how to live a "happy" now -
1. forget the expectations of others. do what you want. it's no one's life but yours. you dont wanna look back and say "oh, if only i had..." it's impossible to live a life that's only yours if you are constantly trying to please others. you end up living out their lives - their hopes, their dreams, their desires, etc. - instead.
2. instead of seeking for a happy life, try to just live your own life!
3. be present. your past doesn't serve you and the future isn't really real.
4. find what's important to you. take time to get to know yourself.
5. dont you dare forego that alone time!
6. establish boundaries and stand up for yourself. you are your own army. you are the most valuable person in your life! don't put yourself last. âĄ
7. trust in yourself. you can do it.
