actually kinda okay

im kai (he/him) a slightly edgy trans boi who cries way too much

[softpng]

men’s domestic helplessness is not cute or charming pls raise your sons to know how to cook a vegetable and wash their dirty sock i’m begging 

[softwaring]

Y’all ever look outside n gasp?

[hannakdraws]

plant studies from bf’s parents garden 

[strixhaven]

doctor: you know HRT is going to cause serious, irreversible changes to your body, right?

me:

[chessys]

um i want to be loved loudly

[bethyneville]

I honestly believe that people who lost their childhood, teenage years to mental illness and/or trauma are so strong for still being here. Especially once you’re about 18-25 and trying to relearn how to be in society and healthy and human.

Especially when you decide to work towards getting better.

Especially when your life isn’t where you wished it would be.

Stay alive okay? If you lost your youth, I’m sorry and I’m so proud of you for still being here. Keep fighting. Your best years are ahead of you.

[sleepybean]

shy ghosties  ≧○≦

[abd-illustrates]

Halloween, but make it Gay 🎃🌈

I couldn’t find any gay Halloween merch that I liked, so I made my own!

Drew these designs for this week’s speedpaint in order to both celebrate Halloween and shine a light on the fact that it’s LGBT history month! 

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(If you like the look of these designs, you can pick your favorites up over on Redbubble!)

(DON’T EDIT OR REPOST TO OTHER SITES)  //  FULL SIZE VERSIONS ON MY DA (<-link in my blog header)

[gluten-free-pussy]

Drag me if you want but I feel like a major problem with liberal/Western gender ideology is that it’s so focused on aesthetics. Like “Look at me, I’m defying gender norms by wearing a dress/suit/makeup/whatever.” Like okay but what about defying gender norms via the breakdown of behaviour? What about acknowledging things like male entitlement, aggression, perceived weakness and submissiveness, the expectation of women to perform emotional labour etc. If we don’t actively work to break down oppressive and dangerous gender stereotypes, what is the point? Defying gender norms and identities can’t just be limited to clothing, hair, and makeup

[fuckyeahitsruby]

[bekindbegoodbebrave]

Maybe you’re not doing the best you can 

but you doing it — with a chronic illness and probably some anxiety and depression about your circumstances 

and that’s the biggest accomplishment ..

so be proud of yourself

even if you complain throughout the day

you’re allowed to do that

you’re not perfect and this is hard — so don’t be hard on yourself, spoonies

[petitetimidgay-deactivated20240]

me when i eat fruits: i'm so fucking healthy

[leoleofitz]

Me, wearing a blanket as a cloak, stirring my mac'n'cheese in a dimly lit room: potion

[usagifluffy-deactivated20201013]

[chetney-pockopea]

Fucking superb you funky little robot

[chipsprites]

[aliensco]

ig: @cinnadew

Claude Monet, “Effect of Spring” Giverny 1890