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She/they hún/hán Free Palestine 🇵🇸

[kominfyrirkattarnef]

Thinking of soft launching my switch to she/they pronouns on here…

[party-cat-anthem]

accidentally running over a vampire with my car because they didnt show up on the backup camera

[kominfyrirkattarnef]

Icelanders, any experience hitchhiking around the country? The ppl i pick up always talk about waiting for HOURS before anyone picks them up

[funstyle]

i legiterately always feel like that person on reddit who posted "is it weird if i go on a walk like is everyone gonna be freaked out". i feel like that every minute of every day

[wertfi-penguin]

Maybe the most damming thing about Nolans odyssey is i haven’t seen a single gifset from it

[geekyhistoriansunite]

[mousidy]

they should make it easier to get bottom surgery

[mousidy]

special mention to how the BMI requirements are horrific and they need to go!

[mousidy]

I've been thinking a lot lately about how many trans women I've known who come to realize over time that they experience much more bottom dysphoria than they've consciously understood

I think this is partially a problem of trans women being fetishized, a trans woman's value being equated with her penis, but I think it's also partially a problem of availability. personally if something is difficult to attain then I have an internal reflex to unconsciously convince myself I don't want or need it. for this reason and many others it needs to be made easier

[mousidy]

personally it's fucking crazy going through life not even being able to be naked around trusted loved ones or fully have sex because the dysphoria is so bad. it's unacceptable that so many of us have to live like this. it's horrible that for many trans women it's almost impossible to get the care we need. it does not have to be like this

[mousidy]

GOD. YEAH. YUPPPP

[naidje]

I've come to realize over the past year or two just gotta bad my bottom dysphoria is and how much i want surgery. This is after a good decade of me telling myself "Oh no, i dont mind my dick. Haha, yeah no, it's not gonna be worth the trouble for a part of my body that not that many people will ever see anyways 🙃"

And now that im realizing i really really want bottom surgery I'm just kicking myself for not starting the process sooner.

The BMI limit for it in my country is 30, and I'm extremely worried about it. They might force me to lose like 15-20kg, and I don't even know where to begin. I don't even want to lose weight in the first place. I love being fat and soft, it makes me feel like myself. And the idea that i might have to fucking diet and lose that, just to access a gender affirming procedure is tearing me up inside.

[kosmogrl]

[fucking-relax]

this is helpful to getting started on anything regardless of what you call it (from this post)

problem solving steps

IMPROVE distress tolerance skill

[minty-mori]

reminder for mostly myself

[wartips]

shitshit shit. umm no its fine. does anyone see a grenade pin on tbe floor

[fullmoonguidance]

using windows movie destroyer to make youtube soap

[i-draws-dinosaurs]

The beautiful and endangered Dumb Gulper Shark

[dogpuppy]

[grumfy]

Okay but like do you actually support cheating?

only if it hurts everyone involved and their families too

[sporesgalaxy]

"obsessive compulsive disorder"? ha....i think you mean i have a Philosopher's Soul. and also The Demon

[txttletale]

i know i'm just rehashing something that people have been saying about movies and video games for decades but it's crazy how a ttrpg having sex moves is widely seen as bizarre and automatically gets it described as "niche" while a ttrpg having rules for how to kill other people is so normal that players and pundits will treat their absence as notable in and of itself

[bunnygirljesus]

Black ppl deserve to feel safe and welcomed on the internet, on fandoms on whatever community or hobbies they want without having to deal with antiblack racist attacks, microaggressions or enablers of antiblackness . And if u genuinely consider urself to be left leaning or an ally or woke you should do and try to unlearn the colorism, texturism , eurocentrism and antiblackness

[ceruleanheaven]

i just wanna do nothinggggg 😭😭😭😭😭 which is like what im already doing but i wanna do it in a way that doesnt actively ruin my life 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭