizing the parties involved.
Be understanding. Be respectful. Help the other side understand your position, and be willing to understand the otherâs position as well. Meet in the middle.
Always start with a non-adversarial mindset.
People want to understand. Insulting people who donât understand will not help them or the child in their situation. Binding does have health risks. But alternative methods of binding are much more dangerous. Parents with questions are welcome here.
