THERE'S A SWEETNESS IN CLUMSY EFFORTS

[chrisweedpiano]

one of my favorite posts of all time

[beardedmrbean]

[corrucyst]

zikenadrivit qou duukasek. zikena

[corrucyst]

now in hd

[corrucyst]

trusive attack.

[tvguts]

home movies is one of my absolute favorite cartoons-- it's one of those things i can watch over and over and still enjoy. a million years ago i drew the film crew as 20-somethings, and now that i'm 30 i figured i should draw them as 30-somethings! 📺✨️

melissa moved to the big city and has a job "in the industry" making commercials. brendon works as a manager for a hipstery coffee shop / video rental store and writes scripts on and off for fun. jason is a relentlessly quirky weirdo who makes money off a bunch of weird side hustles-- right now he's breeding lizards in his garage, among other things. they get together for movie nights now and then, though it's hard for them to agree on what to watch.

[herpsandbirds]

Wilson's Plover (Anarhynchus wilsonia), chicks, family Charadriidae, order Charadriiformes, FL, USA

photographs by Igor Marach

[pangur-and-grim]

this is huge… a three chair event

[pangur-and-grim]

[patricia-taxxon]

the thing is, if your younger self was a bigot or an abuser, u can't make people forgive you. but you still gotta forgive yourself, like that's non-negotiable, dude. that happens before u can even ask the question of earning forgiveness from anyone lese

[patricia-taxxon]

oops, in your attempt to martyr yourself out of respect for your victims you accidentally sabotaged your own ability to conceptualize yourself as anything but a perpetual evildoer who is always one bad day away from hurting everyone you love, all but guaranteeing history to repeat itself. rookie mistake

[patricia-taxxon]

im gonna try explaining myself, cus im a gambling addict and im waiting for the day that it actually works.

"forgiveness" is personal, that's why I said in the post that you might inflict harm on people for which they can never forgive you, but that's their quest. if you abuse someone, you can't go no-contact with yourself. you actually keep living in your own head indefinitely, and ultimately you need to learn to live with yourself in order to continue living a full life without further harm. this is not necessarily an anti-carceral thought, although i am generally anti-carceral myself. I simply want people to like, fix their heart and atone for real with measured accountability & self love instead of dissociating, self-marking themselves forever and guaranteeing their recidivism.

You and a remorseful abuser would both think I'm giving the easy, coddling path. It's actually the tough pragmatic path in disguise.

[ship-of-fools]

[riku-usi]

ミニダクテン新色

[rabbitkinglune777]

Moon prince Salem

(he/him) 🐇🌙

[itsthebeastpeddler]

Tonight's guest beast in the seat! Some cozy friends will be waiting in the shop tomorrow night at 6pm eastern.

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[greelin]

not a day goes by that i don’t think of this

[creatingblackcharacters]

If you think Remmick's behavior in Sinners towards Sammie was in any way queer or motivated by sexual attraction, boy do I got a book you'll love!!

Join your fellow centuries of believers as you learn the racist history of white people (yes, the women too!) taking advantage of their enslaved Black victims' bodies in any way they saw fit, because they had a psychosexual obsession with the power they held over them! I'm sorry, I mean the "enemies to lovers obsessed vampire trope"!

[theslinkystickyvoid]

That title is kinda creepy to me.

[creatingblackcharacters]

So is eating Black people both literally and figuratively, my dear

[queerliblib]

we were tagged in the replies here. just wanna say this book is incredible. we’ve got the audiobook at QLL (& hope to add the ebook in the future)

it is also an award winner! 2014 Lambda for LGBTQ Studies

[canisalbus]

✦ Proximity ✦

[hazard-symbols-that-fuck-hard]

LETTER SHIPPING IS NOW AVAILABLE FOR ALL STICKERS FOR BOTH DOMESTIC AND INTERNATIONAL ORDERS!

Domestic shipping is now a flat rate of only $0.78, and international shipping is only $1.70!

Buy here!

(of course, this only applies to stickers, not pins)

Apologies for taking so long to get this set up. I've been looking into it for a while now, but Etsy is REAL obtuse about letting you do this!

(Pride and glow stickers are also still on sale!)

[hazard-symbols-that-fuck-hard]

okay so this is apparently illegal for international shipping.

oops

I’m going to try and send out orders placed today as letters (and if I can’t, I’ll front the cost of the customs forms), but unfortunately, after that, you all are going to have to go back to those crazy high shipping costs, which sucks major ass 😩

I can still send stickers as letters domestically

[hazard-symbols-that-fuck-hard]

What I think I’m going to do is use up all of the international stamps I’ve already bought, then return to normal

[hazard-symbols-that-fuck-hard]

yeah I actually think that would work

because then it’d be a gift, not merchandise

[potetoboy]

[takeddd]

#ピオ #pio #piopio 膝の上のピオでおはようございます…😆😸👋