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SEPT 15 / 21
the first week back to school has been tiring but exciting! I feel my bujo spreads have been lacking but look at these duck stickers !!
Looking for self-teachers
Hi friends! I know itâs an odd title so bare with me, Iâll try to explain.
Iâm looking for a group/community, or just fellow people, who are not formally enrolled in school but are still âstudents,â whether it be through free online classes, Youtube videos, etc. Subject does not matter!
Is there a name or tag for this? Iâve been out of the studyblr game for a while so I wouldnât be surprised if Iâve missed something :)
If you know of any studyblrâs who fit this category of self teacher, please let me know! Iâd love to connect with other adults who are just trying to become a lil bit smarter in this whacky world.
Thank you in advance; love & miss you all <3
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omg haha barely!!!
iâve been going through the SHITS since 2014 but heyo look at me now, 133 days sober and getting my shit back together lol
thank u for checking on me stranger, canât believe ppl still think of me
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quick hello; my name is kimberly + i am a 22 year old in my first year of community college, studying to get my associates of science transfer degree with a focus on computer science.
please like or reblog if youâre a studyblr, iâd love to grow my feed!
100 Delicious, Dirt-Cheap Recipes for the Starving Student
Most students donât have a lot of cash to spend on food, but that doesnât mean you have to go hungry. With the right recipes and some kitchen savvy, you can eat great even on a studentâs budget. Here weâll share 100 tasty recipes that you can make on the cheap. Along with saving money on meals, budget-savvy students can also save big on a college education by attending inexpensive online colleges.
Breakfast
Get a good start to your day with these cheap-o breakfasts.
Hash browns: Hash browns are cheap and easy to make, and cheaper than a trip to IHOP.
Puff pastry chicken and bacon: You can make bacon and chicken in puff pastry using this recipe.
Microwave scrambled eggs: Make scrambled eggs in the microwave with this recipe.
Breakfast burritos: You can make these burritos ahead for a quick microwave breakfast.
Onion quiche: This quiche makes a delicious, incredibly cheap breakfast.
Omelet in a bag: Boil eggs and some handy ingredients for this simple, cheap omelet.
Frittata: Add eggs to cheese, vegetables, and herbs you have handy in your fridge to make a frittata.
Ramen
A college staple gets dressed up in these recipes.
Antipasto ramen salad: With ramen, pepperoni, black olives, onion, and Italian dressing, youâll find yourself with a great ramen salad.
Beef & Broccoli Stir Fry Ramen: This dish makes a delicious stir fry from ramen.
Chinese style ramen with veggies: Make your ramen a little bit healthier with some vegetables added in.
Ramen noodle alfredo: Turn your ramen noodles Italian with this recipe.
Beef & Broccoli Ramen: Add some meat and veggies to your ramen to make this dish.
Spring ramen salad: Take a fresh approach to ramen with recipe.
Hamburger ramen: Ground beef with ramen makes for a great meal.
Chicken hollandaise ramen: Add chicken and hollandaise to your ramen for this meal.
Egg drop noodle soup: Youâll combine ramen, eggs, and flour to make this tasty soup.
Lo mein ramen: Follow this recipe for ramen lo mein style.
Creamy veggies and ramen: Add celery soup and vegetables to ramen, and youâll have a great meal.
Pasta ramen salad: Use ramen as the base to make this delicious pasta salad.
Sandwiches
Use these recipes to step up your sandwiches.
Hot Dog Egg Sandwich: Get a good portion of protein and flavor from this sandwich.
Egg Salad Sandwich: Cook up some hard boiled eggs for a cheap, tasty sandwich thatâs really versatile.
Monte Cristo Sandwich: This sandwich is a delicious hybrid of grilled ham, cheese, and french toast.
Grilled chicken and apple sandwich: This hot sandwich is healthy, affordable, and delicious.
Canned salmon sandwich: Add celery, horseradish, and swiss cheese for a delicious, healthy meal from a can.
Turkey, chutney and avocado grilled sandwich: This sandwich is an exotic, cheap treat.
Grilled Cheese Sandwich: The classic college staple, grilled cheese sandwiches pack a lot of flavor for very little cost.
One Pot
These simple recipes can be pulled off in one pot.
Creamy cauliflower soup: This vegetable soup is cheap, easy, and surprisingly tasty.
Cheap chili: Use chopped beef, tomatoes, and more for this cheap chili.
Butternut Squash Soup: Take advantage of cheap winter vegetables with this soup.
Slow cooker BBQ chicken: Combine cut up chicken with your favorite barbeque sauce for this recipe.
Crockpot lemon chicken: Get inexpensive cuts of chicken and make this lemony meal for lots of flavor without lots of money.
Minestrone soup: Eat this classic soup for a healthy, cheap meal.
Cheeseburger soup: This soup is hearty enough to be a meal.
Slightly Italian crockpot chicken recipe: With chicken, artichoke, onions, and spices, youâll get an Italian chicken meal in a slow cooker.
Cranberry pot roast: Beef roast and cranberries offer a lot of flavor in this crockpot meal.
Crockpot potato soup: Make this soup from chicken broth and potatoes.
Corn, Bacon, and Potato Chowder: This hearty chowder is great for winter eating.
Chilled avocado soup: Check out this recipe for a healthy, refreshing treat.
Slow cooker pulled pork: Make pork shoulder in the crock pot using this recipe.
Middle East Chicken Soup: This ethnic chicken soup is a cheap, tasty, treat.
Bean soup: In this bean soup recipe, youâll find lots of protein for just a little money.
Salads
Use these healthy recipes to make cheap, delicious salads.
Caesar salad: Combine romaine lettuce, parmesan cheese, croutons, and dressing for a classic salad.
Simple spinach salad: In this tasty salad youâll find sweet pears and spinach.
Bowtie Pasta Salad: Throw together some pasta, tomatoes, and other vegetables for this salad.
Cucumber salad: This salad is fresh, delicious, and cheap.
Caprese salad: This caprese salad is simple and delicious.
Chicken Caesar salad: Eat this recipe as a salad, or put it into a wrap for a healthy, cheap treat.
Simple green salad: Here youâll find a simple, inexpensive salad with great flavor.
Pecan mandarin orange salad: Get a bright and sweet salad from this recipe.
Cucumber salad with sour cream: This salad is cheap and refreshing.
Salmon orzo salad: With salmon filets, or even canned salmon, you can put together this salad treat.
Casserole
Youâll find delicious casseroles in these recipes.
OâBrien Casserole: Use OâBrien potatoes, beans, lean meat, and some veggies for a great potato casserole.
Baked Tuna Chow Mein Microwave Casserole: Pop this tuna casserole in the microwave for a quick meal.
Easy cheap casserole: This casserole combines easy, affordable ingredients.
Penne Pasta Casserole: Make this tasty pasta casserole for $3 or less.
Meatloaf: ground beef combined with ketchup, onions, and more makes a great meal for less than a dollar per serving.
Four Bean Casserole: This casserole is popular at potlucks and with barbequed meals.
Tuna casserole: With canned tuna, you can make a healthy, delicious tuna casserole on the cheap.
Pizza & Pasta
Get your grains with these recipes.
Microwave Mexican pizza: Use tortillas, cheese, salsa, and sour cream for this pizza.
Bagel pizza: Use this recipe to make pizza on a bagel.
Spaghetti: Pick up multigrain pasta with tomato sauce and mushroom for a big meal without a big budget.
Feast of Pasta: Create this casserole with pasta, onions, and other simple ingredients.
Shrimp with ricotta sauce on pasta: Upgrade your pasta dish with this recipe.
Easy calzones: Use cheese, vegetables, and pepperoni in these easy calzones.
Olio e Aglio Pasta: This side dish combines angel hair with oil and garlic.
Pasta salad: Combine your favorite pasta with salad dressing, and olives, vegetables, or herbs you have handy.
Pasta and Ricotta Cheese: This pasta favorite is a crowd pleaser.
Entrees
These recipes offer affordable main dishes.
Baked potato: Often served as sides, a baked potato can be the main dish-just add lean meat, beans, or chili.
Mexican hot dogs: This twist on hot dogs is extra delicious.
Chili: With beef, tomatoes, and beans, you can make a delicious chili.
Tuna patties: Put tuna, egg, relish, crumbs, salad dressing, and other simple ingredients together to create yummy tuna patties.
Cheap beef stroganoff: This recipe offers a cheap version of beef stroganoff.
Vegetarian chili: Use soy protein, tomatoes, and beans for a protein and fiber packed chili without any meat.
Eggplant parmesan: Eggplant parmesan makes a cheap and delicious vegetarian meal.
Vegetarian sweet and sour tofu: If youâre looking for a great vegetarian meal on the cheap, check out this recipe.
Parmesan chicken: With breadcrumbs, parmesan, and chicken, you can make this very tasty main dish.
BBQ chicken: Slather chicken with barbeque sauce, pop it in the oven, and enjoy.
Lemon Herb Roasted Chicken: Make some delicious chicken in a slow cooker with this recipe.
Salmon patties: Use canned salmon, bread crumbs, and other simple ingredients for this healthy, cheap dish.
Meatballs and orzo: Make these easy meatballs instead of using store bought frozen ones.
Sides
Use these recipes to complement your entrees on the cheap.
Buttered baby carrots: Sweet, tender carrots make up this side dish.
Roasted asparagus: Follow this simple recipe for a healthy, cheap vegetable side.
Spicy mac: Make macaroni and cheese with Taco Bell hot sauce.
Garlic toast: Use this recipe for delicious garlic bread that will please any taste.
Microwave macaroni and cheese: Make your own homemade mac and cheese in the microwave.
Pesto stuffed cherry tomatoes: Pesto, ricotta, and tomatoes come together for this delicious side thatâs great for potlucks.
Scalloped potatoes: These scalloped potatoes are easy and creamy.
Bean and rice salad: This salad is delicious and cheap.
Green beans amandine: With this recipe, you can omit almonds for even more money savings.
Onion scones: In these simple scones, youâll find lots of flavor.
Potato croquettes: These croquettes are a great way to use your leftover mashed potatoes.
Twice-baked potatoes (microwave): Make this cheap potato classic in the microwave for easy cooking.
Broccoli and cauliflower salad: This salad is cheap and packed full of nutrients.
Desserts
Satisfy your sweet tooth with these affordable dessert recipes.
Chocolate chip cookies: Create cookies with chocolate chips, M&Ms, nuts, or even pretzels with this recipe.
1 step brownies: Turn a chocolate box cake into simple, cheap brownies using this recipe.
Balsamic strawberries with marscapone cheese: A few delicious ingredients make for a tasty, cheap treat.
Cheap and quick cookies: This recipe will show you how to turn cake into cookies.
Lemonade pie: Simple ingredients go into this delicious, cheap pie.
Easy baked apples: Apples, brown sugar, cinnamon, butter, and raisins come together in this microwave recipe.
Super easy microwave peanut butter fudge: Only two simple ingredients to into this peanut butter fudge.
Expressing Your Emotions || ćć ăťăăăăăăťEmotions Hey guys, today Iâm going to list a couple different ways to express your emotions or feelings in conversation in Japanese! Adjectivesăťĺ˝˘ĺŽščŠăăăăăăă:
Amazingăťĺăăťăăă
Afraidăťăăă
BadăťćŞăăťăăă
Difficult (emotionally)ăťčžăăťă¤ăă
EmbarrassedăťćĽăăăăăťăŻăăăă
FunăťćĽ˝ăăăťăăŽăă
HappyăťĺŹăăăťăăăă
Jealousăťçž¨ăžăăăťăăăăžăă
Sadăťć˛ăăăťăăŞăă
One adjective which might appear often in conversation is the word ăă¤ăăăťă¤ăă¤ăťăă°ăăwhich can be used to express a few different emotions depending on the context. Iâve heard it used to express both positive and negative emotions/feelings/thoughts like: dangerous, terrible, crap, awful, amazing, wow, cool. NounsăťĺčŠăăăăă:
Angerăťćăăťăăă
Delight/Joyăťĺăłăťăăăăł
Emotionsăťćć ăťăăăăă
Feelingsăťć°ćăĄăťăăăĄ
Feeling/Moodăťć°ĺăťăăśă
Happinessăťĺš¸ăăťăăăă
Sadnessăťć˛ăăżăťăăŞăăż
Examplesăťäžăăăăďź
Below Iâm going to list a few examples of how to express your feelings in Japanese. Itâs important to know that you donât have to use ç§ăŻďźĺăŻďźäżşăŻďźetc. before stating your feeling because itâs obvious in the context that youâre expressing your own emotions!
AngryăťAnnoyed -
ă˛ăŠăďźăťYouâre awful/mean OR Thatâs awful!
ă˛ăŠăźăźăďźăťYouâre aaaawful! OR Thatâs aaaawful!
ă ăŤă¤ăďźăťăăă¤ăďźăťIâm pissed off.
ă¤ăŠă¤ăŠăăďźăťIâm irritatedďź
ăŚăśă¤ăťAnnoying!
ăĄăăŁăťăă§ăťtsk/Dang/Shoot
Confused -
ăŠăăăăďźăťWhat am I gonna do?
Difficult -
čžăăťă¤ăăăťItâs hard.
ăă¤ăăťItâs hard.
Embarrassed -
ăăźăćĽăăăăďźăťăăźăăŻăăăăďźăťIâm so embarrassed!
Happy -
ĺŹăăďźăťăăăăďźăťIâm happy!
ĺŹăăăŞăďźăťăăăăăŞăďźăťIâm so happy!
ăăźĺš¸ăďźăťăăźăăăăďźăťIâm so happy!
ăăŁăăďźăťYay!
ă¤ă§ăźă¤ďźăťYaaay!
漽ăăďźăť How fun!
漽ăăăă ďźăťWay too fun!
ăŻăŻăŻăŻăă ďźăťIâm getting excited!
ăăďźăťWow!
ăăăďźăťWowďźGreat!
ăăăźăďźăťWoow!
ăăăďźăťWow!
Jealous -
瞨ăžăăďźăťăăăăžăăďźăťIâm jealous!
瞨ăžăăâââďźăťăăăăžăăăźăźăźďźăťIâm soooo jealous!
Nervous -
ăăăăăăďźăťI feel nervous!
çˇĺźľăăďźăťăăăĄăăăăďźăťIâm nervous!
ä¸ĺŽăŤăŞăăťăľăăăŤăŞăăťIâm anxious
Nostalgic -
ćăăăďźăťăŞă¤ăăăďźăťThis brings back memories.
Relieved -
ĺŽĺżăăďźăťăăăăăăďźăťI feel relieved.
ăăăŁăďźăťWhew!
ăăźăăăăŁăďźăťIâm relieved!
SadăťLonely -
ć˛ăăďźăťăăŞăăďźăťIâm sad
泣ăăăăŞăďźăťăŞăăăăŞăďźăťI feel like crying!
ĺŻăăăťăăżăăďźăăłăăăťIâm lonely
ăăźăâŚăťOh wellâŚ
ăăăăťăăăăťSniffle
Scared -
ăłăăłăăťSymbolises being afraid or timid.
ăăăďźăťIâm scared!
ShockedăťSurprised -
ăăďźăťNo way!
ăă¸ďźăťăžăďźăťReally/No way/Seriously?
ăă¸ăăźďźăťăžăăăźďźăťReally/No way/Seriously?ă(a little masculine)
ăă¸ă§ďźăťăžăă§ďźăťReally?
ăăźăźďźăăăăă¸ă§ďźďźăťWhat? No way!
ăďźăťWhat?ďźReally?
ăăźďźăťWhat?ďźReally?
ăăźăźăŁďźďźăťWhat?ďźReally?
ăăăźďźăťOMG
ăăăťă¤ă¤ăťWhy?ďźOh
ăăăăăźăťWhyyy?
ăăăăŞăďźăťNo way!/I canât believe it!
俥ăăăăŞăďźăťăăăăăăŞăďźăťI canât believe it!
çăăăäťăŠăăŞć°ćăĄďź Everyone, how are you feeling right now?
things you will always have:
- sunrises and sunsets (new beginnings. new endings.)
- the night sky (even in the darkest of times, see beauty in things)
- new chances (to learn. to improve. just be patient)
Floral,summer inspired notesđ¸
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đť little habits/things to do more of đť
dailies
make your bed. (no, really.)
set your top 3 to-dos for the day.
do your top 3 to-dos for the day. (heh)
stretch.
unpack your bag when you get home.
prepare your things for the next day before sleeping.
skincare. (your basic cleanse and moisturize)
sweep the floor of your bedroom.
talk to your plants. (if you have plants)
update your financial report/expense tracker.
take a good photo.
meditate.
hug at least three people. (seriously.)
weeklies
polish your school shoes.
mop your bedroom floor.
dare i say, laundry. (donât put it off!)
exfoliate.
take a leisure walk.
review your past week and plan your next week accordingly. (a part of your routine may not be workingâtry something new)
make a piece of art. (a sketch, a collage, a quote in pretty lettering, a god-awful poem..)
sanitize your gadgets. (whip out the wet tissue and wipe away at your phone, your laptop, your mouse, your earphonesâjust donât forget to IMMEDIATELY follow that up with a dry cloth to prevent fogging and short circuits)
watch a TED Talk.
make a new playlist.
monthlies
wash your bag.
wash your shoes.
change the sheets of your bed and your pillows.
clip your nails. (honestly)
wax/shave. (if you want. i just really like how fresh my skin feels after i torture it with razors and wax strips)
wipe your shelves/the tops of your furniture clean. (try to avoid dusting. it just scatters the dirt everywhere. use a damp cloth instead)
see if thereâs anything in your storage that you donât need/want anymore and give stuff away or sell them.
review your month and plan the next one accordingly. (just like your weeks. remember to refer to your Life Goal/Yearâs Goals page)
finish reading at least one book. (and review it!)
discover new songs.
- đ
I feel like a lot of people have put immense pressure on themselves to accomplish/achieve something big during this quarantine so they don't "waste" time.
So many posts about how guilty they'll feel if they don't use this time to finally catch up on back-work, clean their house, organize, work, work, work.
Y'all need to remember that we're experiencing a global crisis, and to some degree, I think arguably a global trauma.
Right now, everything is uncertain, the future is vague, and the world is scary. We are all already under so much unprecedented pressure. Pressure to provide for ourselves and others, to stay safe, to keep others safe, etc. etc.
The LAST thing we need is to set ultimatums for our schedules and punish ourselves for not writing a damn book or reorganzing the garage all with the weight of Global Pandemic Crisis weighing on our minds and lives.
The truth is, no one needs to get a damn thing done during all of this except what concerns public health and services.
You don't need to clean the attic. You don't need to reply to all of your emails.
If doing those things makes you feel better, great! Have fun! But if they've become a tool for guilting yourself into being miserably "productive" in these trying times,
Give yourself a break.
tips to get your life back on track after a breakdownâ˘
sleep. your body needs to rest. the average panic attack takes as much energy as running a half-marathon. let yourself rest. take a 20 minute nap. any longer and youâll hit your REM cycle, and youâll wake up worse off. after, youâll feel so much better.
clean something. literally anything. a plate, a drawer, the whole mf bathroom. it doesnât matter how much or how little. itâll make you feel more in control, and itâll make your surroundings more appropriate for recovery.
get some fresh air. even just opening your window for a few hours will help. if you feel up to it, take a walk. take your dog. pick some flowers. cloudgaze. even just sit in your garden for a bit. your body will thrive off of non-stale air.Â
eat and drink. I know for some people, myself included, this is Hard. itâs alright if all you can manage is a granola bar, or some cereal. anything is progress and will fuel your body. drink water if you can, but anything apart from alcohol will hydrate you.
take a shower. I have clinical depression. have done since I was 12. I know how hard it is to take a shower. but it fucking helps. if you donât do anything else off this list, do this. itâll help more than you know.
talk to someone. I canât stress this enough. humans are social creatures! we crave interaction. even the most introverted introvert needs to talk to someone. call your mom. text a buddy. skype your brother. chat to your local cashier. anything !! youâll feel less alone, and hopefully get some good serotontitty flowing.
do something fun! same as above, itâll make u feel so much bette, and provide a distraction. some good options are writing, drawing, watching a movie, dancing - anything you enjoy!
be kind to yourself. itâs okay if you relapsed, or if you had a bad day, or anything else. treat yourself gently. you wouldnât so harsh to a friend in your situation. itâs gonna be okay.
if you canât do all of these, itâs okay. there are better days ahead. this, too, will pass.
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Are You Dissociating?
shadiobrando:
Dissociating is one of the most common responses to abuse and trauma. It involves feeling numb, detached or unreal and (while it happens to everyone once in a while) is experienced more frequently and severely in survivors. Dissociating people vary widely in symptoms and may experience any or all of the things from the following list:
You may be dissociating if you:
find yourself staring at one spot, not thinking anything
feel completely numb
feel like youâre not really in your body, like youâre watching yourself in a movie.
feel suddenly lightheaded or dizzy
lose the plot of the show or conversation you were focused on
feel as if youâre not quite real, like youâre in a dream
feel like youâre floating
suddenly feel like youâre not a part of the world around you
feel detached and far away from other people, who may seem mechanical or unreal to you
are very startled when someone/something gets your attention
completely forget what you were thinking just a moment ago
suddenly cover your face or react as if youâre about to be hurt for no reason
canât remember important information about yourself, like your age or where you live
find yourself rocking back and forth
become very focused on a small or trivial object or event
find that voices, sounds or writing seem far away and you sometimes have trouble understanding them
feel as if youâve just experienced a flashback (perhaps rapidly) but you canât remember anything about it
perceive your body as foreign or not belonging to you
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