Lani’ ʚɞ

Hot girl diaries 16 y/o

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𑣲 Lani’s Blog >⩊<. ❤︎

BASIC .

Lani !! 𖦹 I am 16 𖦹 she/her 𖦹 In the U.S.

Girl . AuDHD (Autism + ADHD!) 𖦹

I am pro LGBTQ+ nd believe in human rights

Introvert ! . !

Interests .

My favorite color is pink..

I play Genshin Impact, Roblox, Overwatch, Identity V, Minecraft but i’ve also been into many other games like infinity nikki, cookie run kingdom, ++ more.

I don really watch shows, I have watched anime’s and such in the past but i’m generally not really into TV. I do like Disney princess movies ! mostly Frozen and Tangled but I think the history of the princesses are so interesting.

I like to travel and love miami especially. I like to write poetry, stories and journal. I enjoy making jewelry with beads and wire and enjoy drawing and painting. I LOVE animals, i’m a big animal person and I don’t just mean dog and cats. I currently love birds. I also really adore squirrels.

I like makeup and feeling feminine and just generally cute or coquette things are my style.

Don’t ask me about music cause I know NOTHING about music and will get nervous answering you . 💔

I am pagan and honor Lady Aphrodite although i’ve fallen out of worship a bit.

Blog

I am on a journey to take care of myself and improve my wellbeing and will posting about it here, I hope to help others along the way.

So I might post guides or just complain about life… 😔 But generally I love to talk about mental health and productivity. I also feel very strongly about Autism awareness. I might post about paganism too, I support every religion so as long as you respect mine please stay!

Boundaries

You can Dm me to vent without asking, I genuinely like listening to people. If I don’t reply right away just know you can let your heart out and I’ll reply when I can/ feel like it. Yes you can message me to be friends ! I would love to be friends I just have a few things I’d like you to know first, I get socially exhausted easily and often. Sometimes I cannot keep up with the pace of other people and get bored easily of conversations so I have hard time replying. So I have a hard time being engaged. I am also very shy at first as I do have social anxiety i’m just medicated for it because it got so bad i couldn’t leave my house. I don’t want this to scare anyone away, just so you don’t think I dislike you or get frustrated!

Links

I plan on adding more links here but,

I run a wellness discord server! feel free to join us!

Welcome all angels! A safe space for all who just need a community of people who all are aiming to be better. | 49 members

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how to enjoy lotion

how do i make myself not feel uncomfortably greasy

or is that just how is works..

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ADHD is laying in bed searching up “how do get motivation to ….” instead of doing the thing.

the frustration the guilt and disappointment with yourself

like i know what i wanna do and who i wanna be but .. i cant

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Hey, can I ask you something about autism? I’m trying to understand better.

Do people assume autistic individuals are always restless or on edge, and is that why I was surprised when I watched an autistic kid in a spelling bee who seemed calm at first? I only noticed small things later like tapping, moving a lot, and getting frustrated when he lost, which made me realize he might be autistic. Before that, I just thought he was shy and kind of reminded me of the ‘nerdy’ characters in movies. Is that a common misunderstanding?

Ahh! i’m so glad your asking!

Autism is a spectrum so autism can look like many things. A lot of individuals with autism may seem restless because of poor self regulation and intense emotions, while others might not be able to express any emotion at all and come off as reserved.

I can definitely see that being a common misconception because one is definitely more obvious than the other so it’s easy to associate restlessness and being on edge as a main autistic symptom.

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how do i be aesthetic and stuff…

[holycrumpets]

The sooner y'all realize that higher support needs disabled people are humans and chill people that you can form genuine meaningful relationships with the better. Like you know you can talk to them like normal people, right?

[flowersfromunderground]

Be yourself so ppl looking for u can find u

[wetheurban]

The balancing act of keeping your softness while making it clear you're not to be played with.

[desultory-suggestions]

It turns out that you can become the person you’ve always envisioned but you’ll still have the person you were before inside of you and you have to treat them with as much forgiveness and love as possible

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I think many people, especially those around my age who are getting into their first relationships, don’t realize the importance of communication.

My friend came to me a bit ago and told me about how she felt she wasn’t getting enough affection from her boyfriend. Basically my advice was.. tell him that.

So many arguments truly are built on only misunderstanding. If your partner loves you, I can promise you that they don’t have bad intentions or try to hurt you. Always remember that even though you may feel you’ve made something obvious, no one is able to read your mind. Something they did made you feel hurt? Tell them. You feel they are inconsiderate of your feelings when you communicate? Tell them.

I had this issue in my relationship, which we overcame. During communication he would feel defensive when I had brung up things he did and just by telling him about that behavior too, we found the best way for us to communicate to each-other and have had no issues with that since!

Communication is with no doubt very hard, Especially if you struggle talking about your feelings. But this shouldn’t discourage you as long as you are patient with yourself and them.

Note, this will NEVER apply after any kind of abuse and or domestic violence. Only is working things out good for safe and healthy relationships and never should you see abuse as only a misunderstanding ! Know your worth PLEASE 🙏 🙁

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Propaganda i’m not falling for:

Aphrodite is full of jealousy and spite

It’s okay to be mean to deities all the time if it’s playful

Aphrodite will make you conveniently attractive and change your face

Deities care about modern slang

Gods reach out through tiktok videos

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Hot girl tip:

Always go NATURAL! 🙏

Pleaseee learn how to train nd style ur natural hair!!

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The importance of sleep!

Self care guide ❤️

Are you someone who stays up all night and only sleeps when morning comes? Are you potentially only getting a few hours of sleep?

Maybe because it’s your alone time? Have hard time falling asleep at all? Studying?

It might feel good to be up at night but believe me.. it can feel way better to feel well rested!

But… why?

There is many studies that back this up, but here are just a few points.

When you are well rested, you are in a way better mood.

Can help bring motivation for everyday activities.

More sleep— better memory, learning and attention span.

Less chance of getting sick.

When you are lacking sleep you are more likely to make poor dietary decisions.

Better skin!

It might be hard, especially if your lacking motivation in the first place. But, let’s go through some ways we can achieve more sleep.

Sleep schedule

Your body will typically try to find a schedule and stick to it. For example, if you go to sleep every night around 9:30– your body will start to get tired every night around 9:30. You can improve your sleep quality by getting yourself to sleep and wake up around the same time every night.

screen time

This can be hard; especially for me too, but it’s shown that less screen time before bed can help you fall asleep faster. It’s best to have at least a hour of screen free time. But if this is difficult, make sure to turn on a night mode filter for your phone in settings and replace social media with sleep affective content.

exorcise

Do you notice how tired you get after a workout, or any type of physical activity? Well not only does this tire you out it will give you a better sleep! It’s also beneficial to do stretches and yoga before bed!

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I swear I should of took ‘fake it till’ you make it’ seriously all this time, cause truly, romanticizing life makes it so much better. Romanticizing productivity makes it all feel like i’m so successful every day and that i’m confident when I walk in public.

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dear autistics who

white

low support needs

not need 24/7 support

can work independently

can pay taxes

language privileged

intellectual & cognitive privileged

who can fit in societal definition of useful & productive (yes, even if hard)

when fight back against eugenics & ableism, you NEED to fight alongside, fight with, n fight for autistics who

radicalized & POC

from places of world where there critically lack autism knowledge n support

visibly autistic

higher support needs

need 24/7 care

can’t work independently or even work at all

can’t pay taxes

nonverbal, nonspeaking, minimally verbal, without functional communication, or cannot communicate via language at all even AAC

w intellectual disability or cognitive disabilities

who cannot fit into society definition of useful n productive, no matter how hard we try

because we always are & always will be primary target.

because we most vulnerable most marginalized within our, OUR community, which you belong in.

because once they finish us off you won’t be spared.

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AUTISM AWARENESS MONTH!!

why is awareness needed/important?

Individuals with autism struggle constantly, and autism is STILL commonly discriminated against. Autism is still not completely understood and so often do we get over looked as just “weird” and “odd.” The more others can understand, the more we can make the world an inclusive place.

This can help children who have trouble getting diagnosed, who desperately need access to resources but cannot due to others and themselves not understanding the symptoms!

With being a spectrum, some do not need these resources as much as others but with those who do, it can be life changing.

Spreading awareness can also bring more acceptance from others! Someone may not understand why an autistic individual acts a certain way, but when they do it’s much easier to support and help them by giving them a loving and safe environment. Autism exists everywhere and should not be a foreign concept!

Below I have added some resources and references if you would like to look into the importance of awareness :)

Why it’s important to recognize awareness

Challenges Autistic people face

Understanding autism

Woman overlooked

[khaire-traveler]

Reminder the religious burnout exists, and that's ok, actually. You don't need to be 100% ready to give all of yourself for the gods constantly. Remember that it's ok to step back, take a breather, and focus on other things.

Also, simple acts of devotion like randomly just saying, "Good night, [deity name]!" is still an act of devotion. It may seem small, but when small is all you can do, that's more than ok. 🧡