Unknown_Ace

My name is K.C ♥️ Aro/Ace my main account is Half-bloodhero wolf board was made by @lgbtq-chaotic-moodboards-group

[basementtreasure]

been thinking about appearances and stuff

[of-aurora]

Reblog if you're not homophobic

Every url that reblog’s will be written in a book and shown to my homophobic dad. 

[pyros-random-thoughts]

Get your pen out

[darling-has-a-smol-heart]

Tell him to buy some extra pens

[gundhambestboi]

Get some more environmentally friendly paper

[siriusblackinskirts-deactivated]

rip the trees ayeee

[kc475]

I got a flag!!!

[planchettezzz]

[rjalker]

(Image description is here! Please feel free to edit into the original post, no credit needed, and if someone can tell me the names of the flags I don’t recognize, I will edit them into this!)

[ID: White bubble letters against ten different pride flags. The text reads, “Someone Elses Identity Cannot Invalidate Your Own.”

The flags all have horizontal stripes. The colors are listed from top to bottom.

Flag 1: An mspec lesbian flag: Purple, magenta, orange, yellow, blue, and light green.

Flag 2: An mspec gay flag:  Watermelon pink, lime green, turquoise, purple, and light purple.

Flag 3: The bi flag: red, purple, and dark blue.

Flag 4: The pan flag: Magenta, yellow, and light blue.

Flag 5: The poly flag: Magenta, leaf green, and sky blue.

Flag 6: The omni flag: Light pink, bubblegum pink, very dark blue, blue, and very light blue.

Flag 7: The abrosexual flag: Light green, very light green, white, pale pink, and red-pink.

Flag 8: The quadsexual flag: cornflower blue, very pale blue, seafoam green, very pale seafoam green, very pale yellow, yellow, very pale yellow, pale pink, red, very pale blue, and cornflower blue.

Flag 9: A lesbian flag: Red, orange, white, pale purple-pink, and red-purple.

Flag 10: A gay flag: green, seafoam green, very pale green, white, pale blue, blue, and dark blue.

End ID.]

[ace-culture-is]

Ace culture is feeling great knowing you are ace, proud even, but now looking at the romantic and gender part of yourself and say "now, what am i supposed to do with you two"

[kc475]

💛 This is the Amazing Person Award! Once you are given this award you are supposed to paste it in the ask box of eight different people, who, in your opinion, deserve it. If you break the chain nothing will happen, but it is sweet to know someone thinks you’re amazing inside and out. 💛

Aww thx! U guys are amazing too!

[kc475]

HOW DO PPL GET PARTNERS?!

Like I'm just in a corner casually going through life and then oh guess what my friend got a girlfriend...

Few months later they break up...

Another couple months... oh guess what he got a new girlfriend

Like how!?

What is your secret?!

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.

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Actually a better question is HOW DO YOU GET FRIENDS IRL?!

Idk. It's late, I'm tired and my characters are making me jealous.

[musicbasedmind]

reblog if you’re a safe place for:

lesbian

gay

bisexual

transgender

queer

pansexual

demisexual

ace

hopeless romantics

cis-men

cis-women

non binary folks

the whole spectrum etc…

follow everyone who reblogs ;)

[cocokittys-blog]

In open to all

[b00bconnoisseur]

Also reblog if your blog is NOT for

Pedos

MAPS

Anyone like that etc.

[lidrens]

And if if your blog is NOT a place for:

nazis and fascists

racists

trump supporters

overall dictatorship supporters

terfs and truscums

[the-ineffable-ace]

And if your blog is NOT a place for:

sugar daddies and sugar mommies looking for sugar babies

Sugar daddies, stay away from my lovely aces(and ace allies).

I have been deleting sugar daddy comments in my comment section

[queenjulia24]

HOLD UP HOW WAS I NOT AWARE OF THIS

[lichpire]

was gonna leave my comment in the tags but tbh i’m silent enough about this as it is.

seeing stuff like this is so upsetting because these terms were well known and widespread in the ace community but because of exclusionists many people stopped using terms like this because they felt uncomfortable and unsafe.

i loved these terms when i was in highschool, i loved the feeling of community, but i lost that because i didn’t feel comfortable openly and proudly calling myself asexual.

they’ve hurt so many people and damaged our community badly and i will never forgive them for that. we deserve to use our own terminology and feel safe within our community.

[atasteforsuicidal]

sometimes i notice i haven’t seen “grace” (grey-ace) in a while and consequently wonder if i made it up.

[slenders1ckn3ss]

I remember ppl - even other ace ppl - saying the card suit thing was “cringey” and “straight ppl aren’t gonna take us seriously” (sounds familiar?) So i guess the community wound up abandoning it. We were also having severe issues at the time with aces being stereotyped as “childish/immature” for associating things like cake, dragons, and space with asexuality, plus in general as most aces just don’t “get” allosexual things in media and irl. We were starting to be viewed as ignorant, virginal, childish, losers, etc. I haven’t seen an ace-cake thing in a good while now.

This was the infancy of exclusionary influence on us. I didn’t realize it did more damage than just closeting us. Whole symbols and terms have been lost. Community has been lost.

[cobraonthecob]

I remember three-four years ago I got myself into the ace community on Insta, and I came across these terms. People in these circles would talk about cake, space, dragons, and the black ring on the middle finger. Then, a year or two later, ace content fizzled out (I thought it was Insta’s algorithm figuring out that I knew all this and didn’t bring me the old stuff) and young aces had no idea what any of these were - including the black ring. Finding out young aces had no idea what the black ring meant nearly snapped my heart in two - I proudly wore the black ring, I drew characters with it, and it was my quiet way of communicating to others what my sexuality was. I was baffled at the lack of knowledge - and it turns out that exclusionists got their hands into our community and snuffed us out. 

Anyways, we need to bring this back. I thought the card suite thing was cool, it taught people the different ways people can experience attraction, I loved making jokes about preferring cake, I loved wearing the black ring and talking about it with my fellow queer people at my highschool QSA club. 

[kriss-watches-stuff]

I’m sorry, people don’t know about the cake or ring anymore? I remember being welcomed with spams of cake gifs, photos, and MS Paint drawings. I also distinctly remember that the block solo ring in the midle was meant as reference to the Ace of Spades (black, solo, middle of card). Only thing I didn’t know was that other aces could represent a more refined nuance. Let’s see if we can get this all rolling again.

Welcome to anyone who is interested in helping with the culture revival.

[duskydestra]

…I have missed out on so much. I knew ace exclusion was happening on here and managed to keep it off my dash for years. The downside was that I didn’t see most of these customers (the black ring, space ace, the other suits, etc.) from my own community.

That woulda been cool as shit!

I remember the cake and hearing about the Ace of Spades, but that’s it. Everything else in this post is news to me.

But now that I do know, I’ll be sharing this with my ace friends and using Ace of Diamonds.

[halfblood-hero-deactivated20230]

Let’s bring our culture back!

[permanentcoldhands]

All m-specs are valid. Don't you forget that

[boykeats]

what emotion do you write from

homosexuality

[coffeelovinggayidiot]

IF YOU FEEL REALLY REALLY QUEER BUT ONLY SHOW IT ON TUMBLR FOR FEAR OF BEING JUDGED BY YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS CLAP YOUR HAND

[oncelerfucker69-deactivated2019]

Ted bundy isn't ugly, you're just a lesbian

Congratulations, this is the worst ask I’ve ever gotten

[hollowboobtheory]

reblog if you’re a lesbian, support lesbians, or think ted bundy is ugly

[halfblood-hero-deactivated20230]

Girls are cute, guys are cute and everyone else is cute and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

[cr0wbonezz-wr1ting-inc]

asexuals arent real though?? they dont want to have sex which is weird and should be checked by a doctor

the reason we get put on the earth is to procreate, asexuals are defying God's will

DUDE !!!!!

ASEXUALS DEFY GOD???? YOOOOOOOO

get off my blog u loser

[mrdyketator]

Fuck off, asexuals ARE gods.

[halfblood-hero-deactivated20230]

fuck u anon.

[addigni]

Reblog if you genuinely support asexuals

It terrifies me that there’s so much raging passion in the lgbt+ community that insist on marginalizing asexuals and implying that asexuals don’t deserve to have safe spaces. There’s still so much acephobia so I just wanna know which blogs are genuinely supportive and a safe space for asexuals

[haechelios]

seeing this post after being exposed to acephobia is a huge serotonin boost THANK YOU 💗💓💗💖💓

[galadriels-hair]

*half heart with index and middle finger*

[sprachtraeume]

rb to make a trans person feel loved 💕