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Harley/Marx | He/It | 17 Hi! I'm Marx! I am a fat white mentally ill trans alloaro gay man! Read my DNI before following!

[lanster]

Going to be deleting tumblr, my discord is harls#7552 if you need me.

[lanster]

I’m going to be taking a break from tumblr, might still be on my side account, dm me for my discord

[lanster]

I feel so sick, like i deserved what was coming to be but it still doesn’t mean i cant be upset about it.

[lanster]

I’m going to get better I promise

[lanster]

I just. lost all my friends okay!

[lanster]

Oh my god im losing everyone

[lanster]

I need to get into dbt therapy

[lanster]

Hey me and charb are no longer friends, please don’t worry about me we ended on a good note, but my friends who are still friends with him please take care of him she was my best friend for almost 5 years. Thank you.

[grim-grimmsnarl]

You may not like Ed Sheeran but he’s right about one thing 

[t4timekeeper]

oc x canon is fun and sexy. i loved seeing other people write & draw it but didn’t think it was for me ‘til i tried it and like. Wrow <3 i am playing with little plush dolls and making them kiss

[official-spamton-facts]

FEELING A BIT [penished] TODAY.

[official-spamton-facts]

I LOVE TO WATCH [[Super Mario Smoking Weed The Movie HD]] EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE

[bisexualgarrus]

fuck the seven deadly sins. reblog and tag your most toxic trait: aggression, suspicion, manipulativeness, dominance, risk-taking, callousness or grandiosity

[faehalfwit]

*cries in cluster b*

[pumpkinnkidd]

i will never be done drawing kirbo characters as cats

[amygdalae]

“dont forget to lycan subscribe” - werewolf youtuber

[olyoil2-deactivated20250812]

People really are just like “have friends irl” as if we aren’t all real here just because you met someone on the internet doesn’t mean your relationship with them are less important or “real”

[olyoil2-deactivated20250812]

Like no offense I understand what people mean when they suggest getting friends off the internet but treating the internet like it’s this separate dimension where everything isn’t real bothers me it just does idk why

[sandersstudies]

If you and your partner practice frequent, non-sexual consent, your relationship will be healthier and easier.

“Are you comfortable with me ranting about my day for a few minutes?”

“Oh, this is your poetry? Would it be okay if I read it?”

“Do you mind if I use your phone for a few minutes?”

“Wow, your meal looks awesome. Could I try some?”

It will save a lot of grief, especially in a developing relationship. Eventually, with consistent “yes’s” and “no’s” you can figure out more permanent boundaries and guidelines.

“I need to ask before ranting about my day or taking their food, but my partner is okay with me using their phone whenever. However, my partner does not like me reading their poetry unless they offer first.”

[sandersstudies]

And this goes for friendships too! Even just stuff like “do you mind if I leave this door open?” 

[doomhamster]

…I never fully realized it before but this is a big part of why my relationship with my husband is so conflict-free. Both because him doing this all the time made it easy to trust him, back when we were a new item, and because it helped ME break out of the toxic idea that you should never ask about a partner’s preferences because if you Really Loved Them you should be able to intuit what they want, all the time, about anything. 

[tygermama]

my one son is autistic so I ask ‘hug or no hug?’ I always knock and wait to be acknowledged before opening my sons’ bedroom doors (not just because I respect their privacy but because they’re teenagers and I don’t want to walk in on any personal activities) I don’t go into their rooms without asking I don’t touch their phones without asking (I’ll pick one up to take to them if I find it in another room but I won’t go through it) yesterday, my younger son walked into my room, stopped, said sorry and walked out to the hall and knocked on my door ‘because if I have to knock on his door, he has to knock on mine’ because their trust is important and I want them to know I respect their privacy

[sophygurl]

Consent is not just for sex. Consent is not just for sex. Consent is not just for sex.