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Just a creature in their 20s exploring their gender identity and various hard kinks; Humiliation, Shame, Incest, CNC, anything that you are afraid to masturbate about. I will also post occasional photoshoots that I have done and short stories about kink, you can find all the links at the bottom of this post.
Currently partnered to a wonderful human. But we also like to play with others. If you live in Germany we are very interested in all weird queer nature creatures, romantically or platonically.
Many of my stories and posts will depict situations where consent seems suspect. This is a fantasy, a short snippet of a dynamic. A way to intensify the depictions of control. It is not representative of real life. In my real life dynamics, hours of conversation go on before hard kink and CNC scenes develop. You have to know a person, they have to know you, to really get into the deep psychological torment. There are no shortcuts. If you think you can meet a person in a bar and treat them how people are treated on this blog straight away with just a quick consent check, go home. Consent is not asking one time if they are okay. Its making sure they understand that no matter how deep into the scene you are, they can stop. Its them knowing you value their safety above your sexual desire. Its being constantly vigilant that your submissive hasn’t gone non verbal, checking for subtle signs and being aware of all dangers around you. It doesn’t happen on a one night stand
I am a big believer that no kink should be judged, however, the more time I spend on tumblr the more I see blogs that are using Kink to hide their flagrant abusive views. The biggest contributor I see is the misogyny/men are inherently better kink, of course for people who healthily engage in this play Im all for it. But I think I see too many men, and possibly also women who have succumbed to society’s sexism, who use this platform and this kink as a “safe space” for them to vent their backwards Ideology. I also see a lot of female “dommes” who abuse their power over subs to gain control and money. Again, if Findom is actualised in a healthy way Im here for it. But it feels more like praying on weak and vulnerable people for financial gain in a lot of cases I hear/see. If I get the vibe you are using this platform for these reasons or if you look like an abuser in any way I will block you.
A quick note on under 18s. I get it, I did it, everyone on tumblr who is telling you not to probably did it. Its like your uncle telling you not to smoke, while he is smoking. Its really fucking annoying. But we only say it, not because we want to exclude you or make you feel immature, but because its not healthy. And we know its not healthy because we have all been there. Trust us. I have issues with sex now that Im pretty sure are because of early exposure to porn. There are many many years to explore it, wait a few more years and I promise you wont regret it.
Sorry for the essay, enjoy x
















