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[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

god lmao i was just reading a post by some girl asking for advice because her lifelong best friend is a man and his girlfriend is coming with him when he visits to meet her for the first time and she wants to know how she can make her feel welcome in their friendship and all the comments are like “don’t spend a lot of time recollecting funny memories with your friend/her boyfriend, don’t reference any inside jokes, don’t talk a lot about your childhood with him, because these will all be signs that you have a stronger bond with him than she does which will be rude and isolating and sorta look like you’re into him” and i’m so……..

some of you are not ready to be in any kind of adult relationship and it shows

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

“hi my best friend of many years is bringing his girlfriend to meet me because she wants to meet his best friend! any advice on how to be super welcoming?”

“under no circumstances should you in any way indicate that you two are best friends”

[colorogasm]

Always Remember:

kissing can and will, get boring.

its ok to go to sleep on opposite sides.

forgetting favorites, dates and replies is only human.

you dont have to like, or be friends with all of their friends and vice-versa.

they have a right to spend weekends dedicating to their friends and family. you have the same right.

privacy is still in play.

trying simple things that they like, no matter how much you are sure you will dislike it, is a very small step you can take to show your love to them.

you dont gotta have the same taste in music, food, books etc.

saying i love you, thank you, take care, please and i missed you really helps.

you cant agree with all their life decisions and they cant with yours. keeping an open mind and having an honest and deep discussion about it helps. 

they dont need your permission to do things and neither you need theirs.

the intention and care behind the gift matters. not its price tag. 

dont try and change them. help them become better versions of themselves and get the same help and support and care from them. 

know what matters most and focus on that.

[sexanax]

it really be light outside until 7pm now, goodbye seasonal depression u dumb bitch

[abnormalize-remadeeeeelol-deact]

you guys HAVE to be nicer to people that don’t easily understand sarcasm especially if you’re not even friends please i’m begging you

[popokko-deactivated20210315]

finding job…. hard…… i’m only a baby…. no experience….. just baby. i am baby. please hire me

[autoimmuneamy]

“Do you want to talk about it or be distracted from it” is honestly the best thing you can say to me when I say im sad/in pain etc.

[luckytwodollarbill-deactivated2]

this is really good advice to say to anyone who is upset

[elaxisfae]

Alsooo may I add: “do you want advice or do you just want to vent?” Is also good to add because often unsoliticited advice can further hurt someone who really just wanted a listening ear.

[jessafer94]

out of boredom i decided to scan a stuffed shark. here are the results.

[puniper]

i wish hot men were real and not a thing anime invented to sell dakimakuras

[palmpetals]

🐉👧

[defencelesslou]

so who’s kissing me on new years? no one? that’s what i thought

[icebats]

My freshman year of college i had a professor that, on the first day of class, said to a student “oh, your name is Flutey? And youre a flute performance major? What a cruel trick played by god” and i still think about it

[icebats]

UPDATE SHES STILL AT IT

[idareu]

what’s ur sign and what’s the person you’re closest too sign

[nblemons-deactivated20190101]

in 2019 we realise that vocaloid songs go hard as fuck and stop shaming people for liking them bc lets face it world is mine is a bop.

[notparkr-deactivated20200822]

[susanoomon]

some blessed images source

[tina-warriorprincess]

End of Year Meme

First things first, did you have a good year?

How old did you turn this year?

Do you feel your age?

Did your appearance change in anyway?

Post your favorite selfie.

If you traveled, where did you go?

Which fashion trends did you love?

Which fashion trends did you hate?

What was your favorite article of clothing this year? Post a pic if possible?

What song sums up this year for you?

What album came out and has been on heavy rotation since then?

What was your favorite movie of the year?

Did an actor/actress catch your attention for the first time this year?

Favorite new TV show?

Which new ship/fandom has taken over a lot of your time, attention, and tears?

What food did you try for the first time?

Did you make any big permanent changes this year?

What was one nice thing you did for someone else?

What was one nice thing you did for yourself?

Did you develop a new obsession?

Did you vote?

Did you move?

Did you get a job?

Did you get a pet?

Do you regret not doing anything?

Do you regret doing something?

Have you done anything that scared you?

Did anyone/thing make you so mad it stayed with you for days?

Did you lose anyone close to you?

Did you fall in love?

Did you fall out of love?

Did you start a new relationship?

Did you go through a break up?

Did you have to cut ties to someone?

Who was important to you this year but wasn’t important last year?

Who wasn’t as important to you this year as they were last year?

If you could have a do over on one thing you did, would you take it?

What was the best moment of the year for you?

What was the worst?

Did anything happen that you were sure would change you as a person but it really didn’t?

Did anything happen to you that you were sure wouldn’t change you as a person but it did?

What are you most proud of accomplishing?

What have you learned about yourself this year that you didn’t know in the years prior?

Did your opinion of anyone change for the better?

Did your opinion of anyone change for worse?

If you make resolutions, did you complete them this year?

If you make resolutions, what will your resolutions be for the coming year?

If you could go on an adventure during the remaining days of the year, where would you go and what would you do?  Who would you go this?

What do you wish for others for the coming year?

What do you wish for yourself?

[writers-are-writers]

Heyo if y’all wanna send me questions I’d totally answer cuz I’m bored af.

I’ll tag them as non writing so anyone who doesn’t wanna see them doesn’t have to 😁

[midsleeper]

nana! is! cute!