kk-is-not-ok

she/her/hers-kk-lesbian

[catchymemes]

[fettuccin-alfredo]

kinky boots

[kind-demons]

care bears grow up so fast 😳

[pinkfemme-deactivated20210608]

Hi, so like 1) I really love you and your blog. And 2) I've been dying to use your ask box so here it is. I'm a lesbian who is a bigender (identifying as male and female) female and I'm also polyamorous. Recently, I became attracted to not only females but trans males. Though, because of me being a lesbian, I was getting hateful comments and sayings that me being attracted to transgender men is transphobic. I would like your opinion on this.

i don’t think you’re gonna like my answer at all:

lesbians cannot identify as men! bigender people can be lesbians as long as they do not identify as man-aligned in any way.

if you are attracted to men, you’re not a lesbian either! trans men are men and no lesbian feels attraction to them. it is transphobic indeed.

so basically, you’re not as lesbian based on the fact that you identify as a man (as well as woman) and you are attracted to men.

[kind-demons]

https://lesbianing.carrd.co/#hesbians

lesbians do not have to identify as female (or even female-aligned) to be valid! you are also valid if you experience physical/aestetic attraction to men while identifying as lesbian

differnt types of attraction:

so you dont really have the authority to determine his/her orientation.

thank you for coming to my ted talk, let me know if i missed anything.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

like fuck rowling, but as a trans person it has been sort of amazing to see the public backlash against her. bc the thing is, just a few years ago she could have gotten away with saying all those things. less than a decade ago she could have made all those tweets with only very minor public outcry.

I've seen public attitudes towards trans people change so much in the last few years, sometimes it's such a relief I could cry. the tide has shifted against blatant transphobia being accepted & respected as a legitimate stance in liberal public spaces. it finally generates controversy. Finally.

transphobia is still very much everywhere and the battle is nowhere near over, but its veneer of respectibility has been shattered. to the point that even formerly beloved public figures can't get away with saying some of the shit they could have 5-10 years ago. and that's good. it's slow and bloody and hard-won progress, but it is progress goddammit, and I'm gonna celebrate it tooth and claw.

[simonalkenmayer]

hey simon, that last answer about childhood was really beautiful. i’m kinda at a loss for words.

i- i need to go and sit in a corner and think about what i’ve been doing with my life.

you’ve just managed to grasp my attention for the next however long I use tumblr, and maybe further. you’ve quite literally deduced this teenager to become my profile picture 😂

Go sit in a corner and scheme about your next blanket fort or so help me I will destroy earth and all its inhabitants in a cloud of fury and glitter

[kodaksnacks-blog]

😂😂😂 why he do that poor baby like that

[unwinona]

I just added ten years to my life by watching this

TURN THE SOUND ON JUST DO IT

[smellmyhead]

The unalloyed joy of getting dizzy and getting up and falling back down repeatedly without injury or feeling SICK I remember it and this body will never feel it again but I love to see it

[runcibility]

put your child in the centrifuge to get the giggles out

[introvert-unicorn-deactivated20]

Words to describe someone’s voice :

adenoidal (adj) :  some of the sound seems to come through their nose.

appealing (adj): voice shows that you want help, approval, or agreement.

breathy (adj): with loud breathing noises.

booming (adj): very loud and attention-getting.

brittle (adj): if you speak in a brittle voice, you sound as if you are about to cry.

croaky (adj): they speak in a low, rough voice that sounds as if they have a sore throat.

grating (adj): a grating voice, laugh, or sound is unpleasant and annoying.

gravelly (adj): a gravelly voice sounds low and rough.

high-pitched (adj): true to its name, a high-pitched voice or sound is very high.

honeyed (adj): honeyed words or a honeyed voice sound very nice, but you cannot trust the person who is speaking.

matter-of-fact (adj): usually used if the person speaking knows what they are talking about (or absolutely think they know what they are talking about).

penetrating (adj): a penetrating voice is so high or loud that it makes you slightly uncomfortable.

raucous (adj): a raucous voice or noise is loud and sounds rough.

rough (adj): a rough voice is not soft and is unpleasant to listen to.

shrill (adj): a shrill voice is very loud, high, and unpleasant.

silvery (adj): this voice is clear, light, and pleasant.

stentorian (adj): a stentorian voice sounds very loud and severe.

strangled (adj): a strangled sound is one that someone stops before they finish making it.

strident (adj): this voice is loud and unpleasant.

thick (adj): if your voice is thick with an emotion, it sounds less clear than usual because of the emotion.

tight (adj): shows that you are nervous or annoyed.

toneless (adj): does not express any emotion.

wheezy (adj): a wheezy noise sounds as if it is made by someone who has difficulty breathing.

[writeness]

one of the best pieces of writing advice i’ve ever gotten:

if a scene isn’t working, change the weather.

it sounds stupid, but seriously, it works. thank u to my screenwriting professor for this wisdom

[anxietyproblem]

[kind-demons]

its like wearing underwear with your ding a ling hanging out

[kind-demons]

the reference i use:

what i end up drawing:

[kind-demons]

hi

you

must

be

gay

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

what's a gender neutral form for daddy? calling someone master doesn't have quite the same energy

I am dreading the replies but I can’t not ask Tumblr for suggestions

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

Suggestions from the notes

Maker

Parental Unit/Figure

Chief, Old Sport, Your Honor

Glucose Guardian (for sugar daddy)

Senpai

Spawnpoint

[kind-demons]

• Genetic sponsor

[nothingstraighthere]

I live for a jealous Keith.

Any Klance recommendations?

[kind-demons]

aight---

*thumbs through a large filing cabninet bursting with paper*

you looking for smut? whew- got pLENTY of that. personal fave-

*dramatically yanks out a paper, seemingly at random*

ah yes! Pillow Talk

but perhaps you were looking for something else, traveler?

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

More countries should have pastel national flags, I'm calling it

[glumshoe]

is there anything more sensual than a big decaying log or a pile of large, flat stones?

[kind-demons]

yes. have you considered:

i win.

[glumshoe]

meh, pass

now THIS baby is begging to be turned over

[kind-demons]

lets meet in the middle, yeah?

[glumshoe]

is there anything more sensual than a big decaying log or a pile of large, flat stones?

[kind-demons]

yes. have you considered:

i win.

[pinkfemme-deactivated20210608]

some of you really keep saying “lesbians don’t oppress us” to sound better but then proceed to talk about how “lesbians oppress us" and further perpetuate the idea that lesbophobia is taken more seriously than biphobia. when in reality, lesbians are constantly being shut down by everyone and our issues aren’t taken seriously. we shouldn’t even be comparing them, lesbophobia is an issue and biphobia is also an issue and talking about how one is taken more seriously than the other should never happen because it’s not true.

if you actually cared about lesbians, you wouldn’t constantly find excuses to undermine the reality of lesbophobia or make everyone think we’re mean oppressors, especially when lesbians have always been the caretakers and protectors of the community. we fought on the frontline for everyone’s rights, and we have a beautiful history, including our history with the trans community and supporting each other. but for some reason everyone only cares to talk about how there are TERFs that are lesbians or lesbian separatism. and it’s fine to talk about it, because we should have conversations about the bad things within every letter of the lgbt community. but it really says something when that’s the ONLY time you talk about lesbians.

and something else that’s very important: i wish people would understand that it’s not okay to make instances of blatant, uncensored, and completely obvious lesbophobia about biphobia instead. when we talk about lesbophobia, it has nothing to do with bi people and we’re not saying biphobia isn’t an issue. stop making lesbians speaking about lesbophobia about anything other than… lesbophobia. this is about what we face, so allow us speak out. just listen to us and respect us and support us. defend us when we need it, just as we would defend you. expose lesbophobia and fight it.

[kind-demons]

PLEASE tell me im not the only adhd kid who made a fake nail out of paper and tape, attaches it to their finger with a gluestick, paints over it with nail polish and makes it look legit because their phone was taken away. and only one one finger.