actually insane how many people are in the notes of lrb making it about anything but transmisogyny. yes it hurts to be treated like a misguided woman by cis people when you're nonbinary, no it is not even remotely equivalent to being perceived as a rapist-in-waiting by not just cis people but also tme trans people who claim to be in community with you
when you are presented with the concept of people viewing all nonbinary people as either "silly girls" or "dangerous sexual predators deserving of social and physical violence" your first read on the situation should not be "oh no!! they're imposing a binary!!"























