Please read way more about it than a Tumblr post.
There is no fully safe way to do this, there is always a risk of death. Sudden, unexpected death. Educate yourself about it before deciding you want to take that risk.
Written by someone who is both a BDSM practitioner and an expert legal witness on the subject who knows his shit.
Read the whole thing several times (confronting a wall of text is the least you can do if you’re going to be trying breath play, it is not an inconvenience, it is a requirement that you educate yourself). Get your partner to do the same. You need to understand that these risks and consequences are very real. That link covers the dangers, and what will happen, legally, if you kill someone during a scene. (They will be dead and your life will be effectively over, and you will forever shatter the lives of their loved ones and probably your own loved ones.)
The core of the safety issue regarding breath play is that, unlike almost all other forms of BDSM play, breath play doesn’t go “just a little bit” wrong. If the unexpected happens, we’re not talking about causing a bruise, welt, laceration, or a burn. We’re talking about causing the complete destruction of a human life and, so to speak, choking off everything that person might have done with their life had they not been killed. Further, we’re talking about killing someone in an utterly legally inexcusable way….
If the worst happens, then one life is over medically, another life is over legally, and all the people who loved and cared for both of those lives are heavily damaged….
The pseudonymous people who try to convince others, at no risk to themselves, that breath control play can be done with reasonable safety are absolutely correct, right up until that medically unpredictable, legally indefensible, life-destroying catastrophic moment when they couldn’t possibly be more wrong.
Tumblr is not the place to get your education on this. OP is wrong. Yes, you can do this, you can do it for fun and it can be fun, but it cannot be done safely. At all.
It can only be done in a way that makes death less likely. By all means, minimize risk. Obviously. But you can’t lower that risk to zero. Don’t let anyone tell you that you can.
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