There's Something About Mary O's
On a crisp New York morning, we stand in the kitchen of Mary Oâs, an Irish Pub in the heart of Manhattanâs East Village. Mary O'Halloran, the owner, is rushing aboutâmixing dough for homemade Irish soda bread, Irish stew boiling on the stove next to a huge pot of corned beef and cabbage. Itâs St. Patrickâs day.
How do you build a neighborhood bar in a cosmopolitan city? How do you manage a busy business and a large family? What are the challenges and the rewards of owning your own business? Here, Mary spills the beans as she cuts the carrots.
Did you always know you wanted to own a bar?
Yes, ever since I moved to America from Ireland and started working as a bartender 25 years ago. I had worked as a bartender for 18 years before I opened Mary Oâs in 2009. Â
Do you think you would be able to get your business started the same way today that you did when you opened?
I think so, though the banks have become more difficult to deal with. Getting a line of credit was easier when I was starting, though I started my business with personal savings, not with a bank loan. Now, I get the sense that you have to jump through a lot more hoops if you were trying for a credit.
Other than when you first started the bar, when did you have the biggest need for business funding?
It takes time to build a clientele. I am a one woman show. Â The financial pressure was most tangible a year, year and a half into the business. My client base was growing, but 2009 was a very difficult year to start. I was working around the clock - and of course still am.
What are some things you know now that you wished you knew when you opened the bar?
If I had to give advice to someone who is starting their business now, I would say be more cautious about what is going to happen in the first year or two. Consider that you may need backup money if things donât go as well as you hoped for.
How do you manage to run a successful bar and take care of your family without missing a beat?
There is no secret. Itâs hard work and no sleep! I canât tell you how hard it is. The guiltâwhen I have to leave my kids because the business needs meâis tough. But my Irish stubbornness keeps me going. Itâs all blood, sweat and tears.
If you couldnât have this job, what job would you have?
My husband is a longshoreman. Had I not opened the bar, I wouldâve moved to Alaska, so my children could have the âgood life.â But I wanted to have a barâI had to give it a try! I wish I could be that 9-to-5 lady, but Iâm not. When I have a bar full of people and everybody is having a good time, I thrive on that.
What part does your neighborhood/community play when it comes to the success of your business?
A very big one. We are very much a local bar, a neighborhood staple.
What makes your customers loyal?
Our customers keep coming back, not just because of our drinks and food (and itâs all excellent; Mary Oâs qualifies as a true gastropub), but also because of the warm welcome and the personal connection I have with all my regular customers.
How important is social media to Mary Oâs?
I use Facebook all the time, and all my customers are on it. They post pictures and learn whatâs going on. Roughly half of my customers are women, maybe because of me. Itâs a comfortable place to have a beer and a chat.
You were born in Ireland. Is St Patrickâs day celebrated any differently over there?
Years ago it was very different. It was more religious. You went to mass, you walked in the parade, you broke your fast. Many people would stop drinking during lent and theyâd have their first beer on St Patrickâs day. Maybe thatâs where the drinking tradition on St. Patrickâs day started. Â Now the Irish have followed the American way and party more. In my family we still follow the Irish tradition. I am busy at work, but my two oldest sons will walk in the Parade on 5th Avenue later today. The luck of the Irish, I have a very good friend who will take them.
St. Patrickâs Day is presumably a big day for your business. Will your mix of customers be different today?
Same people, only more of them. I have baked 40 breads for today! We are possibly the only Irish bar in New York that makes home made Irish soda bread from scratch.
Whatâs your St Patrickâs Special?
Lots of food: Corned beef and cabbage, Irish stew, shepherdâs pie, chicken pie, Dublin style chicken curry, and beer battered fish & chipsâŠ.and lots of drinks: Hot toddies, Irish coffees, Guinness, Smithwickâs, and of course, the Irish-American  "Irish car bombs"âthat no one really does in Ireland.
Speaking of Guinness, how would you react if a customer complained that your Guinness is warm?
Actually they wonât, because we keep our Guinness chilled to meet local taste. Â But if an Irishman had a glass of very chilled Guinness, I guarantee you, you will hear about it!
Mary Oâs is located at 32 Avenue A in Manhattanâs East Village. (212) 505-5610
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