Kirk Dave Sabud

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It's only YOU

PerDev Daily Journal 4. 03.17.21(4th Quarter)

It only takes one person to change your life: YOU!

-Ruth Casey

The path we travel will be the result of what we are tomorrow. What we do today is likely to be affected by our journey towards our future. We should always put it in our minds if what we are going to do now because it has a great impact in our life. If you know that it is wrong then no one else change you but you, you,and yourself.

It only takes one's to choice own destiny and it is ourselves, so get ready and aim to make it good and positive one.

Now is the time to choose what we are tomorrow overthinking is just a waste of time. If that's it then faced with it.

@krishavanessa

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Family: Striving to Survive

PerDev. Daily Journal 3. 03.16.21(4th Quarter)

We already know that family is the basic unit of the society and primary agent of the socialization. It is where our first school in a person’s life, the family values and traditions will reflect where our first and valuable asset comes from. Here we first learned to communicate and socialized with other people. Family is growing in such a caring surrounding helps me to pass all the struggles and hardships that I face in my daily life. It is normal to have conflict in a family especially when you are in extended family.

STRIVING this word will be the best suits in my family, since I was child I can see how hard my parents work just to give us a good life and the big challenge came to our life, our house was burned down when I was Grade 3 so we had no choice to gather with my mother’s parents. First it is all going smooth until the day comes that there are a lot of conflict between my families; Insult, criticism, gossip, failure to accept differences and too many to mention but at least we able to handle it and finally everything was okay, by now it is all good we communicate effectively, spending time together, sharing of thought and me to my siblings we fight fairly (hehehe)

My families are my courage especially my father and by now we are keep striving more as a whole and as a family. Also I am also thankful to our grandparents that they mold us as a better version of ourselves.

In our family we should send and accept apologized with each other’s keep our pride lower and mosyt of all acceptance because that is one of the key to conquer of any conflict with the family. 1. Love and appreciation, 2. Open and Honest communication, 3. Unity and Respect for diffrences, 4. Values and Standards, 5. Stress coping strategies and this are the 5 key characteristics that we should embodies to be a healthy and happy family.

@krishavanessa

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Building and establishing harmonized relationship with others

PerDev. Journal 2. 03.12.21(4th Quarter)

Society is intangible. It is a process rather than a thing mention rather than structure. Society is the system of relationship the pattern of the norms of interaction. The members of society must have a sense of unity and mutual relationship within each other. With close ties, people have the ability to make positive change.

There is no limit to the dimension of a society or even community, within its size there may be only to persons whether you're a leader or a follower but together they can’t stop you of what you want to do. But we should understand our leader because leader is also a follower for being committed and being real, leaders give it all there capacity and also the authority to carry out the challenges in the society. As a follower, it is our duty to make sure that we follow the right people. We can be leader of our own even we are followers; everyone has their own unique approach towards doing different task and coming up with success.

In our community Building and establishing harmonious relationship with others is all blessed. Followers should be motivated by one another. With the kind of selfless, nurturing and giving that there is no tussles and egos and power. It is just the leader and the followers sailing with each other going to the same direction.

There is no leader without at least a follower and to be a great leader is being a good follower.

@krishavanessa

[kirkdave]

LOVE

PerDev. Daily Journal 1. 03.11.21(4th quarter)

It is a powerful emotion which there is no definite definition because it suits each and every person differently, and that is how amazing love is. Love is overwhelming emotion experienced in many different ways between family, friends, or lovers.

Topic: Building and establishing relationship with others. LOVE this is the secret ingredients in building and establishing relationship with others because it has a powerful force. Even though we have hard time finding the love and external love that we want to feel where we are standing right now. We need to be patient enough; for sure love will not be lost. “Love is in the air” that’s mean that love is always present, it’s just around you. All we need is not to stop and we will always remember we can get it in those around us.

“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love”

-Sophocles

@krishavanessa

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"Focusing on the Psychological Health"

PerDev. Daily Journal 6. 1.25.21

Psychological well-being, it is a positive mental state such as happiness or pleasure to emphasize about the great difference between such terms. It is normal to experience unpleasant emotions or to feel in pain. It is included of being a sustainable well-being to not feel great all the time. We can’t really deny it that anxiety and sadness are both the result of not being able to properly cope with the various things. But neither should we fight and raising our desire for the bright future that is waiting for us. Nor we can’t handle it without our self-acceptance, positive relations with others, autonomy, environmental mastery, purpose in life and personal growth.

Today’s lesson that also we talked is BULLYING this is one of the 6 factors that greatly may affect mental health and one of the common issues that we encountered in our daily lives. Bullying really has a big impact in your life, I am a bully one before but as time goes by I felt what they feel.

Bullying can never be justified and never considered as “good”.

@krishavanessa

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Breaking points: Self-discovery

PerDev. Daily Journal 5. 1.22.21

STRESS this is part of our encounters in our lives especially in adolescence stage. We face it and fight with it. We all have limits or breaking points but how do you fight it and learning how to face with it is pivotal in your success. Stress often develops over time we just don’t realize it until we have enough. Even we are getting tired, we continue to push ourselves to stay consistent and to do more and more. We fail to perceive that our mind is telling us that we need a break. Until boom! We reach our points, but we all not end up here. This will the time of our self-discovery; we fully understand why things happened, what part is our weakness and where we are strong, most importantly what should be really be done.

I reached my worst breaking point at the time of the new normal, where you are no longer knew how to be with yourself, not fully understanding myself, I was on the wrong path and I no longer cared what would happen to me. That feeling that you are doing it wrong but you keep doing it over and over again. I have that one song that help me and really saved me falling into the deep.

“Ako Naman Muna” by Angela Ken. There is a time that I was so drunk, confused crying while listening repeatedly that song overnight realizing that I am still far from what really life is. “Saan nato patungo?Saan na ko patungo?” This line gives me motivation to stand up ones again, self-love and self-worth is the key. Right now as Angela said “dahan-dahan nating simulan muli ang paghakbang” and I am doing it right now to take every step again slowly but surely.

@krishavanessa

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"Dealing with the Challenges of Adolescence"

PerDev. Daily Journal 4. 1.21.21.

Being in the stage of late adolescence is not that easy yet exciting you will go through a lot of things, our life is getting more difficult in how we handle it growing up.

Today’s topic I have learned how come there are different types of how adolescents dealing with their problems in life. There are people particularly teenagers who have trust issues, lack of self-confidence, pessimistic, anti-social, a poor sense of self, lack of interest and dedication, and so on. Based on the lesson that we have dealt with these problems, it starts with some of the conflicts that we encounter or witness, even as a child. But because of this particular crisis, such as confidence and mistrust, we appear to get either favorable or unfavorable outcomes. These conflicts we're going to face will continue, and they could either build us positively and negatively. While the stage where we may encounter more conflict is the teenage stage. We really experience a lot of things here, and they're either happy or sad, good or bad. Teenagers also end up having problems with themselves.

INITIATIVE this word will give us great weapon in our battle in life especially we are at this stage of changing. Trials will break us into pieces but also mold us as a person. Initiative is not just a word but it can guide and lead us into a bright future but it takes a lot of time, realization experiences and guidance of our family and good circles of friends. There are many issues you will encounter in these stage distractions, procrastination, anxiety, rebellion this are some issues that you will be facing. Here, morality will come up we should know the thing that right or wrong and good and evil.

Our family and circle of friends really matters as we grow up as well our peace of mind. I realized that we should face tough task that we will experienced because by this we are always ready in other challenges that comes our way. Expressing ourselves is also one of the things that can help us in growing up. Self-fulfilling –prophecy is what I need as I get older, LAW OF ATTRACTION will help us to aim in our goals. We should keep on attracting positivity so that our reality also becomes positive.

@krishavanessa

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"Being Mindful and Entering Into Adolescence Stage"

PerDev. Daily Journal 3. 1.20.21

In our journey we learn a lot from ourselves, we get to know more about who and what we are as a person. We will still face the emerging world together with our experienced.

As we go into our discussion of being mindful with ourselves, on my voyage across the vast ocean towards in my personal development I started into ripples that eventually turning into rogue waves. For what I have experienced we are really going through a lot of rain, storm and very hot weather to become mindful with ourselves. Being mindful will lead you into a right route and it has five parts that will consider to our personal development and this are Physiological, Cognitive, Social and emotional, Spiritual and Psychological. As time goes by in our life our physical, mental, emotional and what we want and what we don’t want are changing.

We go deeper to understand the integration of thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Situation arises, and we have thoughts about the facts of that situation; those thoughts trigger feelings, and based on those feelings we engage in behaviors which in turn impact the situation either it is positive or negative.

In our second lesson about entering into a middle and late adolescence, all of us started childhood and we begin to grow, to know and rely in oneself. We all started not caring about what is happening in our surroundings and being matured enough standing straight keeping our head up high and focus to our aim in life. This is because of lessons and observations that we encountered.

To being a teenager and enters into adolescence period had a great adjustment in being numerous of changes into physical, emotional, cognitive and social. Those unavoidable changes in our physical give me insecure and self-conscious. In our physical, our height reaches into a maximum state our body begins to mature. As an adult our initiative are present, our ability to think are advance and also the social, emotional, and moral development. Here we will experienced on coping the challenges in terms of accepting the facts. In our social support are change we really relay on ourselves by now. Being insecure is a part in entering into adolescence we really can’t avoid it especially when you see something better than yourself but it is also up to us how we receive it and make it in a positive way.

@krishavanessa

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"Who we are"

PerDev. Daily Journal 2. 1.19.20

In the short period of time I learned a lot from my classmates from how they deal their life and who they are as a person, that can be possibly apply to myself. It is great to connect by other people, I was impressed on how creative they are and also they have so much confident and by that it gives me inspiration to know more about myself and give the best of it. In this activity I realized that it is also important to know others and not just yours because sometimes, you just don’t realized that you find yourself from others and you are complete because of that one person.

By know I’m not the same as before, but the only person that I consider to compare myself is who I am yesterday.

@krishavanessa

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"GOT TO KNOW ONE'S SELF"

PerDev. Daily Journal Day 1 01.18.21

We have different personalities in our physical, spiritual, emotional traits and social identity. In this world that everyone has different paths, perspective in life, belief, self-determination and valuing one’s self. Everyone around you really has something to say about you but you really should know yourself better from the others in comes of what are your weaknesses, strengths and more.

As what I have learned today that everything that I know about myself is called self –concept, in how I see myself as a whole or as a human being. And there is a word called self-esteem that what you think about yourself, will be really it is. In this lesson, I realized that we should think more positively and we should not stuck and stop thinking that, that is our weakness and also comparing ourselves to others will be a big NO so that we have great outcome in our self-evaluation. This will somehow connect according to Bhudda that “What you think, you become. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you create.’’ I also understand that self-awareness has a great impact in ourself because it helps our negative thoughts into a positive ones. In the table that shown I have learned that somehow I am a pleaser and also I think aware. I am not so much aware in myself but for now and tomorrow I will surely much aware with myself because of this lesson.

@krishavanessa

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"Ready Player One"

Kirk Dave R. Sabud

Ready Player One shows what is possible to happen in our future. The world year 2045 there is a great suffering and injustice. There was who suffered and those who don’t. Because of these societal problems people tend to escape from the reality through the virtual world rather than take actions to save their planets. There was game that people get addicted to and it is developed by James Halliday and Ogden Morrow that called “OASIS”. When Halliday died there was a contest that he left, which is the first that can be able to find the 3 keys will be the new owner of OASIS. There is a boy named Wade, Wade is one of those people that the only important thing in life is to save OASIS and not their planet. He is spending so much time in the world of OASIS rather than the outside world. Later on Wade’s perspective change since he met Art3mis and somehow appreciates the reality of the world and believe that there will be a possible future even without this game "OASIS". Together with his friends they worked to be able to win the contest but eventually their goal is, it is not to about winning but it is about how OASIS will work to the next generation.

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The movie revolves to the individual achievement and success, but as a Media and Information Literate it is very important to once individual to communicate, to make a teamwork and unity. As shown by the movie Wade always goes to Halliday journals, we should seek places that can offer us credible and reliable information so that we can get the information we want. We should use our critical thinking to identify what are the new things or what possible perspective to be able to analyze reasoning, evaluate and to reflect ourselves of what to do. In our media today we must be careful for trusting and sharing our private information because it is inevitably that we are different as a human in terms of gender, age, colors or religion. We should be careful for trusting people online because people can make connections beyond their appearances, as well disclosing your personal information can lead to your danger. From what I saw from the movie it is really important to be a Media and Information literate to an individual as well in the society because it can create advantage for us to locate others point of view and to produce rightful information.

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Bridging the Gap: The Change that Creates Conflict

Kirk Dave R. Sabud

We have come a long way, our media and technology from the past until now had a big contribution in our world. What happens today is because of what happened before. Our life today is kind of easy because of what we have now with advanced technology. Change is inevitable and it’s fair, it makes us to be better in terms of our advancement and for our expertise. Although we are still heading to our developing world but I take the view that what our achievements today will pave the way for our success. But with this change we cannot avoid that something will happen, created a conflict because of our progressing world and new inventions. The world is divided into two, the one grown up without technology and the one who have grown up on the digital age. Also the one who had money and the one had nothing.

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Gap has been thrown a lot lately. It can happen anywhere it can be at your school. The schools in the mountain province, which do not even have any access to the internet and especially do not have any money to buy technologies. And also the schools that have any access of technologies and internet even the students have their own laptop, tablet and smartphones. As a student that has small background about technology about how to used it and how it really works. And had enough needs to be fit in our digital era. I can simply bridge the gap by teaching them how innovations are important for us, why we should use our advance technology and by helping those who did not much know about technology. Those who did not have any access in internet or mobile data you can simply hotspot your phones or just let them barrow your phone for educational purposes. In this such small ways, we can easily decrease the gap and put a little back closer of the division of our world.

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"The Setbacks of Piracy "

Kirk Dave R. Sabud

Why it is called piracy? It is called piracy because it comes from the word “pirate” and we all know that pirate is a criminal that stealing valuable things or properties of the other ship from the middle of the sea. It all started when technologies and internet emerged, when they duplicating an unauthorized copyrighted content with the use of computers, smart phones, cameras and other form of technologies on the method of downloading to unauthorized sources or illegal websites from the Internet and recording it in cinemas. It is not only the film or videos that are affected of this piracy but also in the forms of music, games and also an app. Pirated copies can be seen somewhere in our local areas, in small stores in the public market that can be sold at a cheaper price that majority can afford. Imagine how piracy slowly affected the industries of films, music, video game, apps as well the economy.

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Almost all of us preferred to buy pirated copies and even download games, apps and movies from illegal websites just to get it free or to pay at a lower price. Piracy is a big deal, it is just the same as stealing someone’s things. Just try to see the bigger picture it would be a big impact to the economy as well to the people who put all their effort, hard work, invest all their time and money to come of those unique and creative ideas of films, music and apps so how it is still be fair for them to just easily steal their works and just clicking the simple download in an unauthorized websites without just giving them credit. In its never-ending issue of piracy even the government is taking action for this due to the extent of the world and the internet also the technology. The only thing that we can really change this is to start within us even if it does not totally vanish but at least it would be lessen.

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"The Reign of the New-Old"

Kirk Dave R. Sabud

As we all dwell towards this moving progress were technology together with media is seemingly improving that most people right across the world are directly relying on today’s technology. Were in this moment at a single right click of the mouse you can see or even feel exactly what you want. Connecting the dots between the new and old media is not that really simple. It is impossible that old media will be taking away because they have different role in this society. I hardly think that new media was created to replace the old media because the main focus of new media is to be more convenient and quicker changing of information. We cannot escape the fact that there are only few now who are using old media, but there are really people who prefer old fashioned media especially those who are not used to this new generation that is because it is more authentic.

I can’t imagine the world without old media it would be lead more trouble in the field of information. How about those not literate enough to determine if it is truthful or fallacious information? Is educating them are enough to be a literate one? No media left behind, these three kinds of media will remain five years from now or even more. Maybe there are really changes but old and new media will keep interacting the same way because these kinds of media have different angle approach to the people and to the world. Strong and solid media today will get stronger tomorrow probable with the use of advanced technology. I believed in the saying that “A person who does not look back at where he came from will not get to his destination” it is also the same through the media if we can’t look back where media started then maybe our future media will cause a chaos because of the uncontrollable power of technology.

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"Understanding the Relevance of Information Literacy in the Midst of Social Era"

Information literacy suits the recent occurrence of skills on the midst of social era to strengthen our knowledge and communication. We live in this era were information is swiftly spreading because information is available day-and-night. Even though Information is available anytime does not mean that those information is valuable or created credibly. It requires us to be ready in all aspects of situation because it is not always easy to be information literate. So it is important to realize the value of this skills enable us to effectively engage in lifelong learning for any decision making in our life from our respective viewpoint. To think critically about information that we experienced and to build information that we know to make a new knowledge that are useful to others. Every individual that understand information literacy can help their lives much easier.

Being able to identify if the information is real or fake can affect us in so many ways, especially in the times today where every information you can get is really important. But how about if those information that you have gathered was misleading and was fake, that is where being an Information Literate can really affect a person. Because it can help not only a particular person but also people around him or her may it be in social media or in personal. These days fake news are more rampant than real news is, for a person to know what is right and what is not has a very big impact in a society for that person can share the correct information hence people who thought that the fake news was real would not get blinded by it. It can affect a person in so many ways that are possible especially in good ways, its relevance today in social era is really huge indeed.

Kerby Craig D. Caguiat

Kirk Dave R. Sabud

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"Media and Government: A Love-Hate Relationship"

A never ending cycle of love and hate between two of the biggest institutions that influences people in the society. Both institutions are key to create a healthy and peaceful society, but to do so both must co-inside with one another. A process which always end in the institutes fighting one another. Where either needs to adjust for the other, to create a well rounded society. The government is the who creates and gives the law, and the media is the one who has job to spread the information to the people. But what if the media is biased and does not care about the administration. And what if the government does not like what the media is doing. This is one of the most common factors why the Media and Government fights, the reason why sometimes people get killed because of doing their job. Both of these institutions has a big impact in to shaping the peoples mind in a certain topic, without the government people would be hard headed and there will be no one to guide the people to the right way, and without the media people would not get to know what the rules are. And there will always be conflict between these two and it will not stop if political views will hinder the sight of both of the institutions.

But in bad there will always be good, for these two institutions despite hating or disliking one another always finds a way to help those in need. In times of hardships and crisis both of the institutions forget their differences and create a strong bond. A bond that helps not only one person but a whole community. That is what makes these two the yin and yang of a country. For the media is more useful with the help of the government, and the government would have a more easier way of spreading information with the media. There will always be lapses and fights between these two institutions. But when both are needed by the people they set aside their quarrels so that the people would not have a hard time. Because in a relationship you can never expect everything to be flowers and rainbows. There will always be fights that will test the bonds of two individuals or in this case institutions. This is the unending Love-Hate Relationship between the Media and the Government.

Kirk Dave Sabud