Life of Kylie

A litte bit of this and a little bit of that. Stuff from my favourite YouTubers, Top Gear boys, poetry, thoughts and feelings. Perhaps even some of my writing.

[kylie1975]

Interactive Introverts- Dan and Phil World Tour 2018 - Sydney 3rd September 2018

I want to thank @danielhowell and @amazingphil for a fantastic night at interactive introverts last night. I laughed, cried and cringed. I am beyond thankful for being able to attend and got to use the ticket that was a gift from my Mum last Christmas, you see my Mum is terminally ill with the most aggressive form of brain cancer and I have been her full time carer until we couldn’t care for her at home any longer and she had to go into a nursing home in late May. I spend my days at her bedside keeping her company and help her with feeding.

I asked her in the lead up to the show if she was okay for me to attend the show and she was as she knew I wanted to go and that I had missed out on a few events when I was caring for her at home.

It was hard leaving her yesterday afternoon but I knew she was in good care.

So thank you for a wonderful night where I got to feel like a normal person (as normal as I can be lol) and forget about things and relax, just like your videos, as they help me switch off etc.

Thank you for being there in videos, tweets, instas because they make my day and are at times life savers.

[kylie1975]

The President said NO to trans rights

The Portuguese Parliament approved a law that would've changed the lives of trans people for the better – but the President said NO. Will you add your name to help overturn this veto?

[kylie1975]

Commonwealth Leaders - Love is Never a Crime

In 37 countries in the Commonwealth you can still be thrown in jail for being gay. And where do most of these convictions come from? Old British colonial laws that have never been replaced. Sign and ask the British Prime Minister to apologise for the UK’s anti-gay legacy.

[kylie1975]

Hey I’m playing a game called HQ Trivia. You should play too. Use my code ‘Pespheny’ to sign up https://get.hqtrivia.com

[kylie1975]

What happened to Zelim Bakaev?

It's been 5 months since pop singer Zelim Bakaev disappeared during the anti-gay purge in Chechnya. Will you add your name to demand #JusticeForZelim?

[txmriddlx]

Can you please reblog if your blog is a safe place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual, aromantic, pansexual, non binary, demisexual or any other kind of queer or questioning people? Because mine is.

[kylie1975]

Jeremy Loops - The Shore (ft. Motheo Moleko) (Official Lyric Video)

[kylie1975]

(via https://open.spotify.com/track/7HjZHjpOY7LwiupqLuO5ty)

[kylie1975]

We've never been so close.

All we need to achieve marriage equality in Australia is for a free vote to take place. Will you send an email to all Coalition MPs asking them to stand up for love and demand a free vote on marriage equality?

[kylie1975]

My box of #jellyandgelato from @feelunique and @zoellabeauty arrived today @zoella Shower time sorted for awhile

[kylie1975]

It's been #100DaysofInjustice for the #Chechen100. To #Putin: We're watching you. Stop the arrests! Justice now! http://thndr.me/fcPzby

[severeobjectfun]

Dear teen girls,

Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.

Stop:

Yelling at him in front of his friends 

Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like

Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you 

Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him

Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend

Forcing him to spend every moment with you 

Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws

Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake

Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want

Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want

Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you

Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes 

Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love

Physically attacking him when ever you are mad

Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to

Invading his privacy by going through his phone

Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is

If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy. 

Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.

Girls: if you find your self doing anything on this list to your boyfriend you need to knock it off because you are being abusive. 

[dynastylnoire]

!!!!!!!! My brother was abused by his babies mom and it started like this and escalated to child abuse and neglect.

You don’t deserve to be screamed at, ignored, or assaulted.

Not showing affection when she wants or not hugging her before class) or missing a phone call doesn’t warrant getting cussed out or hit.

[fvlani]

Lol, I lost 5 followers from reblogging this. That’s fine, y'all can go

[onlyblackgirl]

Whole lot of grown women do this too.

[engel-tier-deactivated20180213]

Just wanna throw these in too

Being passive aggressive with him when he wants to spend time with friends or doing other things 

controlling when he’s able to go out with friends

Breaking up his friendships with other girls just because you’re insecure

Making him feel like his opinions in decisions that affect the both of you are irrelevant and don’t matter

SENDING HIS NUMBER TO STRANGERS TO TEST IF HE’S LOYAL OR NOT

testing him in anyway in general without his knowledge or permission (example: catfishing! it’s manipulative and weird don’t fucking do that)

taking money/credit cards without permission to spend on things without his knowledge ( had an ex friend do this constantly to her boyfriend and she’d always condone it because “he’ll get over it” )

guilting him for hanging out with friends/family over you  and making him choose between you and friends/family

telling him “you don’t love me if you *insert harmless activity he wants to do here* “

being rude or mean to him in front of others to assert dominance or power over him

downloading apps to spy on his phone activity (yes, this is a thing “”regular”” people do) or snooping on his social media to see who he’s talking to

hitting him, slapping him, punching him, shoving him. literally how do people not understand slapping your male partner is bad. people tend to find this funny in media and society and its weird. KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT PERMISSION. 

I come from a family of very forward and manipulative women and i see it in media all the time. it’s fucked and people need to not be accepting of young girls acting like snot-nosed, abusive shit heads that think they can get away with manipulation and cruelty because they happen to be girls.

[alwaysbewoke]

and let me add this. ABUSIVE TEEN GIRLFRIENDS TURN INTO ABUSIVE GROWN ASS WOMEN GIRLFRIENDS WHO TURN INTO ABUSIVE WIVES.

if you have an abusive teen or young adult gf right now fellas, leave. don’t let her use you to get her shit right. you’ll be so fucked up by the time she gets it together if she ever does and believe that most likely she won’t.  

[spoonmeb]

Can i just add that ive seen young queer girls do this to their girlfriends. Girls can be abusers and you are right to leave. 

[purpleandpinkhouses]

Women/young girls can definitely be just as abusive. I knew a young man that got ran over and had his leg broken by his girlfriend because (in her words he annoyed her) He refused to press charges. Another young lady started to hit her ex boyfriend because he wouldn’t take her back because of the abuse. He called the cops on her and they literally started laughing at him because she was very petite in comparison to him. Anyone can be abusive and I wish more people understood that.

[madhattey-deactivated20211019]

dammit I’d spam my blog if i reblog this more than once but dude this is really important.

[ayeshapoptropica]

Oh my god. This is so important.

[kylie1975]

Met the lovely author Jennifer Niven and Randa Abdel-Fattah at #yaallday #sydneywritersfestival (at Riverside Theatres)

[kylie1975]

Angela Merkel: help stop the murder of gay men in Chechnya

Gay men are being hunted and murdered by authorities in Chechnya, Russia. Next week, Germany’s Chancellor Angela Merkel goes on a state visit to Russia. Urge Chancellor Merkel to tell Putin: stop the murder of gay men in Chechnya.

[kylie1975]

Justice for the #Chechen100

More than 100 gay men have been arrested and tortured by authorities in Chechnya, Russia. Three were reported killed. Speak up and demand justice for the Chechen 100.

[kylie1975]

Fresh blueberry muffins made with blueberries from our garden this summer which we froze because we had so many.

[kylie1975]

My first try at making Pink Picked Turnips. I just hope they taste as good as they look.