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34 | dyke | vibing

[allystruggles]

Having to listen to Lana Del Rey in your gay friends’ cars and pretend it doesn’t sound like an old man trying to read a poem on his deathbed

[justinmadson]

Pushing Daisies

[moonshineshrew]

Do u think that we can convince women at large that leg and arm and armpit hair is just as chic as bush hair. Its bush summer can we do leg hair and arm hair summer too. Please. Is that too muchh to ask

[foenixed]

"Why would this character be jealous of their friend's romantic relationships? Clearly they're in love with them" I don't know if you guys have ever Had Friends but it's actually pretty common for people to feel jealous if their best friend suddenly has less time for them and is prioritising someone they just met over them. That's not inherently romantic, that's the general human desire to be valued by the people you value.

[kiragecko]

My Very Little Sister had to move out of 3 living situations because her friends/cousins found romantic partners and didn't need a roommate anymore. She started getting really grouchy whenever a friend mentioned romance after a while.

My cousin lost his best friend of 20+ years because the friend's girlfriend decided he shouldn't see anyone else. For years my cousin was leery about anyone else starting romantic relationships, and acted kinda jealous and resentful.

I had to make clear boundaries with my now-husband, explaining that I was NOT going to be investing all of my limited emotional energy into our relationship, he had to be willing to share. And my emotional energy is VERY limited, so he struggled! If I hadn't been so very very aromantic, and had spent as much time with him as he wanted, my other relationships would have suffered greatly. As it was, people had to get used to a changed dynamic with me - he came everywhere, because it was easier to get out of the house when he was dragging me.

People in platonic relationships have very real reasons to be jealous!

[siegecraft]

i know it's hard. but i so firmly believe the strongest antidote to loneliness is reaching out first. and continuing to reach out. again and again and again. excise any scrap of shame you hold about being the person who texts first or pitches the plan or asks to get lunch. everyone is tired and busy and struggling. and afraid of feeling unwanted and unimportant. don't let the people you love feel that way. reach out first. don't be a ghost in your own life.

[all--whirlwind--goo]

Augustus Pablo and friends

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

they seriously expected us to worship cops & soldiers when street cleaners and sanitation workers exist? fuck off i know who my heroes are

[klapollo]

We watched toy story 2 today and they say suicide prominently in the first act. So whenever someone says "unalive," they are operating at a sub-toy story level of vocabulary maturity

[hmsindecision]

Not to be a drama queen here but I think this black pill thing is a nihilist psyop trying to convince feminists to give up and be complacent, but in the lazy resentful liberal way. You know, like Marxist guys who don’t tip because they don’t believe in the tipping system.

Who cares if you can’t save every woman? Who cares if the fight is longer than your lifetime? Who cares if the odds feel unsurmountable? That’s just how hard the fight is, not a barometer of its worth.

I don’t change the world, but in my work and my personal life I have definitely changed it for some women. Imagine the ripple effect if we all do that.

Selfish and kinda childish behavior to think you have to be the savior for a movement to matter tbh

[lostandfem]

"Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world's grief. Do justly, now. Love mercy, now. Walk humbly, now. You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it."

-Bridges McCall

[hikes-and-moans]

UNPOPULAR OPINION: A lot of "mental health issues" disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.

[charaznablescanontoyota]

words of wisdom from wikipedia this evening

[ryannorth]

much to consider

[robinboardman]

An albino turtle hatchling sits among other Arrau turtles Tapauá, Brazil Photograph: Edmar Barros

[festeredhearts]

[tieflingsorcerer]

the name change from pcos to pmos has been very validating for my symptoms and ALSO allows me to make “PMOS stands for pissing me off syndrome” jokes every time I have a minorly inconvenient symptom

[gobloggirl]

[pisshandkerchief]

there are corners of this website where the year is still 2013. and sometimes, on beautiful nights when the veil is thin, you can find them . if you know where to look

[festeredhearts]