Hey ! From what I read your living in korea si I was asking myself how was the life there. Is it hard to get along with Korean people and how is your lifestyle is it hard to adjust yourself to there culture? I'm sorry if I ask to much I'm curious
Hope you don't mind me answering this question publicly, but in answering this I think I covered some things other people have asked me about too.
Life as a foreigner in Korea is going to have its ups and downs, and it does. But I would say overall the experience is an incredibly good one. If you keep yourself open to new ideas and experiences you should have very few problems. I think a lot of the stress that people feel teaching in Korea comes from the fact that Korea is such a fast moving nation and so schedules can change at the last minute. I try to always have a back-up lesson or activity in case there's a last minute class change and I don't take it personally if there's a class cancellation.
As for getting along with Korean people, I think a lot of the same things apply. Koreans are a very diverse group of people, even though the nation is fairly homogeneous. I live in a rural city and so a lot of people living here have a limited exposure to foreigners. It means that I feel some responsibility to not fall into the stereotypes, which can be some extra pressure when you're out in public, but I find that people are, on the whole, incredibly nice and try to work with you if you're having trouble. My experience has been that as long as you are respectful you get repaid 10 fold.
My lifestyle in Korea is pretty relaxed. It's been hectic these past couple months with the provincial cuts and trying to find a new teaching job before the start of the next semester, but that's a exception to the norm. If you do/can do all your lesson planning at school, then your time outside of your work is all your own. There are a lot of holidays that give you half or a whole day off, and if your principal is kind, they sync up with the weekend to let you go on bigger trips. Our city has an amazing group of foreign teachers and we do a lot of activities together, from pub quizzes to weekend trips. Travel in Korea is pretty cheap, so if you want you can go to a different city every weekend without going broke. I would say that I am doing some kind of activity nearly every weekend and do many things during the week after work.
Finally, culture adjustments. Korean culture is a great mix of older traditions and hyper modern. Most of the major western culture comforts are a big deal in Korea too. I would say that the biggest adjustments for me culture-wise have been the following:
1. You are not expected to eat all of the food you are given. This has been the hardest habit for me to break.
2. "Okay okay okay". This expression sounds to an English speaker like a dismissive or patronizing reply to a question, but actually means, "That's right!" or "You got it!"
3. This is a little grosser, but in most bathrooms you do not flush your toilet paper. The pipes in many buildings are too old and are easily clogged, so you throw your toilet paper into the basket next to the toilet. It is the one thing I will not miss when I go home.
4. Related to that, many bathrooms, even public bathrooms, will not have their own toilet paper or paper towels. It's best to always keep a tissue pack on hand because even if there was toilet paper there last time, that's not a guarantee that it'll be there the next time.
5. How physical friendships of the same gender are. Now I say this was a big adjustment, but I find it to be one of the greatest things about making friends with Koreans. If you become close to any Koreans, you'll find that they will often hold your hand or touch you in some way to let you know that they feel a connection to you. A hand on a shoulder before you go in for an open class or holding your hand on the way to meet a new principal goes a long way.And even with your students, the ones that like you will come up and take your hand when they want to talk to you. I have been really moved when I a student I didn't think particularly cared for my class came up to talk to me and took my hand. It showed that he really cared and respected me and it will stick with me for the rest of my life.
Hope that answered your questions? If I missed anything or you want more information, feel free to ask me, I'm happy to respond.










