Cry Harder

Bobbi. 28. Angry Black Lesbian. RadFem. Gender Abolitionist/Anti-Porn.

[femmesandhoney]

[swampreligion-deactivated202501]

does anyone else get annoyed by those “i’m a useless wlw i wouldn’t know what to do with a woman this beautiful 🥺” posts? like shut the fuck up. get out of my way i know what to do with a beautiful lady

[countess-radfem]

So today in my anthropology class, a guy said that if we were in a handmaid’s tale type situation where lots of the human race was infertile, we should do artificial insemination instead of rape and I hopped on the mic to tell him that forced pregnancy, no matter where the sperm comes from, is a form of torture and that women’s bodies aren’t public resources and all 150 people on the zoom were like 👀

[countess-radfem]

Then he went “oh so the human race should die out?” And I said yep. If the only way to keep our species going is through forced pregnancy at that point we should just kick the bucket

[lovelightandbonemagic-deactivat]

Men can't fathom it because they don't experience the danger.

[whats-this-mustelid]

I just think that 'animals are living intelligent creatures that have feelings and deserve to be respected' and 'when done properly farming is beneficial to both people and animals and there's nothing wrong with raising and killing animals for food, clothing, and other products' are concepts that very much can and should coexist

[punkitt-is-here]

i keep getting recommended videos about how minecraft isn't fun anymore and it's mojangs fault. i think its such a fascinating phenomenon because i think at least 70% of that comes down to anything getting a little stale when it's all you do for years and years. of course you're going to not feel like something is as fun as it used to be, you started playing minecraft when you were 11 and you are 23 now with a job. things change and you are experiencing it.

[defvnct-pvp]

my favourite tidbit about this issue is that 9 times out of 10 the person making the video isn't even playing the way the developers intended, and are instead constantly farming and minmaxing their way to the end instead of sitting down to have fun. "if they just took away this exploit and that exploit", they say, forgetting they can just not use those exploits...

the biggest "problem" with minecraft is that you have to make your own fun, and i think some of (not all, definitely not all) these people have forgotten how to do that.

[5c0l0p3ndr4]

"if they just removed iron farms it'd be fun again!!!!!!"

[pusheen-the-radical]

so i had a thought about the male loneliness epidemic. in a book i’ve been reading (deaths of despair) the authors make a sort of passing point that the changing societal and sexual mores of the 1960s and onwards basically gave men the licence to fuck around and then fuck off, leaving women saddled with the outcomes of those relationships (i.e. children) and how this was now leading to men in their 40s, 50, and 60s feeling unmoored and adrift because- surprise surprise!- after putting no effort, time or work into having families they didn’t have one. so it really stuck with me, that on top of the usual criticisms of the male loneliness epidemic that radfems can levy- if men don’t want to be lonely why don’t they support each other, start their own services, create their own communities- this hits even harder because this is literally consequences of their own making for wanting to have all the fun and none of the responsibility. so cry/die harder.

[newyorker]

A cartoon by Will McPhail.

[ruffboi-mags]

[radicalavender-deactivated20250]

oh my god. this tiktok, in which a lesbian is speaking up against “genital preference”, has 2.3k likes so far. and all of the comments are actually POSITIVE. nature is healing. lesbians are waking up. there is hope!!

heres some of the comments:

[scrupulosity-comics]

title of this is just ‘lesbian sex’

[kosmogrl]

[hexagon-club]

[aftonfamilyvalues]

i think this sums it up nicely. men only view women by their relationships to men, specially themselves. mom isnt a real person, shes just mom and mom having a life outside of being mom is a betrayal to him. even in the football guys speech, he states his wifes life did not start until she became his wife. whatever she did beforehand, what she does outside of being his wife, it does not matter because she is his wife and thats the only part of her identity that matters to him.

[itszonez]

QUEEN LATIFAH | The Rosie O'Donnell Show (1997)

[onlinelovewitch-deactivated2024]

[sighcomics]

[roycohn]

literally hate how lgbtq ppl are constantly asking "am i valid?" "is this a valid way to be?" every 5 seconds. girl idk what to tell you but if you live your life seeking validation from others your self-image will always exist at their mercy. you gotta get some self-respect and stop begging others to validate you

[untrusteveryone]

SHOUT OUT TO EVERYONE WHO STILL TRIES TO GET BACK INTO THE SWING OF THINGS AFTER DEPRESSION HIT THEM HARD. THERE ISN’T ENOUGH RECOGNITION FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO KNOW THAT THEY’RE GOING TO LOSE INTEREST AND MOTIVATION AGAIN BUT PUSH THEMSELVES TO DO STUFF ANYWAYS. YOU ARE FIGHTING A DAILY BATTLE WITH YOUR OWN THOUGHTS AND YOU’RE STILL COMING OUT ON TOP, YOU’RE ALL BRAVE AS FUCK