Gabe

he/him | 19 | I’m a man

[keigoblr]

Honestly this account drains me so bad that I’m straight up abandoning it. The account will still be up but I’m going to be logging out and not posting or replying to anything anymore. No tags on this because it’s not a big thing I just want this post to be here for anyone who stumbles across my blog in the future so they know they won’t be getting a response. Goodbye.

[keigoblr]

coming back to this momentarily to mention that a lot of you deserve to be hit by a bus by aspec people for thee absolutely braindead bullshit you pull, goodbye.

[keigoblr]

This is why I haven’t been on here a lot recently because you people (tumblr users) are the most fucking exhausting people to interact with on the internet I’ve ever encountered and that’s saying a fucking lot.

[keigoblr]

You seem like someone who should go follow and interact with abearinthewoods. The guy that exclusively targets 19 year old autistic women for ageplay and rape fantasies and spends his free time trying to court the approval of kiwifarms users by saying "nigger" upon request like a dancing monkey!

?? Why would I do that? I’ve actively denounced that guy but if this is you trying to compare me to him then I’d like to know what gave you that idea besides “trans man says something I don’t like” because I’ve quite literally have never targeted anyone on this blog let alone an autistic trans woman with those fetishes. Nor have I ever used that word in order to try and garner anyone’s approval or for any other reason so please tell me why you believe I’d be someone who would like to interact with that asshole.

[keigoblr]

I’m sorry but the way some people who aren’t trans men on here genuinely speak about us like we’re completely dumb and incapable of having as deep of an understanding of gender, especially our OWN gender, as they have makes me so fucking angry because I know deep down they’re just itching to call us stupid girls or tboys or cuntboys or whatever the “totally not transphobic word for trans men that I’m gonna use instead of just saying trans men” of the day is.

[keigoblr]

Okay TW: gross or whatever

Something no one tells you about having large breasts (DDD or E in my case) and actively binding, is that everything is so close together and so restricted for so long, especially if you wear them daily, that it’s likely you will get an underchest yeast infection. It’s especially likely if you live in a hotter climate or if you do work where you sweat a lot because yeasts forte is dark damp crevices which is exactly what your underchest area is going to be like if you’re sweating in a binder. I personally have had multiple yeast infections since I started binding and I was incredibly embarrassed about it because I had literally never heard of someone having an underchest yeast infection before and I ultimately chalked it up to meaning I was unhygienic which is just borderline not the case. I would suggest if you can to wear a more breathable material when binding, something like cotton would be ideal or even a binder with a cotton lining. I would also recommend to make sure you’re completely dry after showering because even the lingering water under your chest makes it an ideal place for yeast growth, and if you have to you can also use a drying powder like baby powder if you’re prone to sweating a lot. Also to my fat friends on here (I am too) please be sure to take measures to make sure any and all folds on your body are completely dry after showering as these make ideal spots for yeast infections as well! This goes for anyone of course but especially us fat folks.

Symptoms of a non-vaginal yeast infection include a rash with redness and skin breakdown, Patches that ooze clear fluid, pimples, and Itching or burning.

I know yeast infections aren’t some big life changing event but they are a bitch to take care of and it’s common that once you get a yeast infection they may reoccur pretty regularly so just like… take care of yourself because the itchiness, flakiness, redness, and blisters really are not worth it.

Source for the symptoms, also includes symptoms of other types of yeast infections. https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/candidiasis-yeast-infection

[cericertain]

be careful of powder tho y'all. make sure you know the ingredients!! some of that shit is NOT safe (cancer causing powders r out there), and also some of it you shuldnt put on if you already have skin issues there.

[keigoblr]

Sorry for the insta fast reblog but this also! I’d only recommend using powders if they’re reputable and you should 100% check online for anything like that! Also it’s best to only use powders on the area after the yeast infection has already cleared in order to prevent future ones.

[keigoblr]

Something no one tells you about having large breasts (DDD or E in my case) and actively binding, is that everything is so close together and so restricted for so long, especially if you wear them daily, that it’s likely you will get an underchest yeast infection. It’s especially likely if you live in a hotter climate or if you do work where you sweat a lot because yeasts forte is dark damp crevices which is exactly what your underchest area is going to be like if you’re sweating in a binder. I personally have had multiple yeast infections since I started binding and I was incredibly embarrassed about it because I had literally never heard of someone having an underchest yeast infection before and I ultimately chalked it up to meaning I was unhygienic which is just borderline not the case. I would suggest if you can to wear a more breathable material when binding, something like cotton would be ideal or even a binder with a cotton lining. I would also recommend to make sure you’re completely dry after showering because even the lingering water under your chest makes it an ideal place for yeast growth, and if you have to you can also use a drying powder like baby powder if you’re prone to sweating a lot. Also to my fat friends on here (I am too) please be sure to take measures to make sure any and all folds on your body are completely dry after showering as these make ideal spots for yeast infections as well! This goes for anyone of course but especially us fat folks.

Symptoms of a non-vaginal yeast infection include a rash with redness and skin breakdown, Patches that ooze clear fluid, pimples, and Itching or burning.

I know yeast infections aren’t some big life changing event but they are a bitch to take care of and it’s common that once you get a yeast infection they may reoccur pretty regularly so just like… take care of yourself because the itchiness, flakiness, redness, and blisters really are not worth it.

Source for the symptoms, also includes symptoms of other types of yeast infections. https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/candidiasis-yeast-infection

[velvetvexations]

I wasn't going to comment on Thicced-Witch going full Transandro Space Lasers but now she is just outright uhhh

uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

oh jeezy weezy

this is a lot

[velvetvexations]

no yeah to be one hundred percent clear this is an extremely predictable breakdown and as much if not even worse than what's actually happening here is that so many people indulged her to own the transandrobros when she badly needs help and that's been evident for months

[keigoblr]

“Why are you misgendering someone?” “Oh because *I* know for certain that this *COMPLETE STRANGER* on the internet doesn’t identify the way they claim to so *I* get to misgender them, no im not a transphobe why do you ask?”

[keigoblr]

People attacking trans men over the term ‘transemasculation’ talking about how we just want to be special when we didn’t even make that fucking term YOU DID. We didn’t want to use that term no trans man I know wants to use that term a trans man didn’t even coin that term, a trans woman did, and you’re still fucking making it a way to attack us I’m so fucking tired of this app.

[baeddel-doc]

I've only seen one literal zionist that was in the discourse, and he hasn't been in it for a while. Please! Tell me where all these zionists transandrobros are! Because honestly, you're just making yourself antisemitic when you throw around "zionist" like that. What next? Gonna call us globalists? Lizard people? You gonna say Jewish men menstruate??? Because that honestly fits in line with your constant antisemitism and transandrophobia.

[keigoblr]

At some point we have to accept that when these people say ‘Zionists’ they just mean Jews. No im not saying all or even most Jews are Zionists, I’m Jewish and I’m strictly anti-Zionist, what I am saying is that these specific people who say things like this see these valid criticisms and hatreds of Zionists and zionism and go “oh! An excuse to hate Jewish people under the guise of being progressive!” Because people who say things like this do not think Jewishness and Zionism are separate entities they believe they’re inherently intwined and that the anti-Zionism conversation that’s been happening recently is a valid excuse for them to be antisemitic.

[selenophobic-werewolf]

"Disabled people can do everything abled people can!1!1!!" I'm gonna have to ask you what you think disabled means

[keigoblr]

Honestly I think often times in my life when people have said this to me it’s been from a place of ignorance, not in a hatred way but just genuinely uninformed to the topic. I think a lot of able bodied people genuinely think that no matter what disability you have or how high your support needs are if you just try hard enough you can do everything they can. Every single time I have been told this whether it came from a truly good place in that persons heart or not all it has only ever made me feel unheard. “I genuinely cannot go do what you want me to do I’m disabled” “oh but if you try hard enough you can do everything an abled person can” you’re straight up just not listening to me and discounting everything I say because you feel like somehow though your magical abled abilities you know the extent of my disability better than I do. I understand sometimes people say this in a way to be supportive but it doesn’t make me or any other disabled person I know feel supported it makes me feel patronized.

[asterosian]

So this is where we’re at now.

Having a headcanon that a character is transmasc or a trans man is now Bad. Seeing yourself, your struggles, your perspectives and experiences, any of that, in a character is bad because you are a man or person whose gender is more masculine and you were AFAB.

But also there’s very few trans guy characters at all ever. Because erasure is a thing.

So you’re just not allowed to see yourself in fiction at all.

But also can I just say this was done in the ace discourse too and a bit when people were discoursing about bi people too? That character can’t be a trans guy, this is misogyny/transmisogyny. That character can’t be ace or aro, this is homophobia/lesbophobia! That character can’t be bi, compulsory heterosexuality and lesbophobia! Are we not supposed to see a pattern here? The moment it becomes trendy to shit on a specific part of the queer community then it’s suddenly an act of bigotry towards somebody else if that part of the queer community starts thinking maybe a fictional character is like them? You are all repetitive.

[trans-androphobe]

brandon teena. roberto gonzález onrubia. yampi mendez arocho. mel groves. dustin parker. kenneth bostick. tony mcdade. kashmire nazier redd. unnamed trans man attacked after pride (video warning). mar’quis 'mj' jackson. daniel ashton. semaj billingslea. aaron lynch. ray muscat. matthew angelo spampinato. ej boykin. camdyn rider. onyx john. ever albarrán. mateo lópez mejía. ekai lersundi. iván. rodrigo ventosilla. sebastián marallano. tiago de silva. caio linhares. luis ángel díaz castro. lucas peres. malte c. corei. morgan moore. jean thomas butchart. manuel esteban paez terán. banko brown. codii lawrence. nex benedict. righteous torrence "chevy" hill. ray muscat. jacob williamson. jason pulman. charlie millers. gracen coon.

emmett brock. noah ruiz. andrew blake newton. edward de lacy evans. harcourt payne. estéfano gonzález. tehuel de la torre.

[thesuncantreachyouhere]

the fact that people are genuinely, unironically arguing against the idea that you should listen to transmascs about the oppression they face is so funny to me

i cannot imagine telling a whole minority "we know your oppression better than you" because that just sounds like plain old bigotry to me

but dont worry, transmascs definitely dont face misogyny, even when people are telling them that they don't understand their own experiences, and they need to have their oppression explained to them because they're too simple to understand it themselves

[thekaratcake-blog]

Is this happening? Is there someone I can go to see examples of this, if it is happening it seems like only transmascs can see it at the moment, which means other people who read this are likely lost, it would be helpful if at least someone could either actually show examples of what they're talking out against, or make a repository of this sort of behaviour to guide people to so they can see things from a different perspective

[thesuncantreachyouhere]

the repository is the transandrophobia tag in which i posted this, if you dont get the post then thats a sign you should dig into the topic further yourself, i dont need to do your homework for you

[thekaratcake-blog]

The tag is a repository of people making claims things are happening, not showing that they are happening, I did dig further myself, including a bunch of my trans masc friends, and everyone that's not on tumblr in these specific circles is telling me that they have no idea what y'all mean and that this sort of shit is just not happening on anywhere near the scale people on this tag say it is, I'm sure it happens but this idea of an attack on transmascs by the larger queer community doesn't seem to exists anywhere else on internet and according to everyone in these communities I ask outside of people hanging around in these specific circles, it's just not happening I think y'all have been radicalized by people like that genderqueerdykes or whatever the account was that talks almost exclusively about attacks on you and other people who identify the same as they do and making insane reaches to justify calling normal behaviour attacks, to believe that there's some widespread hate movement that just isn't happening

[thesuncantreachyouhere]

hold up wait did you seriously see a post that said STOP TELLING TRANSMASCS THAT THEIR OPPRESSION ISNT HAPPENING and then decide to say that it doesnt happen? are you serious right now? why the fuck did i even dignify this with a response holy shit you are literally doing it right now. bestie the repository is you

[intersex-ramona-flowers]

not to derail here, i am not trying to dominate the conversation. just more so (handshake) solidarity.

this person is an absolute troll. they've been doing this in my (re: the intersex) community as well. almost word for word, "this doesn't happen! prove it! well, it doesn't happen IRL!" they're a bullshitter. they're constantly derailing conversations. they reek of a 4channer trying to bait & shitstir.

they told an intersex blogger they were "demonizing normal behavior" re infant genital mutilation. another intersex blogger was accused of "making the queer community seem evil." and that she "was taking it too far" pointing out intersexism. their reactions are all troll shit. this person is a bad actor.

anyways i am not transmasc and i have witnessed with my own two eyeballs people treating all transmasculinity as lesser than, "girls playing dress up" or "trans lite" or "lesbians being butch" among other heinous things.

so if anyone who is reading this is not a troll and genuinely just thinks like this you need to pull your head out of your ass and start listening to members of your community who aren't people like yourself. if you don't see a problem in the community you're likely not impacted by it so why would it be visible to you? listen to other people talk about it though and you start to see that shit everywhere. engage in good faith and you might learn something.

this is coming from someone who did this for YEARS IN REAL LIFE. i did workshops on intersexism in my early adulthood. i got paid. it was my job. i was asked to come to queer events, schools, queer-run summer camps.

and the way i see people talking about transmisandry/antitransmasculinity/transandrophobia is the same way people talked to and about me for discussing intersexism in my community in. real. life. and i don't fucking buy into it. don't demonize and vilify people for telling you to do better. don't tell them their lived experience "isn't happening" or that you know their lived experience better than they do. and don't assume it's a pain/trauma olympics thing. that's reactionary bullshit that stops you from just listening. and all people are asking you to do is listen & learn.

[keigoblr]

Thank you for this! This person went under a post of mine where I was talking about transmasculine peoples concerns about passing and such not being taken seriously accusing me of making things up, telling me that I was in an echo chamber, and the ended the post by essentially making the dismissive attitude of the rest of the queer community my fault by going “well why don’t you surround yourself with better people?”. They were also telling me I was spreading ‘misinformation’ for talking about my own lived experiences and then ending it with this, and I quote “I think it says more about the people you spend time around than the community as a whole”.

[keigoblr]

I genuinely just don’t want to hear you talk if every single one of your posts is fighting about which type of queer person has it the worst, I just don’t. Especially if you’re literally white, able bodied, cis, or whatever the hell else I just do not want to hear it. Yes talk about your oppression and how it effects you PLEASE do that but don’t do it by going “well us ABC’s have it so much worse than XYZ’s so they don’t even deserve to complain about queerphobia” don’t fucking do that it doesn’t make people want to listen to you. It just doesn’t.

[keigoblr]

Some of you people genuinely think you’re incapable of doing harm or even being wrong because of your marginalized gender identity and it’s so fucking annoying. No not everyone who disagrees with you is ‘villainizing you because you’re trans’ you’re just fucking wrong and I wish you would shut the fuck up you’re not innately incapable of doing harm because you identify a certain way stop making shit up.

[keigoblr]

Nothing has ever made me more passively angry and suicidal than this app and the dumb fucking people who use it