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[whereshadowsmakeshadows-deactiv]

[halfsad-deactivated20180421]

can you tag gay pda?

fuck no block me

[amaralesbian]

Hey Lesbians

There is nothing wrong with the way you are.

[imnothumannow]

So say I just murdered someone, but there’s nothing wrong with it if I’m a lesbian?

[hotcommunist-deactivated2019032]

Yea exactly I’m glad we cleared this up.

[stupidgeekz]

But because I’m straight, I’m going to jail. I see how it is.

[amaralesbian]

That’s right

[ripsnips]

If you identify as a lesbian, and you start dating a trans man, congratz you’re bi.

If you identify as a straight male, and begin dating a trans man, good job buddy you’re bi.

Do not invalidate transgender people by dating them if your identity does not match the gender of your partner.

Do not date a trans man if this seems like a problem for you.

[kendrysaneela]

Okay guys I know some of you are upset about Waverly being defined as gay and not bi but let’s get one thing straight here. This is not bi erasure. I say this as a bi person myself . Waverly’s sexuality was not defined in any way in fact Emily literally said it wasn’t defined in an interview. Now it’s defined. So this is not bi erasure because Waverly was not defined as gay. I understand that some of you feel you may have lost bi rep and bi rep is just as important as gay rep but let’s make sure not to erase that Waverly has been defined as gay now okay? We shouldnt commit lesbian erasure now either okay?

And if you feel like you’ve lost bi rep and want to watch some shows with bi rep here is a list of shows with canon bi main characters.

Stitchers-Camille Engelson Legends of Tomorrow-Sara Lance Lucifer-Mazikeen Smith and Lucifer Morningstar. (Sometimes they’re defined as Pan sometimes as Bi honestly they’re always switching it back and forth)

Feel free to add any that you know of that I haven’t mentioned.

[deathismysuperpower-deactivated]

Callie on Grey’s Anatomy too (seasons 2-12 I believe)!

[lesbacon96-blog]

Kalinda from The Good Wife!!

Magnus Bane in Shadowhunters

Miles Hollingsworth in Degrassi (Imogen Moreno doesn’t explicitly state whether she’s bi or pan, but shes had relationships with both men and women. “I just like people!”)

Angela Montenegro in Bones

Annalise Keating in How To Get Away With Murder

Thirteen/Remy Hadley in House M.D

Robert Sugden in Emmerdale

Grace Black in Hollyoaks

[lesbacon96-blog]

gonna revise the eyes a lil bit

[confettihipster]

@bisexualbacon96

i can’t lie, i didn’t come up with that yesterday, i came up with it months ago and it kills me every time i see someone called kim or jim tbh. like when the e4 announcer last week came for jim kirk i was torn between “shut up about my space uncle” and “jimothy…”

there was a tumblr post years ago like “what if mike was short for micycle” and it legit destroyed me.

[lesbacon96-blog]

what have you done

i can’t stop thinking about this now

[allthecanadianpolitics]

The Canadian Armed Forces, responds to Donald Trump’s ban on Transgender Americans in the U.S. Military.

[lesbiananti]

retraumatization through media is not a healthy coping mechanism and exposing yourself to something that idealizes, sexualizes, and/or romanticizes your trauma is not exposure therapy.

[tatorsonline-deactivated2020040]

i’m screaming like what is wrong with yall in thinking flooding yourself with triggering content & re-traumatizing yourself is in any way the same as et

[lesbiantwinpeaks]

the black sails fandom is an incredibly uncomfortable place to venture into as a lesbian and i want to talk about why that is. there are two lesbians on black sails, max and anne. one is pretty universally accepted, and the other it seems some of you would rather die than call her a lesbian. and both of these reactions are troubling.

max, most of the fandom seems to have no problem admitting she’s gay. and i think it’s a combination of them just not giving a shit/talking about her in general, and the fact that she’s never shown any interest in men, so there’s no “evidence” against her sexuality.

anne, on the other hand, has a more complicated relationship with men. she enters the show believing herself to only be interested in men, and you see her start coming to these realizations about loving women as you go into season two. but as much as season 2 is about her realizing she loves women, it’s about her realizing her attraction to men was never genuine. she thinks she owes sex and a relationship to jack because he saved her from an abuser. that’s how she sees sex with him. that is clearly stated in the show in her own words. and even if that is not clear enough, the writers have spoken at length about her unlearning her “attraction” to men and explicitly referred to her as gay.

i know not everyone knows that last part and not everyone recognizes how lesbians experience compulsory heterosexuality, which is very accurately portrayed in the show. this isn’t a callout for anyone who’s thought anne likes men. but the fact is, i do see people say they know the writers have explained she’s gay, and they don’t believe them, that they just don’t understand that their own character is actually bi/pan. that is lesbophobia. using a woman’s past relationships with men as evidence against her being a lesbian is lesbophobia. and it’s just silly to say the writers only think anne is a lesbian - she’s their character! and eleanor guthrie is right there in the same show, being bisexual! it would be like insisting that clarke griffin from the 100 is a lesbian, even though i know the writers have confirmed her to be bi. that’s biphobic! just like insisting a confirmed lesbian is bi is lesbophobic!

only recognizing a woman as a lesbian if she’s never shown interest in men, and refusing to recognize another as a lesbian based on her past relationships with men are both lesbophobic actions that harm any lesbian who’s struggled with unlearning a disingenuous relationship with men. i love black sails more than i’ve ever loved a tv show, and it really just hurts to be a lesbian in these spaces that refuse to acknowledge us.

[memehumor]

The human race has to stop……

[lesbacon96-blog]

alright i changed my other account as well

actually i started that one off from scratch cause why not

i’ll be posting there mostly from now on

if you guys want to follow @queenmerles I would really appreciate it  💗

[lesbacon96-blog]

Alright i have like 3 submissions for aaron’s anti week all which are in my scrap book waiting to be scanned and cleaned up Its definitely gunna be a lil late… ok a lot

[laterskaterrr]

reblog if you're a girl who likes girls from Toronto🏳️‍🌈

[lesbitchka]

a part of comp het that really messes with you and that i havent seen talked about at all aside from the occasional anon is where you convince yourself that while you’re perfectly fine with women, the only manner you can engage or imagine yourself engaging in sexual contact with men is if there’s a serious power imbalance

and by that i mean, imagining oneself in scenarios of submission, dehumanization, violence and dubious consent like BDSM, gangbangs, being a sex slave, with much older/gross/ugly men, being coerced into sex… and these fantasies don’t only come in the form of intrusive thoughts once you have dealt with your sexuality and realized that you’re a lesbian. they can rather seriously complicate the process of finding oneself and embracing lesbianhood. after all, if you keep fantasizing about it, it must be what you really want, right? (and in extension, if you want it, then you’re really attracted to men, right?)

not at all.

truth is, i’m not entirely sure what causes these or why they’re so common among lesbians - or how to deal with them and make them go away for the matter, and i wish i did, because they are disturbing and easily traumatizing if acted on

but while i cant offer a solution or advice, i can offer support and let you know that you’re not alone. these thoughts don’t dictate nor reflect your sexuality or preferences. they don’t make you a bad person and if you ever do act them out, be careful

[lesbitchka]

i think that it might be kind of a “last resort” thing actually. you realize that you’re not attracted to men and don’t want to be with them, but you still feel the overwhelming societal pressure to be with them and men still somehow feel inevitable, because there are pretty much no role models for w/w relationships and men keep being forced on you everywhere you look

well, what if you don’t have to actually be attracted to them or want to be with men in order to be with them? if they force you, it’s all the same, and you don’t have to worry about the decision yourself, right?

that, in combination with latching onto the misogynistic fantasies that men create for themselves and spread around that women then feel compelled to fulfill to be seen as attractive and gain male approval….

… it’s one nasty business and i, for one, cant wait for when we’ve advanced enough as a society to leave all this behind

[lesbacon96-blog]

alright changed my url um...

can anyone guess who i am? lmao

[charmers]