Deviations On Deviations

Nonbinary rubberist, born 1970s.

[nonhumannonperson]

it doesnt matter who or what goes into its mouth, it won't even see

[littlemissbratty]

Misters new favourite cane is hoop shaped and evil.

I'm sure it'll keep me in line.

Punished by @a-london-oldboy

[spankable]

OMG deepest sympathies, we have a loopy toy too and it is evil incarnate 😭😭😭

[beingincorporeal]

Rubber Discipline

Marquis, 1998

[the-sensitive-sadist]

how to go about breaking up with a sub? Like only in the practicing kink part, not in the relationship. I just worry that they're using kink as a coping mechanism rather than just play and hurting themselves while at it (for ex, wanting to be hurt more and more, specifically asking me to ignore safewords and any wish to stop, needing much more aftercare than normal because of such intense scenes, etc)

Hi anon, thanks for your ask.

Any type of breakup is delicate and can be difficult. It sounds like the situation you're in is bordering on unsafe. Wanting a safeword ignored is a huge red flag, and it says a lot about how that person views kink, and how they might act if you were the one to safeword. Unfortunately, I can't give you relationship specific advice other than asking you to please prioritize your boundaries, consent, and safety over someone else's desires, and to take steps to remove yourself from situations that are uncomfortable or feel unsafe. Stay safe, anon.

[spankable]

Reminder that ANYone involved in ANY kind of consensual activity should feel free to withdraw their consent at ANY time. I don't care if you're tied to a spanking bench, in the middle of penetrative sex, at the cinema, making dinner, playing Star Wars Monopoly with distant relatives at Xmas, playing in an orchestra, building sandcastles at the beach...

I don't care if you're the spanker or the spankee, or if you're the penetrative partner in sex. You could be in the middle of receiving the best oral sex of your life, you're STILL allowed to withdraw your consent.

And especially if you're worried that your play partner might be unsafe - or at least has widely different standards for "safe" from your own - you do not owe them play time.

If they're not interested in your comfort levels with the play you're doing, then they're not treating you like a partner - they're treating you like a masturbatory aid. And in particular, like one that's disposable.

And if someone uses lines like "I need you to do X, I need it so bad, if you don't give it to me I might hurt myself" - that is coercive and manipulative behaviour, and that is Not Okay. Also? Them saying it doesn't make it true. And even if they do, that doesn't make it your fault.

They have agency over their actions.

You have agency over your actions.

Do not make them responsible for your actions.

Do not take on responsibility for their actions.

[ticklegasm]

Controlling her lust

[latexandcontrol]

[maryoliveoil]

ANTHONY HEAD The Rocky Horror Picture Show (1991)

[spockslash]

Star Trek grandma

[ceruleanteacup]

Betcha Grandma was writing original k/s slashfic decades before you kiddies were born.

[spockslash]

Yes @ceruleanteacup , Grandma was

[space-feminist]

i hope everyone knows that OP wasn’t just saying this generally - she quite literally was the star trek grandma. she passed in 2018, rip to an icon

[natnormalatall]

roald dahl was antisemitic and misogynistic. george orwell was openly homophobic. edgar allan poe married his 13 year old cousin. dr seuss cheated on his wife (and was racist as well as antisemitic!). hp lovecraft was racist as fuck. anyways they’re fucking dead it’s not like you’re enabling their behaviors in the afterlife or something. then again I think they bleed into the books so uh keep an eye out for that

the difference between these old white guys and jk rowling is that the former group is all dead. jk rowling is alive and using your money to oppress trans people

[memewhore]

[bananahomo]

I reblogged this last month, tagged it, and said “might as well see if it works.” I used this video as a reference to find all the forms that i needed (which is A LOT, especially if you’re a dependent) and sent them through the mail, not really allowing myself to hope.

dude.

$2,714 of medical debt from my top surgery - gone. im shaking this was such a weight on me for 2 years and it fucking worked. what the fuck.

[minakittengaming]

This is huge. Sharing for my US friendos.

[zillyblog]

Hospitals like to hide these policies under a lot of successive links in obscure places, so if you don't see anything right away, keep looking! Get friends to help! Make it a scavenger hunt. A game where you're assassins sent to slit capitalism's throat

[butterflypeaflowertea]

ever since i was a little girl i knew i was doomed to take things too seriously and think about them forever

[spankable]

Hard relate

[angel-in-your-basement]

The concept and visual of empty pussy x getting your ass fucked is so goddamn hot. Like, your pussy is right there. It’s made to be fucked. It’s made to feel pleasure. It gets wet specifically for the purpose of being fucked. So to have it completely ignored in favour of your ass just feels so submissive and naughty and hot. Especially if you aren’t allowed to touch your clit. There’s something so fucking hot about being used like that. Getting to be full and fucked and yet so completely denied all at once. Such a good way to be desperately needy and useful at the same time - getting your ass fucked while your ignored pussy drips.

[invinciblerodent]

[invinciblerodent]

you guys are so right, I should have added the best part

[askrobouteguilliman40k]

This meme ages like a fine wine every year that passes.

[angel-in-your-basement]

Having a crush on someone when you have fucked up kinks is so embarrassing bc you’re just like “wow they’re so cute I want them to get off on the way I cry while they fuck me”

[properplace]

“think of me when you sit down tomorrow”

[bondage-ex-bwu]

[the-denial-diaries]

I want to be good for you. I really do. But sometimes, in moments of unbearable horniness, the desire to be a good girl isn’t enough to keep my hands away.

I need to know that my body doesn’t belong to me. That my autonomy can be taken away. At a whim. Slap me if I speak without permission. Slap me harder if I flinch from the slap.

I need to learn that my pleasure doesn’t belong to me. Make me beg you not to let me cum. Over and over. Until it’s believable. Until you’re convinced it’s genuine, true begging.

I need you to condition me so I associate your pleasure as my own, as the only pleasure I will ever need. Reward me with an edge when I please you. Punish me when I don’t.

I need you to break me. I’m obedient when I’m broken.