Some words of advice for Pop Culture Witchlings.
First up, “Witchling” isn’t meant to be an insult–think of it more as “padawan.” So here are some things you should know before starting on your Path.
1) No one likes pop culture magicians/pagans. Not even other pagans/witches. We have been told that what we are doing is “not real magic,” that we’re “mocking the old gods and the old religions,” that “our magic won’t work,” all kinds of elitist bullshit. I will tell you this: I have been a witch for about ten years, and a pop culture witch for about…two or three. The most effective spells I have done have all been with the aid of my pop culture entities, so NEVER let anyone tell you what is or isn’t powerful. That magic comes from within you, and whatever stirs your soul is the key to it. 2) Spirit guides/Patrons/guardians/deities: My advice, and again, this is advice, is to start with an entity from your favorite fandom(s). Remember what I said about personal power? The more connected you are to an entity, the more power it can help you find. On that note, once you’re comfortable with how magic feels, then start exploring other fandoms. 3) So how do you get a Guide/Patron/guardian? You don’t. Not exactly. We all have “characters” who resonate with us for whatever reason. Those are the most likely places to start. And don’t assume that it’s going to be a magical moment of revelation, like an angel coming down from on high or somesuch. I met my Guides through roleplaying them online, and only later realized that they were far more that just “muses.”
4) Once you have found you Partner, and by partner I mean guide/patron/guardian, they’re with you no matter what. No need for any spells or anything to keep them with you. You chose them, they chose you. Why would they leave you unless you pissed them off or told them to leave? Many pop culture pagans or pop culture witches have a special item such as necklace or keychain they carry with them. This keeps their energy nearby and can be used to help in spells as needed. It’s not a Binding vessel, because binding is not needed. 5) Be open. There are SO MANY pop culture entities who are looking for humans to work with. Generally speaking, if you ask them to help, they’ll be more than happy to help, and one or more might stay with you if you’re compatible. On that note, be VERY careful when working with “villains,” especially starting out. And remember that not all of the entities will be exactly like their “canon” selves. 6) To worship or not to worship? That’s a matter of personal choice. I don’t worship my entities. They would never put up with that. They lend me their passion and energy when I ask/invoke/evoke, but I don’t make offerings as mainstream religion knows the term. I don’t “pray” to them. I ask them respectfully, just like I would as my friends or family for a favor. But again, that’s a matter of person taste and you own individual relationship with them. Those are my thoughts on the matter for today. Feel free to PM me with any questions. I love teaching.
