[leomoonbish]

about me💖🍾✨

Sagittarius🌞 Leo 🌑 Libra 🌅 (maybe virgo) 😖

interests- i do tarot (exchange readings are open, and soon i will post pac’s), witchcraft, astrology, manifestation, law of attraction, i love to watch movies/shows, fashion, and jewelry

more coming soon….

[succulentsiren]

Stop shrinking and do the things YOU actually enjoy. Have your favorite cup of coffee or wine. Eat the food you love. Listen to the music you love. Watch your favorite show. Wear makeup and dress up. Read interesting spiritual and occult books. Do your tarot readings. Collect your crystals. Get tattoos. Be the black sheep. Don't shrink your beliefs, lifestyle or presence just because someone else is uncomfortable with your self-expression.

[secretlovedit]

Mercurial placements : Virgo/Gemini/3H/6H 💡

Virgo sun/moon/rising/ic/mercury/mars/jupiter

Gemini sun/moon/rising/ic/mercury/mars/jupiter

Mercury conjuct jupiter/uranus/pluto/chiron

Harsh aspected mercury to pluto/mc/uranus/chiron

Mercurial Saturn/Lilith/Chiron (signs/houses)

Food sensitivities, stomach issues, usually look thin/younger than their age.

Insomnia, overthinking, anxiety, detriment jupiter.

Constant brain stimulation, learning, developing, communication is important, and interaction with others is also necessary, otherwise you can go crazy. Be with people who are open to communication and interactions, share your ideas. Talk, joke, don't suppress it in yourself. Be yourself, don't be afraid to talk, even if you've been told that you're very noisy and there are too many of you. You are what you say. And most importantly, you need to find a balance with anxiety and step outside your comfort zone.

A good sleep is also necessary, take care of yourself. Love ya !

[cazshmere]

Moon Signs and the Trap of Manipulation 🎭

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DISCLAIMER: This post is meant to bring awareness to subtle manipulation tactics that each Moon sign might be more vulnerable to. Being aware of these patterns can help you set better boundaries and protect yourself from being taken advantage of. Remember, manipulation isn’t always obvious, and recognizing these behaviors can help you stay in control of your own choices. These are just my personal observations so please take them with a grain of salt 🎭

♈ Aries Moon

1. People pretend to be your friends but secretly compete with you, trying to one-up or outshine you.

2. Manipulators make you feel like you’re in charge, knowing that stroking your ego makes you more willing to comply.

3. You can be guilt-tripped into taking the lead in situations, even when it’s not beneficial to you.

4. You might be manipulated into unnecessary fights, arguments, or rivalries by people who provoke you on purpose.

5. People may secretly compete with you by copying your ideas, style, or achievements while pretending to admire you. They subtly try to outdo you or take credit for your originality, making you feel the need to constantly prove yourself.

🎭 for instance a “friend” that always hypes you up as the leader but subtly takes credit for your ideas and efforts. you end up doing all the work while they sit back and benefit.

♉ Taurus Moon

1. People use financial or emotional security to gain control over you.

2. Being pampered with gifts, acts of service, or luxurious experiences can make you overlook red flags sometimes.

3. Some people make you dependent on them so that you feel like you need them to be okay.

4. Fear of change or instability can be used to keep you in a stagnant or toxic situation.

5. People may appeal to your loyalty, making you feel guilty for leaving situations that no longer serve you.

🎭 okay so for instance a partner provides for you financially and always does nice things for you, but slowly starts controlling where you go, what you do, and who you see. since they’ve “done so much for you”, you feel guilty setting boundaries.

♊ Gemini Moon

1. People who can keep up with your mind can subtly steer your opinions and perceptions.

2. If someone engages you in deep, interesting conversations, you may ignore their true motives.

3. You might be manipulated through fast-talking, gaslighting, or cleverly twisted words.

4. You could be distracted by fun, new ideas, or constant entertainment, making you miss underlying manipulation.

5. People can create an “information overload”, overwhelming you so you stop questioning them.

🎭 okay so lets say there’s this friend who always has fascinating conversations with you but subtly inserts their own biases and over time, you start adopting their beliefs without realizing they’ve been shaping your opinions💀 scary ngl

♋ Cancer Moon

1. People who play the victim can make you feel responsible for their happiness.

2. You may stay in toxic situations out of loyalty, especially if someone reminds you of past good times.

3. Guilt-tripping tactics like “after everything I’ve done for you” can make you feel obligated to help.

4. Some people use their emotions to control your actions, acting sad or hurt whenever you set boundaries.

5. Fear of abandonment can be exploited to keep you stuck in draining relationships.

🎭 okay so lets say a family member constantly reminds you how much they sacrificed for you, making you feel guilty for prioritizing yourself. even when they mistreat you, you feel like you “owe” them loyalty.

♌ Leo Moon

1. Flattery and constant praise can blind you to manipulation.

2. People who make you feel special or put you on a pedestal can subtly control your actions.

3. Your fear of being embarrassed or looking bad in public can be used against you.

4. Manipulators may guilt you into staying by making you feel like their admiration is conditional.

5. Someone may create a situation where they “need” you to save them, making you feel heroic.

🎭 for example a partner constantly praises you in public but privately criticizes and controls you. you don’t want to leave because you feel like everyone sees you as a “power couple” because of the manipulation😕

♍ Virgo Moon

1. People convince you that you owe them help or that it’s your job to fix things.

2. You might be guilt-tripped into doing more by people who act helpless or incompetent.

3. Manipulators use your perfectionism against you, making you feel like nothing you do is “enough”.

4. Constant subtle criticism can make you dependent on their validation.

5. You might be drawn to “projects” or people who seem broken but just need your help to “change”.

🎭 let’s say a boss subtly criticizes your work but also tells you that “no one else can do it like you,” making you work extra hard for their approval😕

♎ Libra Moon

1. People use your desire for peace to pressure you into saying yes.

2. Manipulators guilt you into staying by saying you’re being “cold” or “selfish.”

3. Someone may use social circles or mutual connections to trap you in toxic dynamics.

4. You may stay in bad situations to avoid confrontation or looking like the bad guy.

5. Love-bombing (excessive charm and attention) can make you ignore red flags.

🎭 a friend always acts hurt whenever you say no, making you feel guilty. you keep agreeing to things just to avoid feeling like a bad person.

♏ Scorpio Moon

1. People create deep emotional connections quickly to trap you.

2. Secrets, shared trauma, or deep conversations can be used as a tool to control you.

3. Someone might convince you that only they truly understand you, making you dependent on them.

4. Emotional blackmail, threats, or withholding affection can keep you attached.

5. Manipulators might play with your trust issues, making you feel like you are the problem.

🎭 let’s say a partner love-bombs you, creates an intense emotional bond, then slowly isolates you from others, making you feel like they’re the only one who truly gets you, BLARING RED FLAG BABY 🚩🚩

♐ Sagittarius Moon

1. People convince you to take risks, knowing you love spontaneity.

2. Manipulators promise big, exciting things but never deliver.

3. Someone might make you feel “boring” or “trapped” if you try to be cautious.

4. Your belief in freedom may be twisted into an excuse for them to avoid responsibility.

5. You might be manipulated into chasing dreams that only benefit them.

🎭 someone constantly asks for your insights, ideas, or perspectives, making you feel valued for your wisdom. but later, they present your knowledge as their own, taking credit while you’re left wondering if you were just being used as a stepping stone.

♑ Capricorn Moon

1. People make you feel like it’s your job to take care of them.

2. Manipulators guilt you into overworking, making you feel like your success depends on them. I’ve noticed that for Capricorn Moons, there is a high possibility that one or both of their parents control and manipulate them.

3. Your fear of failure can be used to pressure you into doing things.

4. You may feel obligated to stay in a situation because you’ve already invested time and effort.

5. Someone might convince you that leaving means you “lack discipline” or are “giving up”.

🎭 picture this: a toxic work environment convinces you that you must overwork yourself because ‘success comes to those who sacrifice’. the people around you reinforce this message, making you feel like it’s normal😔

♒ Aquarius Moon

1. People use your love for unique perspectives to subtly push their own agenda.

2. Someone might make you feel like only they see the world the way you do.

3. Manipulators can twist your desire for freedom into making you avoid real emotional connections.

4. You might be convinced to reject traditional stability, even when it would benefit you.

5. Your rebellious side may be used to push you into unnecessary conflicts.

🎭 its like when a friend convinces you to cut off everyone in your life because “they don’t understand you,” isolating you so you rely only on them 🚩🚩🚩🚩

♓ Pisces Moon

1. People use your empathy to make you feel like you must save them.

2. Someone might make you believe in a dream-like fantasy to keep you attached.

3. Manipulators use sob stories and victimization to guilt you into staying.

4. You may be gaslit into questioning your reality.

5. Someone might use your idealism to get you to ignore practical concerns.

🎭 for example a toxic partner convinces you that enduring suffering together is a “beautiful love story,” making you ignore red flags💀 like boi???

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[sillybruja]

Obsession in Astrology PT 1: Pluto-Venus Aspects

Disclaimer: this is my own work, do not repost my content as your own! Give credit where credit is due, please. This post is for entertainment purposes only & should be taken as such as astrology is much too nuanced and complex.

As a fair warning, I will be going into great depth here, so if you don’t see a common placement or feel like I’ve missed something, I assure you I have not! It's all coming 🙂

I’m going to be focusing on pluto + Venus for this post, because, well, why not? Let’s first talk about what pluto is.

Pluto is an outer & generational planet that is traditionally ruled by Scorpio. Pluto symbolizes death, destruction, rebirth/transformation psychics, darkness, sex, occult interests / practices etc.

When we consider things like obsession or stalking, pluto is very comfortable here. is a very slow moving planet, so this planet can dwell in a sign for 20 years on average, but it can even be in a sign for 30 years, so when we are looking into things like obsession, stalking/stalkers, having high influence — the sign pluto is in does not matter as much as the house and aspects.

In this post, I’ll be going over the pluto-venus placements found in your birth chart that I feel could definitely signify obsession.

Pluto-Venus aspects

I just want to say that ALL Pluto-Venus aspects could involve stalking/obsession! But, let's talk about it.

Difficult aspects (conjunctions, opposites, squares) are arguably more difficult, of course.

Having pluto conjunct Venus can sort of emphasize this energy in your life and can bring extreme emotional or sexual intensity from others. This placement, to me, unfortunately means you will always attract very intense, obsessive, possessive and all consuming people into your life until you have better boundaries. You're like the real life Jessica Rabbit (or masculine equivalent or whatever) and people literally GAWK at you. Now, while I have to give you credit, you don't seek attention -- you are also not naive that it is there, and you can rather enjoy the intensity, admiration and devotion from others. They're obsessed with you, and you're obsessed with being obsessed over. You give off an intensity that people can sense, and that makes you very powerful to them. This is definitely the placement that deals with people that want to "own" them. Your exes, or situationships could be your biggest stalkers, popping in and out of your life for Intel on you lmaooo. You often become unforgettable to people even when you move on.

Having pluto square venus can make love seriously feel like a power struggle. YOU are the one who can struggle with obsession or obsessive thinking in terms of your relationships, but this isn't a one size fits all. You can just as well experience very intense obsession from others -- the difference is, this feel all consuming to you over time. While pluto conjunct Venus "rolls with the punches" when it comes to this energy, pluto square Venus can't just do that. You become consumed with the pain from these intense connections (or they do). This aspect can feel like being addicted to the absolute wrong person, to the person who hurt you the most. Or wanting someone so badly you can feel like you're losing yourself. I've also noticed that people can get addicted to any mental/mind games they THINK you're playing. They can even get addicted to the betrayal they feel by you, for instance, if you reject them they will obsessively think about it. For years.

Having pluto opposite venus can make the obsession you face feel like a game of tug of war between love and control. The kinds of stalkers or people who become obsessed with you tend to be people who can trigger your shadow side. The type of obsession you face could feel especially painful because people could genuinely love & obsess over you until they hate you :/ You might feel like your relationships are very karmic, or fated, much more than the other venus-pluto aspects. You might also feel like you have had past life connections with these people who stalk, or obsess over you. It's unexplainable, but undeniable, and you both feel it. you tend to attract stalkers who put you on a pedestal and see you as the one who completes or exposes them. There's a lot of emotional instability with these people, though - they will swing between adoration and resentment.

With venus trine pluto, people get addicted to the vibes lol. Obsession here is a little different and less intense. Here, obsession tends to be more emotional or spiritual, rather than aggressive. Your energy feels healing and safe, and people do not want to lose that. But remember, pluto is still involved - people can still take it too far. People become obsessed with your kindness and energy, to the point of possession. I see a lot of mistreatment to the placement person because people try to capture that healing essence while clinging on too tight and depleting you from your energy. Yes, you can find lots of energy vampires here. Though you can experience vampirism with any pluto/Venus contact, when these planets are trining, you can attract energetic vampires wanting to capture and possess your kindness and empathy. Your stalkers could be your deeply disturbed admirers who feel entitled to you. Once these people are out of your life, they will stalk the living daylights out of you online. They will also keep romanticizing things between you two even if it's far from reality.

With venus sextile pluto, people become obsessed with you because of how you have changed their lives. Your stalkers feel changed just by knowing you. They feel like you're "destined" to be with them (in any capacity) because of your ability to show others how to transform through dark chapters in their lives. The Obsession you face comes from when people mistake your kindness and empathy for intimacy. I've also noticed that those obsessed with you feel the need to protect you or guide you. They definitely give off the "romantic savior" vibes in a gross way.

IN GENERAL, having any pluto-venus aspects can definitely show that you have people who are obsessed with you, people who stalk you, and people who admire you from the shadows. Connections will usually feel intense, but in lots of cases, you rather enjoy the intensity. People get obsessed with you because you embody something that is hidden, seductive and even taboo in their eyes. You can see through people's facades and you can make people feel naked and exposed and they tend to see this as intimacy and become fixated.

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[aachanel]

[succulentsiren]

Things women should never feel ashamed of:

• Orgasms

• Receiving money

• Receiving compliments

• Pretty privilege

• Being smart

• Dressing up

• Menstrual cycles

• Emotions and being sensitive

• Expressing our sexuality

• Resting and relaxation

• Asserting our sexual needs

• Maintaining our standards

• Saying No

• Wanting or having children

• Choosing to be childfree

• Our body count

• Our nude body

• Wearing makeup or not wearing makeup

• Having boundaries and protecting ourselves

• Our spiritual practices

• Using witchcraft

• Being ambitious

• Going to college

• Being a housewife or stay at home mom

• Loving who and what we love

[thevirgodoll]

remember to always make an effort to imagine the best case scenario, too. idc if you're a professional overthinker. you can overthink about the good shit too. when your perspective changes, everything changes with it!!!

[cyberclouddream]

Venus and your romantic fantasy, the love story you low-key want.

Edit: you can also apply to the sign of your 5th house.

MUTABLE VENUS

Venus in Pisces: You want that soft, emotional, almost psychic-feeling connection. The kind where you look at each other and just know. You fall for feelings, not logistics. The fantasy is deep talks, vulnerability, being understood without over-explaining. If someone is cold or overly logical about everything, it kills it. You want romance that feels emotional and meaningful, not transactional.

Venus in Sagittarius: You want a relationship that doesn’t feel like a cage. That’s it. The fantasy is laughing a lot, going places, learning stuff together, being honest without walking on eggshells. If someone gets clingy or overly intense too soon, you feel the urge to escape. You need space but you still want connection. It has to feel voluntary. If it feels like pressure, you’re halfway out the door.

Venus in Virgo: You don’t want dramatic romance. You want someone who notices things. Like refilling your water without asking. Fixing something you mentioned once. The fantasy is practical care. Acts of service hit way harder than speeches. Big emotional declarations can actually make you uncomfortable. Show up correctly. Be consistent. Handle your life. That’s attractive. Sloppiness is not cute to you.

Venus in Gemini: You want someone who talks. Like actually talks. Texts back fast. Sends memes. Has opinions. The fantasy isn’t candlelight and violin music. It’s staying up too late laughing and jumping between five topics. If it gets quiet or too serious too fast, you start drifting mentally. You need stimulation. You need movement. If you’re bored, it’s over and the other person won’t even realize when you checked out.

FIXED VENUS

Venus in Aquarius: You want a relationship that feels intentional, not traditional just because it’s “supposed” to be. You need mental connection first. If you can’t talk about weird ideas or random topics, it’s dead. You also need space. If someone tries to merge lives too fast, you get uncomfortable. The fantasy is being with someone who chooses you freely, not out of habit or pressure. You want closeness, but you still want to feel like your own person.

Venus in Scorpio: You want depth. Not small talk dating. Not surface vibes. You want to feel like there’s something serious happening underneath. Your fantasy is emotional loyalty, exclusivity, real trust. If someone keeps things casual or detached, you start pulling away because what’s the point. You don’t want half. You want full emotional investment. And if you sense betrayal, it’s done. There’s no light version of love for you.

Venus in Leo: You want to feel chosen in a very obvious way. Not subtle. Not implied. Obvious. Compliments. Attention. Effort. You don’t want to guess if someone likes you. You want to feel proud standing next to them and you want them to feel proud standing next to you. If you feel ignored or taken for granted, your interest drops fast. The fantasy is being adored and appreciated out loud.

Venus in Taurus: You want consistency. That’s it. You want someone who shows up, keeps showing up, and doesn’t switch personalities every week. Your fantasy is regular affection, physical closeness, shared routines. You like knowing where you stand. If someone plays games or sends mixed signals, you’re not intrigued, you’re annoyed. You attach slowly, but once you’re in, you’re in. And you expect the same back. Stability is hot to you. Chaos is not.

CARDINAL VENUS

Venus in Capricorn: You want something that’s going somewhere. Even if you don’t say that out loud. Your fantasy is someone serious about you. Reliable. Put together. You’re not impressed by charm alone. You’re watching how they handle responsibility, work, life. If it feels unstable or immature, attraction drops. You want commitment that makes sense, not just feelings in the moment.

Venus in Libra: You want romance that feels mutual from the start. Balanced. Effort on both sides. Your fantasy is good conversation, thoughtful dates, and that feeling of “we’re into each other and we both know it.” You don’t like chasing and you don’t like being chased aggressively either. It needs to feel equal. If things get messy or one-sided, it ruins the vibe for you.

Venus in Cancer: You want emotional reassurance early. Not five months in. Early. Your fantasy is someone who makes you feel safe pretty quickly. Checking in. Caring about your day. Remembering small details. You’re not impressed by flashy charm if it doesn’t come with warmth. If someone feels emotionally distant, you start protecting yourself. You want closeness, comfort, and to feel like there’s a soft place to land.

Venus in Aries: You like the beginning part. The spark. The tension. The “are we doing this?” energy. Your fantasy is mutual desire that’s obvious and fast. If someone takes too long to decide how they feel, you lose interest. You don’t want to decode mixed signals. You want chemistry you can feel immediately. You like when someone is direct. You also like being the one who goes after what you want. If it feels stagnant, you get restless.

[my-teen-quote]

[kissthebunni]

[girlwhoisgoingtobeokay]

the people were right strength training 3x a week, eating protein and fibre in all of your meals & drinking water and stretching every day with limited phone use does actually help you

[cruelkitten]

[imperatorfurioso]

[magmaticq]

Sex is either sublime or just humiliating If you don't find the connection, it comes to automatism and self deprivation. Wasting seminal energy, you know. "Sex is fun, just don't think about it and go straight to the act." How can someone do it with no real reason? Isn't it mere noise and blindness? How can you feel and touch and get into the soul of the person in front of you when you decide to mute it all for… Fun? How can you become vulnerable while not having a bond with whom should be able to handle your heart? The life shining in your eyes and sinking in your being? The ultimate apotheosis of a body and its consecration to a shared ritual. I think it is absurd to give it all up.

[heatherwitch]

Spells for Job Seekers

Job seeking:

Job spell / Job spell!

Opportunity spell

Visualization job spell

Spell for drawing in job opportunities and success

I have the job I want sigil

Career counselor tarot spread

For the interview:

Lucky interview bottle

Successful interview spell

Mini interview/luck spell jar

Luck for my job interview sigil

Tarot spread for interview prep and soothing nerves

Interview/performance review/presentation spell

To get the offer:

Spell jar to hasten a call back after the interview

Job offer spell

Be hired sigil

New job success:

New job protection pouch

New job prosperity bowl

Success and prosperity cinnamon poppet

The career tarot spread

Odds and ends:

Business success potion

My business ventures are a success sigil

Career, income and passion spell jar

What to include in a job spell jar

Success/prosperity spell sachet

Barista job spell jar

I am safe at work sigil

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