Relationship Anarchy 2
Maybe ill open some minds....
There seems to be no understanding these days. I've seen men & women varying from hood rats to snobs, make people who approach them, "come correct" after they came off wrong. I've seen just as many turn people away because they came off wrong.
Do you know that people sometimes act out of impulse, desperation, or they just don't know any better? Why not take the effort to see how they really are even though they botched the 1st impression?
This is life we are talking about, so many great relationship opportunities and opportunities in general lie behind some shady looking doors. I challenge you to look beyond the door. I challenge you to dig beneath the surface of someone that is Interested in you, no matter how offensive their approach. When they approach you wrong, Set your boundary, example they send a nude that you didnt want, explain to them, "that is not the way you get my attention" then inquire about them. Give them a non appalled interaction and see what they are about don't be discouraged cuzz of the number of times it happened, it's part of life. You are going to be approached by wild people and ones who seem ok, both have equal amount of ability to be great or trash, both at some point will require behavior modification.
I understand the older and tired who feel they dont have the energy or time for setting boundaries and inquiring but no matter what at some point in every relationship you will have to set some kind of boundary....no anal, wash dishes sometimes, don't eat my last chocolate, don't touch my feet, don't talk to me that way etc etc.
Why are so many people so closed minded to how they are approached?
Regardless of approach Why can't they see the base of any new interaction which is interest?
