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One Nice Bug Per Day
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Today's Document
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will byers stan first human second
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DEAR READER
we're not kids anymore.
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art blog(derogatory)
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JBB: An Artblog!
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btw what you consume shapes your perception. if you flood your mind with cynicism, chaos, and uninspired content, you dull your ability to see beauty. curating your inputs—art, literature, film, music, people—rewires your vision. you get to choose which version of life you experience...
“True friendship is when two friends can walk in opposite directions, yet remain side by side.”
— Josh Grayson, Sia
Love transcends distance, obstacles, and circumstance.
I love being private and low-key. Always out of the mix, drama free and without fake and toxic people around me. My personal space is beyond crucial, it's sacred. I love being able to reach goals without having others try hijack my progress as they are never aware of what my next move will be. You may know of me, you don't know me.
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december will be a month overflowing with God blessings, a season of divine revelations that will bring the closure your heart has been seeking as you prepare for the new year. it will be a month where God opens doors to new stages and opportunities you’re meant to walk through. trust in his plan— he’s about to move in ways you’ve been praying for. december will be a beautiful, God-ordained ending to 2024. pray, be still, and have faith.
be the main character of your life, stop comparing yourself to others!
every time you compare yourself to another person you lose your power and give it to others.
be aware of your own value
the value you give to others, give to yourself multiplied!
if there is something you don't like about yourself try to change it from compassion and self-love, don't judge yourself for it, we all have the ability to change
recognize that comparing yourself with other people is something negative and prevents you from growing and evolving
you are the main character of your life, no one else, that's why it doesn't matter if you "believe" that someone else is more handsome or smarter than you, it's not, it's you, because it's your life, think about this every time you compare yourself
recognize when these thoughts come to your mind and focus in turn on something positive, something good about your day or something you like about yourself
don't compare chapter 20 of a person with chapter 3 of your life
focus on learning and not comparing yourself
turn comparison into admiration
be aware of the damage you are doing to yourself when you do this
write down everything you like about yourself and everything you would like to have or be
practice self-love every day, treat yourself with love
focus on you and your growth not on what others do
focus on what you like about yourself and not on what you don't-
recognize that you are the main character of your life, the life you are living right now is only lived by you so it doesn't matter how other people are or how they live their life, it doesn't hurt you, focus on you and your growth, you are unique and valuable you don't have to be like anyone else
some ways to practice self-love ( i will write another post on this)
forgive yourself
take care of your physical and mental health
avoid toxic people
connect to your feminine energy and make rest a priority when you need it
use positive affirmations every day
talk to yourself and treat yourself with love
do things that make you proud of you
post that i recommend you if you found this one useful 🤍
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Spoil yourself you deserve it🕊
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How to look expensive on a budget
YES to all of this. Also my god I could listen to her talk all day.
Main points:
Keep nails manicured and clean at all times. That doesn’t mean you have to go out and get huge tacky acrylics every other week. In fact, don’t. Keep them shaped nicely, clean, buffed, and put on a clear coat or coat of neutral on in between manicures.
Invest in high-quality fabrics in neutral colors. You can add your colors with seasonal accessories from cheaper stores like H&M, etc.
Iron or steam your clothing.
Wear heels. Classy ones. Pointed-toe, not too chunky.
Matte red lipstick = day to night transition, or instantly makes you look put together no matter what you’re wearing.
If you can’t afford brand name items, customize your cheap ones. Buy some nice buttons and replace the cheap plastic ones on your coat, etc.
If you buy designer, buy the classics. Don’t buy the Fendi owl bag that will go out of fashion in a year; buy the Chanel chain clutch. Buy used or shop the sample sales.
Don’t just stack up labels on yourself- that’s tacky.
Thrift stores!
Buy a season ahead/behind.
If you have to think twice about an item, don’t buy it.
When it comes down to it, your confidence is what makes you look expensive.
Not in this video, but my own person petpeeves:
INVEST IN GOOD UNDERWEAR. I am soooo sick of seeing my ladies wearing little dresses that show off every little lump and bump and panty line and stocking seam. We ALL have lumps and bumps and cellulite but when you wear a cheap knit that’s tight, it just looks trashy. I shouldn’t be able to see your bellybutton shape through your fabric. With a good pair of spankx or other shapewear, though, you can take a $20 dress from Forever 21 and make it fit like a $500 dress. Buy good stockings, buy good underwear. Buy old lady shapewear. Wear slips under sheer skirts (unless they’re supposed to be sheer, obviously). Fabric should lie smoothly across your body, and shapewear makes that happen no matter what size you are.
Example:
Two super thin, super in-shape, gorgeous celebrity ladies, but they both look cheap, and their dresses look cheap. I can see their belly button and panty lines. In the top example, her dress just doesn’t even fit properly in the first place. It doesn’t accentuate her curves and rides up instead. NO.
Instead, here we have two plus-size girls that look put together and classy. The fabric of their dresses lies smoothy against their curves. It SHOWS OFF their curves. They’re wearing the right shapewear underneath:
Also, fashion tape. Buy some and use it. Your clothing shouldn’t gap at the buttons or at your arm pits. If you’re wearing something with a deep V, unless you have breast augmentation that keeps them up and perky, tape your damn boobs up. Yes, we all have saggy boobs, this is reality. Tape them.
Here’s a girl with large breasts but pretty average overall body size:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hYAjych0LoQ
Here’s a girl with HUGE boobs, showing that there is no excuse :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QlZWWVO_5Bo
And here’s a link with all kinds of methods for all breast sizes:
http://ultimatebraguide.com/neckline/plunge-deep-v/
Moral of the story- get over it. If you think wearing shapewear or taping your boobs is uncomfortable, I promise you that having your junk rolling out all over the place at a Michelin 5 restaurant is 1000x more uncomfortable.
