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that clip of scarjo and ad driver arguing in the marriage divorce movie has been haunting me bc i cannot Fucking Believe anyone is expected to be entertained or interested in a movie abt a straight couple yelling how they hate each other like if i wanted to see that id just wander thru the walmart parking lot like everybody else thanks

randomishnickname

One of those fandom things that I love is when there’s new characters around and, with the unwavering confidence of an old farmer appraising cattle, fanfic authors take one good look at them, tilt their imaginary hat, and go “Aye. Praise kink, that one. Mighty case of praise kink if I ever saw one.” And everyone else just “aye.”

inimitably-ineffable

Not to mention the plot tropes.

“I don’t think the Highschool AU is going to come in too strong this year. Fandoms a touch jaded for that. But the hurt/comfort is growin’ thick as weeds and twice as fast. It’ll be a good harvest, fer sure.”

mx-incognito

@cynaram

cynaram

“I hear over at [neighbouring fandom] they’re putting the top field into fix-it fics.”

“Yes, ‘twould be. They had a hard season last year, a right hard season.”

anxietyproblem

asundergrowth

Fuck you op this made coffee come out of my fucking nose it wasn’t even that funny fuck you

goawfma

skskskkskskjjkjks

theroguefeminist

all of us have been unlearning problematic things - it’s really malicious and in bad faith to purposefully dig up old posts by someone that do not reflect their current opinions and attack them over it out of context

phaedra-theexhausted

Go get rid of your old terrible posts then. If I eat something I don’t keep the wrapper around. I get rid of it.

theroguefeminist

I have nearly 50,000 posts on my Tumblr blog which I have been running since 2011. It is literally impossible for me to sift through all of that for every single “problematic” post just for fear of some jerk dredging up something I said eight years ago.

And honestly? I shouldn’t anyway. You can literally make the opposite argument: that it’s wrong to hide your past. If we all keep pretending that ideological purity is possible and erasing the journeys we’ve gone though to learn from mistakes and become better, more educated people I feel like that does more harm than good.

Anyway, your attitude is victim blaming. We should not normalize a culture of fear where everyone is desperate to hide their flaws because someone might start a harassment campaign against them. The solution is ending that culture, not saddling people with the burden of dealing with it.

falincoded

No.1 on the list of dogs that are so vacant the only explanation is that they were once beings of limitless knowledge who willingly sacrificed all of their intelligence for blissful ignorance:

Kermit

purrplexed

okay so my dad got me a pen

and i was like “oh, thanks dad, it’s even my favourite colour”

but then it was like, ‘oh, what’s this?’

oh?

OH

DAD

mommabearclarke

THAT’S BRUTAL I want ten

trainthief

wish customer service jobs operated w video game standards, so a customer would come up to me and i’d say “greetings traveler! looking to trade?” and they’d only had 4 options for their response

trainthief

i’d just stand there wiping down the same part of the counter for 8 hours until my shift ended and then id drop everything and walk away and if you tried to interact with me i’d just keep running into you silently until you moved

dadvoidant

my problem isnt really that i dont talk because im afraid of opening up, my problem is that i literally dont know. u could ask/tell me anything and i will not have a clear response in my head because my brain shuts down

marisatomay

might fuck around and read a 600 page physical published book in one sitting like it’s 2006 and I’m being bullied in middle school so I take refuge in the library and inhale books at a frightening speed that I have not been able to replicate since

ruinedchildhood

closet-keys

I periodically just forget straight cis men exist

I’ll be like “oh I should reblog this post about healthy relationships with men even though I’m a lesbian cause a lot of my followers date men.. gay men, bi & pan folks, straight women, actually there’s such a small number of people in the world who don’t date men, it’s just lesbians! Oh my god. Wait... wait no that’s not right”

Or like, see a guy and be like “wow his chest looks so flat, I wonder what brand binder he uses! I need to get one. Wait... oh wait nvm”

unnameablethings

mood my main thing is "wife." An anonymous person on the internet will mention their wife and im like "aw im so happy for this nice woman and her wife" and then theyll say something else and ill be like WAIT HANG ON A DANG MINUTE THATS A MAN I DIDNT KNOW MEN WERE ALLOWED TO HAVE WIVES

yeezy-nation

we live in a time where ppl have the gall to say shit like “vegetarians who eat meat are still vegetarians. asexuals who experience sexual attraction are still asexuals. atheists who believe in God are still atheists” like do words have meaning anymore

dare-i-say-asexual

marisatomay

someone: you gotta sit with both feet on the ground

me:

morguelefey

i know we’ve been here but sometimes it really does hit you. like it cuts through

gothic-punk

Get ready to be flagged as a completely different person and possibly spend the rest of your life in jail.

perigeeprincess

whoop whoop i fucking guess

toxicmutantslimefreaks

Well boys, it’s finally time

greenwithenby-deactivated201609

People who prefer hot weather: Snow and ice are a pain, and the cold is just kind of uncomfortable even when you wrap up, you know?

People who prefer cold weather: MY SKIN LITERALLY MELTS OFF EVERY SUMMER I AM A FUCKING HUMAN SOUP AS WE SPEAK

greenwithenby-deactivated201609

you wouldn’t believe how many people reblogged this to whine about hot weather in the tags.

nucleic-friend-deactivated20171

too cold? put on another layer!

too hot? change into thinner clothes!

still too cold? put on another layer!

still too hot? uh, get naked I guess?

still too cold? put on another layer!

still too hot? Ţ̡̜̮̗̟̯͘ͅA̛͈͎̤͙̳̦̱̜̺̪K̢̻̥̥̥̪̙̜̩̗̼̤̻̻͖͍̜͈͉͠ͅE̟͕̩͔̪͓͔̥̦͇̣͇̳͕͉͜ͅ ̠̝̥̖̭̦̼́͝O̩̦͓̠͉̲̲̱̪̹̻̼̭̯͎͈̕͢F̷̸̢̛̙͇͔̜̙̮̗̲̤͇̯͡F̧̨̱̤̲̫͕͔̼̭͙̠̙͙̹̻ͅ ҉̫̠͓̙̠͔̕͜͠Y͡҉̴̘̭̬̳́O̶̶̧͚̞̣̯̩̫̜̩͉̤͎͖̖͟ͅU̶̵̺̠̪̘̱̮̮̙̻͈̣̦̭͠͝͞R̨҉̦̺͓̩̺͖̘̪̥̺͚̱͚͔̪͓̖̰ ̷̸̺͇̳͇̖̥̻̳͚̗̥͙̪̣́S̡̞̳͖̭̯͉̻̠͔̥̹̫̣̼̹͇͜K͏̧͍̪̗̖̜̫̙̱̫͈̟̝̮͈̻̺̯̟̠̀Į̧̙͙͔̠͖̟̕͝Ǹ͖͎̳͍̪̱̞͇̺̘̩͘͜͠