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“Ever since I was young, I never really understood anything about the world, and I never understood anything that happened in my life. The only thing that ever made sense to me was you, and how I felt about you.”

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I've felt compelled to delve into certain topics and explore opinions on them lately. I feel kind of like a therapist or counselor now. Ah well, just go with it. Or don't, that's fine too. :) I think this is incredibly important because so many relationships seem to be centered around the physical and its so much better to be with someome that will make you ponder things and give you different perpectives and new insight. If you aren't with someone on the same intelligence plane as you or higher, then what do you really have to talk about? What do you really learn from one another. I'm not saying it should feel like school, but what topics can you really discuss with someone otherwise? Anyway, having been involved with someone with very little soulful interaction and more physical has taught me some things. 1. Unless you establish a deep and mutual understanding with that person, it will be nothing more than two people that touch eachother, but don't really know eachother. 2. If that person insults you (not jokingly, and even that is pushing it sometimes) they don't love you. Its harsh, but I don't see how attacking someone's personality or looks is affectionate in any way. 3. The first time a guy hurts you physically should be the last time. Of course, if they do or say something wrong and are truly sorry, they should be forgiven. But if it gets to the point of physical abuse, that would be the time to step back, and think about being involved with them. Yes, people typically hurt people because they're dealing with junk too. But if they're taking it out on you, they are not stable enough emotionally and mentally to be in a relationship at the moment, and should step back to deal with their issue. 4. Even if you're involved with someone, but they touch you in a way you don't like and have told them not to (repeatedly) it leans more towards molesting and abuse and not something done out love and an expression of mutual attraction. 5. If they nag you constantly to sext them, don't give in. I know, common sense. But you'd be surprised what someone will do when they just want to get someone off their back. As usual, disreguard if you want. 😎

Since its Suicide Prevention Day, I decided to say something (even though its kind of ooc for me). I hope that this day raises awareness for people struggling with thoughts and encouragements to kill themselves, but its important to realize why people consider it. They aren't taking the coward's way out and they aren't selfish. When they spend even half of a lifetime drowning in darkness, the only thing they have to cling to is death, their form of escape. I'm sure they take their family and friends - if they have any - into consideration before ending it all. But sometimes depression devours and consumes people until they they are so deep in the dark that they no longer see any other way. It can be a struggle to avoid self-harming let alone ending their life, and they often don't do it for attention. My point in this long post is to not only take part in this day, but to remind you to look at it in a different light. Keep in mind that not everyone thinks the same and a mass majority of people hate themselves beyond belief. If you know of someone that is self harming or thinking about killing themselves, don't just tell them to stop. Quitting is harder than it sounds and self-harming is just ias addicting as alcohol and narcotics. They're all difficult to stop, people go through withdrawls, and the problem has to be stopped at the source. Instead, think of ways to encourage them (only if its sincere), show them rather than tell them how much you care (odds are, they won't believe it if you just say something), and if they're willing to answer, ask them why they do it. In order for them to quit, they have to deal with the issue that lead to their decision to begin with; mental disorder, self-hatred, or hating how their life has gone. Of course I can't tell you what to do. But, I decided to say something because its incredibly important to me and I've had to deal with it just like a lot of people. That tis all :)