a lot of people "reclaiming" the r slur ... really cannot reclaim it, i think . like, yeah you're neurodivergent, whatever . but you are not intellectually disabled . which is the group the r slur refers to . u aren't "reclaiming" it ur collecting it like pokemon & using it as a slur against other people. or just for attention! ur like "ugh what a [r slur]" and when people get mad ur like "well i can reclaim" even if u COULD reclaim that's not what ur doing, you're upsetting people on purpose to get a reaction.
also i don't think i've ever seen a person with an ID say they reclaim it . it really doesn't seem like a word that is being reclaimed at all or that should be reclaimed. the only people i see "reclaiming" it are non intellectually disabled neurodivergent people, and i think that says something. specifically it says that people should stop saying it.













