Wandering finds

25 | Queensland, Australia

[herbalfaun]

Are you ever just like wow I’d take care of you and care about you so hard

[heavensghost]

[smoke-stungeyes]

Do you ever wonder how much you exist in other people’s lives? I’m always curious if people think of me when a certain song comes on, or when they pass through a certain town. I wonder how many stories I’ve been a part of that I may have forgotten. I wonder if I still I exist in the minds of people that I don’t speak to anymore. I wonder how many times a day I pass through someone’s head.

[warmsuggestion]

The person you love is not the same as they were when you first started loving them and they are not the same as they will be when you die. Love must be adaptive. Love must be smart enough and strong enough to survive constant change. Love must not be rigid.

[pleasurewhore-deactivated201802]

Some Things About Consent

Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Already naked? Already hard? Already inside? Yup, it can still be withdrawn.

Yesterday’s consent is not valid today. Think of consent like breathing, if it’s not ongoing, bad things happen.

“I don’t think so” or “I don’t feel comfortable yet,” are not their way of asking you to convince them. Consent is affirmative, not wavering or unsure.

Consent doesn’t only apply to intercourse. Badgering someone about what you want to do to them, wrapping your arm around them, or insisting they take the ride home you offered after they’ve already declined, are violations of consent.

Their wearing lingerie, lighting candles, inviting you in, or bringing condoms is not consent.

That rape fantasy they shared with you is not consent.

People who are in an altered state. People who are drunk, high, or current in an altered state due to untreated mental illness, etc. They are not capable of offering consent. Walk away.

A relationship, even marriage, does not constitute consent.

Any situation in which both parties do not feel free to say ‘no’ at any time is not consensual.

[photosbygy-deactivated20200605]

How amazing would it be to live next to the ocean, wake up every morning and go for a walk on the beach… this is kinda my dream, first thing u hear when u wake up is the ocean and last thing u hear when u go to sleep is the ocean, thats peaceful

[lovedupandlusting]

“You are not stupid. You are not ugly. You are not worthless. You are not weak. You are not a burden. Your anxiety is lying to you.”

— (via purplebuddhaquotes)

An important reminder 😘

[folktaylor]

u know what makes me lowkey sad? when someone says ‘i know it seems silly’ before talking about something they clearly care very deeply about bc u know that means someone gave them shit for caring that much about that thing before which is Fucked Up.

[queen-haiz]

or when they’re like “i know i talk too much, just tell me to shut up when u get tired” n they say it as a joke but u can see that they’re uncomfortable, n i get so sad n i wanna fight whoever made them feel like they’re not worth of being heard.

[itsthesmallthing]

[hypnopomicwolf]

Get you a freak that

Genuinely loves and cares about you and your mental health.

[0ne-with-nature]

yes pls

[arabwife]

I’ll get over it I just gotta be dramatic first

[lakemichiganbaby-deactivated202]

does anyone else have those moments where they just fall in love with being alive? like, maybe you’re in art class with soft music and you realize that this peaceful feeling is a part of life that you love and you want to just keep forever, and there are so many other parts of life too that are so wonderful and maybe existing isnt so bad after all

[astrodickology]

My Kink is being right and that’s why I’m turned on all the time

[electricheart]

[photographersunite]

[lilboreddev-blog]

You should tell people how important they are to you. Not because they could leave at any moment, but because they’re here now, and it’s worth saying something.

[the-perfect-aesthetic]