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Simply cannot stop thinking about the fact that HJ and LaVonte are Sire and Childe and yet seem to have no hierarchy between them at all. HJ unquestionably treats LaVonte as his equal and LaVonte feels perfectly comfortable yelling at and physically assaulting HJ, both of which are kind of unthinkable under the social rules of the Camarilla. It’s LaVonte’s name first in Worthy and Wingstreet Industries. They are Sire and Childe but more importantly they are partners.

patronsaint-ofmystery

heartbreaking: your problematic power gap yaoi actually respect each other as equals

omtai

Forgive me for being an empath. Nobody care me

sfemonster

A parade of empty beasts. Art from a zine i made called moon chase ♥︎

vanilaxbean

Suvi's escape

her biggest regret was not telling them she loved them...

fangorn-forest

not enough secret gardens and hidden passageways and bookshelves that open to a mysterious library these days. get working on that girls.

paperjoshi

on it boss

paperjoshi

trapped in the catacombs boss

narcoticwriter

Kattigan, desperately trying to have a normal interaction as a cover:

narcoticwriter

This is somehow even more relevant now.

baraphalloplastyclinic

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

ladyfoxfire

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

dressedupliketheking

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

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THIS SONG IS FUCKING AWESOMEEEEE🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

googiekitsch-deactivated2024071

HOW THE FUCK DID YOU DO THAT THERES NOTHING THERE

malscare

hi

foolofworms-deactivated20251128

Legitimately good example of how thorough you need to be to protect private information

sluttyquarantinetheory

The concept that married people live longer is interesting. I'm sure there is some merit to the idea that if you're married there is someone there to nag you about going to the doctor, but I think much larger factors are having the finances of dual incomes and access to an immediate support person.

Surgeries require having a designated person to look after you. Many injuries require driving to somewhere like an emergency room which can be hard to do if you are the one injured. If you're home with the flu, it's hard to tell when it's bad enough to go to the hospital without another person checking on you. And if you pass out it requires another person to find you like that to get medical aid.

You can prop it up as the benefits of marriage, but I think there's a much deeper discussion to be had about how we've built society around marriage as an inevitable conclusion and neglected to build support systems that function outside of romantic pairings.

g1deonthen1nth

we have GOT to cut to the fucking feeling

kabigon143

The beautiful thing as you get older is that you realize so many “rules” are made up and you can just do whatever. Posters can go anywhere in the house not just my room. I can sit down while cooking a meal or taking a shower. I can make the same thing for breakfast lunch dinner for a week straight. I can roam around the house shirtless. I can wear a dress with jeans. The world is my oyster key word my and I can live as I please embracing little things such as this

moltensmusings

I think my favorite thing about Aabria as a player is how willing she is to play a woman who makes choices people won't like. Laerryn blighting the tree, Suvi standing firmly in her indoctrination and ego for so much of worlds beyond number, thaisha being incredibly proud/confident and living a life void of connections to specific people because the world is her love.

And the many, many choices they make over their stories that can be so frustrating and stressful. Genuinely it makes for such amazing story telling and character growth. I think it's a thing that often comes with being a DM previously because I feel that Matt is similar with Julien and how much he acknowledges Julien is unlikable and a dick intentionally.

But aabria plays such deeply flawed women who grow and change, who are strong and refuse to break or bend because someone believes they should. It's truly a treat every time she graces a table to see what she's cooked up.

aesthetic-menace

Someone who understands, yes!

Aabria is creating flawed characters who sometimes do things I can't agree with, but there is always a reason for it.

People who make bad choices or do terrible things don't always do them out of malice, and it is the job of story telling to get us to understand how things get to that point.

I just... I love her, your honor.