Tennant's Danosaur

23, Florida, year 12. call me Kat. Taken by my best friend since 15/1/16 <3 Important: dont EVER hesitate to talk to me if you need to, whether its school drama or home drama or somewhere in between I will always be willing to listen and try to help :3 I basically reblog only dan and phil/band/literature stuff, but I also have a new writing blog where I write about my social anxiety and emotional takenness : (@imanauthour @skiesareathing )

[jwforeverandalways]

Lol it's the last day of pride month but I can't post anything public so hey what's up I'm bisexual ✌🏻🌈

[anxietyproblem]

[petty-imperfection]

thank god I’m not the only one

[tofandomhellandback]

Did someone do this yet?

[especially]

[dankmemeuniversity]

[graces-of-luck]

Challenging Amatornomativity- A Beginner’s Guide

As aros, we tend to be quite aware of amatonormativity, but it might be hard to explain or give concrete examples of it, especially when explaining it to alloromantics. This guide and workbook aims to explain what amatonormativity is by giving examples of how it manifests and how it can be harmful. Through a series of exercises and reflections, people can learn to better identify and challenge amatornomativity. There are also a number of sources and narratives to help people understand its impact and learn from lived experiences. The worbook is aimed at (monogamous) alloromantic folks, but could be useful for aros who are struggling with internalized amatonormativity. 

There are currently five versions of the guide/workbook:

Digital workbook (fillable PDF)

Printer-friendly workbook (printable PDF)

Google Docs version

Youtube (audio with CC)

Downloable MP3

The workbook can be found on here on my WordPress. Feel free to share it, especially with people in your life who could benefit from learning about amatonormativity. 

A thanks and a shout-out to those who helped, including @aroace-avenue.

[aroace-avenue]

This is an amazing guide written by an amazing person! Finding ways to introduce alloromantics to amatonormativity and to have them actually spend time thinking about it deeply is really hard. This is a starting point to get them going!

[jwforeverandalways]

I'm feeling so happy today and it's weird to think about how much I wanted to die not 6 years ago

[guerrillatech]

[vetisntdead]

[fidefortitude-deactivated202011]

do not listen to this post! they will not let you eat the jello

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

Why did you think they would it’s EVIL jello

[danielhowell]

i am feeling very emotional ..this is unusual for me

this book is finally out of my mind and onto pages out now around the world. the idea that it will genuinely help people - make them laugh and feel closer to me, makes me feel like all the struggles i have been through have been worth something.

please, save yourself any time you would lose by not feeling as happy and peaceful as you deserve to. you aren’t broken or built that way, we all have the power to change how we feel and just have to understand how.

i am only here because of your support and the kindness and patience you have given me. thank you.

thisnightbook.com

[dailydnp]

[beadyeyes]

im not homophobic im half gay

[beadyeyes]

on my moms side

[noneofyourbuisness1107]

Which mom

[beadyeyes]

yours

[b-salamander-deactivated2023021]

why does my notifications show this when someone likes this post?

[beadyeyes]

hes happy for you

[capitulouno]

oh i love this

[telegraphavekiss]

My sister downloaded this app and this all happened in 8 minutes:

[honestly-who-even-cares]

Yo what the hell

[faggottt]

Me about to do anything:

“Alright I need some music first”

[kaijuno]

my family actually arrived to the us on the gayflower so

[catchymemes]

[toastbutteregg]