Deviations On Deviations

Nonbinary rubberist, born 1970s.

[onelittlekingdom]

New subs should to learn about their submissive role from other more experienced subs, not older dominant men.

[onelittlekingdom]

"but asking in the middle of the scene will kill the mood"

No. Getting it wrong and accidentally doing things against your partner's consent is what will kill the mood, both during the scene, and after.

[tarragonthedragon]

i just got the "see where your blood has gone!" email from giving blood but it glitched and just showed me my current location. which. theyre not wrong. that is where most of my blood is

[spankingtrove]

[spankersdelight]

Paddling is both painful and effective

[scarletbottoms]

"Y-Y-Yes, s-sir. I-It's what I-I-I deserve, s-s-sir."

[spankersdelight]

Presenting her freshly spanked buttocks

[extreme-bondage]

[spankersdelight]

Ready and waiting

[girlsneedaspanking]

[spankersdelight]

An incentive strapping ...

[spankersdelight]

Plug - to be used (can't be shown on tumblr)

[spankersdelight]

Obediently waiting

[spankersdelight]

Bedetime with red tail

[roughribo]

Big fan of de-centering the orgasm from sex and kink. Yes, it can be a fun goal to cum and an awesome experience, I'm not taking away from that. But human bodies are just poorly designed. It hiccups randomly. It can't consistently 3D print the organs right. The brain organ locks up from anxiety randomly. If it doesn't touch grass it gets angsty. It just is allergic. So just focus on having fun, what pleases each other, and broadening what "pleasure" even is beyond sexual sensation.

[roughribo]

Small but I feel important addendum: decentering orgasms should not feel like deprioritizing yourself or your pleasure. If you need some frequency of orgasms your partner should both A) know that, and B) act like they know that.

They should also be decentering orgasms themselves and it should be noticeable. Ask yourself: are they making decisions during sex that reflect on them pursuing their own climax or are they seeking out your reactions/novel sexual experiences? Almost always, someone who is decentering orgasms is doing the latter.

If someone consistently dismisses your concerns for your lack of orgasms while always getting off themselves, that's not decentering orgasms, that's someone coercing you (whether knowingly or unknowingly) to decenter you from your own sex.

And I think that's an important distinction to make so that those of us trying to decenter orgasms from sex can recognize when this sentiment is being weaponized to disenfranchise one participant more than the other.

Now, if your kink is to have only one person orgasm while the other is denied, as long as everyone consents it's fine and even in a dynamic like that you can decenter orgasms. But if there is a double standard being applied under the veil of decentering orgasms, that needs to be addressed or it will build resentment within the relationship.

[amspank]

“Sore when you sit means a proper spanking. Sore when you walk means a proper ass whooping!”

[miss-behavin]

[tpd4you]

Structure.

[modmad]

finally completed my outfit for Alias Chicane! thought I'd better give it a test run before heatwave 3.0 hits us... a dapper chap from the 1920s! please disregard my extremely not period appropriate stove

bonus: foxes gots to wash them soxes

[dragon-in-a-fez]

the other day a friend of a friend referred to "busting out of your abdomen like the alien from the Predator films" and I was completely caught off guard. like I guess that's - that's not wrong. the alien was. okay she was in the Predator films. well some of them. but like. she had her own. she's the alien from the Alien films. like. they have her name on them. he's not "King Kong from the Godzilla films"

[dragon-in-a-fez]

there's also a reason it's not called an "abdomenburster" but one issue at a time

[dragon-in-a-fez]

it's like when headlines refer to a famous woman via her husband. that's not "Predator's wife" she's got her own franchise!!

[dragon-in-a-fez]

tags from the crew of the Nostromo

[ropepup]

Shiny pup in the sun! ph/m: @ropepup

Something about being trapped in a latex pupsuit in hot weather... it's kind of the same dehumanizing vibe as getting kicked in the ribs, only you're just suffering quietly in your own personal sauna and it won't get better until someone actually does something to help...

[latexandcontrol]

Really hope this pup is being hydrated, such a cute doggo 🐶 ❤️