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You don't have to force yourself to bounce back so quickly. I read something recently that said "when you come in from a rainstorm, you don't expect yourself to be dry and warm right away", and it really resonated with me. It's okay to take time to dry off and warm up. Take the time you need to process what happened to you.

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be a pretty girl

with a pretty mind,

a pretty heart,

and the prettiest soul.

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Self improvement is great but ultimately? you have to accept your self. Yes you can eat better, exercise more, read more, set boundaries, love your self, but it all comes down to this. Some days you won’t have the energy to do any of these things. And you’ll look in the mirror and think that this is not enough. That’s a lie. The biggest love for self is to live slowly. To rest. To really rest. Have a nap. Eat what makes you feel good. Read if you want to. Embrace yourself and accept that you cannot and will not be ever be perfect. Accept that you are good enough. You don’t need to keep busy all the time. you don’t need to go out all the time and post on instagram. You don’t need to journal if you don’t want to. You don’t need to make art if you don’t want to. Breathe, give yourself grace and compassion. Give yourself the love and tenderness you so badly need. Be gentle with yourself. You are trying and it is good enough. You are good enough.

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Art museums, fancy restaurants with an outdoor sitting, satin silk dresses, perfume, wine glasses and pretty views.

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“I owe myself the biggest apology for putting up with what I didn’t deserve.”

— Unknown

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Forgive yourself

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If you want a certain result in life, you have to start living like that version of you before it actually happens. The life you want doesn’t begin when you reach the goal, it begins when you build the habits and lifestyle that lead there

“But what if I can’t afford it?”

Most of the shift has nothing to do with money

You can’t afford the luxury gym, but you can afford daily walks, stretching and prioritizing sleep

You can’t afford therapy every week, but you can afford journaling, boundaries, and not entertaining chaos & drama

You can’t afford designer clothes, but you can afford dressing neatly, caring for your body, and carrying yourself with intention

You can’t afford first class, but you can afford planning, patience, and respect for your time

You can’t afford the dream apartment, but you can afford keeping your current space clean and organized

You can’t afford the business yet, but you can afford learning, consistency, and showing up daily

The future version of you isn’t defined by what you buy. They’re defined by how you think, how you treat yourself, what you tolerate, and what you repeat every day

Money catches up to identity faster than identity catches up to money