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my dad likes to call the stretches of time where you’re not creating “dreaming periods” and says that they’re meant to allow you to absorb all of the beauty, life, and inspiration from the things around you so that when you’re able to create again, you will have fanned your spark back into a flame. sometimes its hard to see those moments as anything but stagnation, but he always says that they’re natural and healthy and needed—things that should be embraced rather than feared.

bimbocracy

every single negative stereotype about women was dreamt up by men who were projecting. fight me about it.

bimbocracy

“women can’t drive”

It is so well known that women are better and safer drivers than men that OUR CAR INSURANCE RATES ARE LOWER. Women get into fewer accidents, get fewer DUIs, and receive fewer speeding tickets than men.

“women never shut up”

Several scientific studies have shown that not only do men talk more than women, they also think that women have been talking for much longer than they actually have. Men interrupt and talk over women, dominate conversations, and still think women talk too much.

“women are shallow”

Lol next

“my wife is my ball and chain lmao”

Multiple studies have shown that marriage between men and women: Increases male lifespan, decreases female lifespan Decreases male depression rates, increases female depression rates Decreases male stress levels, increases female stress levels Increases male health and happiness, decreases female health and happiness Increases a man’s chance of getting a raise or promotion, decreases a woman’s chances of getting a raise or promotion

“women are too emotional”

Men love to say this about women after hurting them, in order to shift the blame and dismiss their feelings in one go. In reality, women are taught to hold our tongues and control ourselves quite literally from birth. We’re taught to put men’s needs and wants ahead of our own emotions regardless of the personal cost. Men are taught to do more or less whatever the fuck they want to women. Men take their emotions out on women while women are expected to shove theirs down.

I could go on and on but I don’t really think I need to.

anqelek

- sincerely, your third wheel

stephsu

inspired by this post

theblackcollegian

Tumblr Family,

Please share this with students anticipating to further their education by enrolling in graduate school. This would have been very helpful to me when I was studying a year ago.

Much Love,

The Black Collegian

leahberman

out of the blue

aesthetically0b5essed

Too good for anybody who would want to be with me but also not good enough for anyone who I would want to be with.

im-not-good-at-finding-nicknames

When people say "find someone already", "why don't you date?", "Find someone and marry" and etc. , I say "I'm not interested", "it's impossible", "I'm ok with being single", "I choose being single" and people misunderstand me.

It's not like I don't want to be loved, not like I don't want somebody to love. I too would like to be loved. Yet I run away from relationships and people who says "I like you"

It's just...

I wanna be loved but I don't believe that they really "love" me.

Heard enough of it... lots of fake "I love you."s

I don't know if will I ever trust someone on that matter... Or will I be ever be brave enough to love someone again.

It's just... Instead of crying over fake loves, I prefer to not to fool myslef. Or should I say " "I would rather to starve, instead of trying to feed myself with crumbs of love."

gingersanta-anirishchristmas-de

When your family gather for Christmas and every year it’s the same question!

#DateMeAndIMightShareMyBaublesWithYou

torn-apart-hurricane

Kinda sad that I've just completely given up on finding love.

ptsd-tiger

“you can’t love anyone until you love yourself” ok but i literally cannot love myself until someone else loves me first and proves that i am lovable at all lmao

ptsd-tiger

i hate having to ask or beg for interaction because everyone has others they’d rather talk to than me

wondersmith-and-sons

listen, yeah, tumblr is unhinged and full of clowns but it’s unhinged in a way that has coherence. the clownery has continuity. you could reference memes from 6 years ago and people would still get it. you could make jokes from long-dead shows and someone could still understand the weird cryptic hieroglyphic language of internet culture. there’s institutional memory here. where else am i gonna get that? twitter? twitter is just 5-minute rage cycles and blue check marks with brainrot and too much hubris