The Lesbian Pickup Artist

Lesbian Dating Instructor. Charm Artist. Love Advocate.

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This is the first video in a big series that I am doing to teach lgbt women about online dating safety. Please watch this one before all the others, this is the most important one, because it involves life and death. When you decide to go online to fool around, you need to be responsible for your own safety. Sex, dates, and all that fun stuff is for grown folks. Even if you are in high school, congratulations- if you are old enough to have sex, you're grown enough to take responsibility for your safety. So here are some tips to protect yourselves:

 1. Make sure the person has more than one photo. If they start talking sexual, it could be a man pretending to be a girl. Don't talk like a pig, if you want nudes and sexting you can do so irl! Be classy and be productive. Verify IMMEDIATELY if they start getting sexual. You never know if the person is the one in the pictures. Be sophisticated and make people earn it. Studying seduction is about having a choice of quality women to choose from, not sexing up whoever you can get 

 2. Look for full body pictures. People don't like to waste time, and besides that it's always best to be honest and confident about how you look and who you are. You should also make sure you have one on your profile as well. It doesn't have to be a sexy outfit, just something that shows what you look like. 

3. Verify that it's a real person with social media handles. I wouldn't follow unless I have already slept with them/built a relationship with them. But that is your call. Use sense when using social media. If the account looks fake, it probably is. 

 4. Reverse image searching can do wonders! You can use it if you doubt someone is real to see where other photos have been posted on the internet. You can identify if someone is using a celebrity's photos. 

5. Congruency- what she says should mach up with the profile. If she says she's 500 miles away but Tinder says she's 3 miles away, that's an issue. If she says she's a professional model but has no professional quality pictures on her IG, that's an issue. 

6. Snap/Text and Time stamp- have them verify themselves on social media. Let them hold up a pic with their face, their name, and the time. Make sure the message is handwritten and a clear image is shown. 

7. Skype- probably the best way. Video and audio at the same time. Helps to build one on one connection, verify they are real, and easy to screen out after if she's not your type. 

All Verifications Must Show Face! 

Meet in a safe public place

Take a picture with them and send it to friends

Get their pic and info and send it to someone before the date 

Text friends every few hours

Arrange a curfew time 

Bring weapons to protect yourself 

Not all women are for women, some are sneaky and will try to set you up with men or seriously harm you. The Smallville actress did it so what makes you think a stranger online won't? The more experienced you are with game the more you will be at detecting fakes and predators! 

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We all want to meet women to hook up with- women who are beautiful, hot, intelligent, and hardworking. The science of seduction is one of the ways that men and women can learn to do this with each other. I specialize in women approaching women, which is why I am called "The Lesbian Pickup Artist". I've trained people in all types of ways: how to earn money, how to take care of their health, social, and spiritual lives, how to come out, how to make friends. In this segment I teach you how to make a lover, with the power of touch.

Some things I address in the video:

Pecking- you may see people swing back and forth when they talk. Though people like to be safe when they do this it is actually creepy and shows that you are scared to get close to her. Women like to feel secure and one way to do it is to be a person of confidence. Move closer when talking to her, don't swagger back and forth. Remember, playing the safe card is an insecurity. If she's uncomfortable, her body language will let you know. I use bad verbal game to demonstrate, but the body language is on point. If she's not comfortable, she'll move back. When she does that, you back up too. Approach anxiety might effect you, so keep in check with your mindset.

Pickup is going to help women develop themselves in mind blowing ways, so get them familiar with the masters of Pickup and with some of my stuff to get them in a good direction.

Be aware of your tonality when you approach. Higher voices tend to be submissive and feminine, lower tends to be dominant and masculine. But for all dominant parties, including women, a low voice should be used in the process of seduction. Feminine energy is submissive, male is dominant. This is especially important in the process of threesomes, as a unicorn is interested in being seduced by both parties, not just the man. In terms of lesbian dynamics, femmes in particular like to feel like the submissive, feminine ones so the more dominant you go the more it turns them on. At the same time, it is important for all women to have a sense of their feminine energy.

How you shake hands is another way to touch a woman. Even with a handshake, a woman can tell a lot about a man (or woman). If you give bad handshakes, it's not the end all be all but the first initial touch should always make a good impression. The first touch subcousciously also gives a girl a taste of your bedroom behavior. If you shake her hand weakly, you'll be a dead fish. If you are too hard and aggressive, you could be dangerous and harmful. A strong, gentle, and confident handshake signfies a lot, especially that you are dominant, secure, and safe to be around.

Now let's take it to the bedroom situation. When you kiss up on a girl, be aware of special areas that can make her feel good. Like behind the neck and other places. Also when you pull her hair,. make sure it's not on the top layer of the head, it can hurt. Also it's most exposed to damaging factors like sun and wind so you can damage hair further. Go from the back near the nape, as it's most nourished, stronger, and less nerves there that hurt. Trail your fingers never go right for sexual spots.

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Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder. Beauty is in the knowing of the beheld. It’s time to reclaim the narrative and put ourselves at the center of it. It’s time to archive our own images. Celebrate our own beauty. Honor it with a gilded frame.

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Lesbians v. Men: Who Has It Easier When It Comes to Picking Up Girls?

In seduction we talk heavily about who has the advantage in the dating lifestyle. When it comes to men dating women, women are obviously at an advantage because they are the ones who are able to choose among suitors while men usually have to compete heavily for a female. But what happens when it's men v.s. women when it comes to picking up women? Well, the results, as I found, are quite controversial. 

I compared 12 different ways that both men and women have the advantage over each other when it comes to picking up women. Can you think of any other ways that they may have their advantage? Men are more privileged in techniques that require dominant energy: escalation, taking the lead, establishing attraction, freedom of lifestyle, handling amogs, and having an amazing selection of women to choose from Women dominate the fields in other ways such as pulling home, sexual adventuring, establishing empathy and comfort, freedom of vulnerability, opening sets, and dealing with blowouts. 

The point is that not everyone is completely advantaged/disadvantaged over each other. We all have struggles, we all have to work to overcome them. Hopefully this can open the door for conversation so we can help one another. Perhaps before bothering that happy lesbian couple, the man will think twice. Perhaps before belittling and blowing out that socially awkward man out of the group, the women will think twice. The fact is people are privileged more in some ways and less than others. 

Everyone has some sort of privilege. If you can read this or hear this being spoken to you, that means you have the vision/hearing in order to take this in, the mind to be able to reflect on it, and the education to understand it. Love your brothers and sisters, we are all in the journey of finding love and happiness, together. 

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Death in the LGBT Community

I’m not sure if you any of you followed @addictedtoloveofficial on Instagram or know about the lesbian couple, but Divine, Cali’s girlfriend, passed away recently. She was extremely young and influential and they both did their best to touch and nurture the LGBT community. 

I know I usually don’t talk about LGBT issues as much as I should, since I am someone who gives dating advice to girls who like girls. But today I got angry with God. This was a beautiful, loving, and selfless couple who gave their careers and platforms to help LGBT youth and people come to terms with loving themselves and their identity as beautiful people. I was always in admiration for Divine in fact a lot of her posts influenced me to pursue modeling, photography, and the need to emphasize a more artistic and beautiful framework when teaching women. She also influenced me to be more dominant and confident as a woman who loves women. 

RIP Divine. Feel free to check out the couple’s page on IG and Youtube. 

IG: @addictedtoloveofficial

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCC_xj1nwKZ8KRZ0YzTTnhiA

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Lesbian Pickup: How to Meet Other Lesbian and Bisexual Girls DISCLAIMER: Please note that this video (as well as my other videos) are made for those living in LGBT ideal conditions. This means countries, states, cities, and counties that are LGBT friendly where it is SAFE to be LGBT and where people are not being beaten, raped, or killed. If you are unsure if your area is safe or not, check up on the local news and the laws of that area before attempting to pick up women as a woman. Picking up girls is fun, but being alive and safe is even better. It can be really hard sometimes for women to meet other lesbian and bisexual girls. Some lesbians are from small towns and don’t know how to meet other girls around them. Some are in the closet and wish to stay under the radar by dating a stranger or someone who is discreet. Many lesbians have a type of girl they like and cannot find. Many others have also expressed wanting to date someone completely new (that their friends and social circle hasn’t already slept with). Well today, I’m going to show you how to do it. 1.) ONLINE DATING: The easiest way to meet hot lesbian and bisexual girls is to meet them ONLINE. There are all sorts of FREE online resources that you can use to meet women. There’s OKCupid, Tinder, HER, Femme, and other apps out there that attract women who are deeply into women. Since there are so many different types of apps to use, the abundance of women is unlimited. 2.) LESBIAN/BISEXUAL GROUPS AND FORUMS: Make sure you read all of the rules first. A site for online dating is for online dating. Some lesbian groups on social media do not allow personal posts or anything because they want their community to be safe from predators or would rather have a more relaxed space than people feeling pressured to meet each other. 3.) LESBIAN/BISEXUAL/FEMINIST EVENTS: Keep your eye on Queer events that are going on in your community and put the ones you are interested in on your calendar. You can easily do a google search for this: "*your town* LGBT”, “gay bars near me”, and by looking into various communities in places around you to see what’s going on. Another good way to get women is by attending feminist events. Not the crazy rallies and protests and marches, but at events where you can mix and meet people (like a crafting event) If you have a taste for certain girls (goth girls, gold star lesbians, etc) look up the clubs and companies pictures on social media and see the type of people who are attending the events. I’m personally into femmes so if I look up a club online and see pictures of gay men and butch lesbians going to particular bars, I am not going to that bar over one that has femmes. 4.) BEWARE OF INSTAGRAM! As I found out from quite a few of my female and male students, you can get in trouble for using it for dating. Hit on the wrong girl at the wrong time of day and she might report you, which will have IG disable your account. I know a lot of women who put their IG handles in their dating profiles. They are seeking followers, but many of us out there use it as a platform for modeling, photography, etc. If you want to, you can MESSAGE the girl, but only really message if you match with her. Otherwise, message on Tinder first and then take it to social media. Beware that if she’s very attractive, she’s probably being hit up A LOT by men and therefore your message may end up lost in the message requests area. 5.) WHAT IF YOU LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN? It’s not always to meet lesbians online, so you have to take yourself out of the small town to travel and meet women. Taking a bus, traveling outside the city for a date with another girl you met. If you want to transform your dating life, you will need to push to make this happen. After a while, it won’t seem like a big deal. OR you can do the opposite, and bring girls INTO your community. Going on a site like meetup.com and arranging LGBT events (like a bar crawl or a hike) can help draw lesbian and bisexual girls into your community. This also raises your value and attractiveness among women, because you are also showcasing your leadership ability. You are the one planning the events and taking control. Women love women who are social, leaders, and know how to take the lead. It is SCIENTIFICALLY proven that women are attracted to leaders. 6.) DON’T JUST SIT IN AN LGBT BUBBLE. People died in our country to make sure you have the rights to approach the women of your dreams, anytime, anywhere. This also includes straight clubs, rather than just gay clubs. Also, different types of crowds draw on different types of women. If you’re interested in dating a goth girl, don’t go to a lesbian club hoping to find a goth girl there. You need to go to a goth club and hit on the girls you like there. Does that make sense? As someone who is both biracial and bisexual I tend to have more pride in being mulatto than I do in being bisexual. So you will likely find a girl like me at a cultural event rather than a gay event. LGBT groups and spaces tend to be limited because for some there are bad stigmas identifying as LGBT. If you’re into straight and bicurious girls to mess with you are more likely going to find them in any bar out there, you just need to APPROACH. 7.) WHAT IF YOU’RE A GOLD STAR LESBIAN AND ONLY WANT TO SLEEP WITH GIRLS WHO ARE STRICTLY LESBIAN? I understand there’s lesbians out there who only want to sleep with lesbians and not bisexual girls. Hey, I get it. You are tired of women being confused about their feelings, running away to pick men over you, bicurious girls, girls who are bad in bed, or to be frank you don’t want any nasty dick juice remnants in your mouth. And that’s completely understandable, after all I know many straight women who wouldn’t sleep with a dude who slept with a dude. Nobody on the straight girl side wanna drink man booty dick juice. Your feelings and preferences should never be compromised. In this case, I would advise the opposite: focus on LGBT spaces, clubs, and events rather than venturing more outside. (Many lesbians have also talked about sports with meeting women you may want to consider that too) 8.) REMEMBER, just because a girl looks straight or gay or whatever, doesn’t mean she ACTUALLY is. You won’t know, until you go and APPROACH her :) That’s all for now you guys! Make sure you like and subscribe for more Lesbian Pickup! Thank you to DW Kim for helping to make this video happen. 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Lesbian Pickup: How to Approach Women (And Why You Should)

Have you ever wanted to approach a girl, but you were way too scared to because you thought they were straight, taken, or not interested? Maybe you don't know what to say or how to start a conversation with her. Maybe you're even afraid of being rejected.

The truth is, you aren't alone in your thoughts about this. Everyone is scared of rejection, everyone has been through it, and it is a completely NORMAL experience to go through. So, don't worry! The worst thing that can happen is that she says no. 

Remember the Stonewall Riots, Loving v. Virginia, and other civil rights campaigns that have been going on since our short time being a nation here. People have fought and put their lives on the line so we can practice the freedom of loving whoever we want, regardless of race, sex, gender, religion, etc. Today people literally put their lives on the line so we can still enjoy those freedoms. Remember them and honor those people by practicing them.

Negative judgments from others DO NOT matter! Stop worrying about what useless people think- if they aren't paying your bills their opinion doesn't matter. Make sure that if you do see faulty in the way you approach, however, that you are able to critically analyze and judge yourself- in a way that is positive and productive, not in a way that self harms. 

How to Approach Girls:

1.) Be Safe- many countries, states, and areas approve of the LGBT, but many also do not which can lead to harmful consequences (including death!) if you are not careful. Always be sure to check the  local LGBT scene and the laws of the country you are living in/ visiting. You should not have to die over approaching someone you want to love.

2.) 3 Second Rule- when you see her, go right for it! Stop worrying about impressing her and trying to get her into you. It's only gonna go bad. Speak from the heart. Make a rule not to pussy out of the approach. Even if it's a rejection, you'll feel much better that you went for it!

3.) You can say anything to open a conversation, you DO NOT have to have a set opener. One of the ones I like to use is from John Anthony Lifestyle: "Hi can I meet you real quick?" But at the end of the day, it doesn't matter. What matters is that you said something.

You are an inspired and motivated woman, don't be afraid to dream and approach the girl of your wildest dreams. The more you practice, the better it feels. Don't let life pass you by. You will face things like racism, sexism, homophobia, etc. and I will teach you how to get past that in the future videos. But the women at the end of all the trouble and stress are absolutely worth it.

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Found this on Dee Inks

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Apparently these have been flagged as not safe for work so far...

- Black lesbians kissing with their clothes on

- Two lesbians kissing in the rain shower- shoulders and faces only shown

- Implied nude where boobs are covered fully with hands

- Instagram friendly lingerie pics (brief undies, large comfort bra- think 1950s bathing suits)

- A picture of clouds

- A profile picture of a leather jacket

- A picture of moons in the sky with some cherry blossoms

This NSFW witch hunt is going quite smoothly, wouldn’t you say?

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If your dating/romantic relationship doesn’t work out with someone of the same gender, it doesn’t have to mean you were wrong about your orientation.

A lot of people feel immense pressure the first time they date someone of their own gender. It can feel like this relationship is your only proof that you weren’t lying or wrong about your attraction to this gender, or your proof that people of your orientation can have healthy and happy relationships. It can be scary to think of losing that.

But if something doesn’t work out with one person, it doesn’t mean it never will. You deserve the space to evaluate your relationship on its own merits to see if it really is a healthy and happy one. It’s not your job to enter into or stay in a relationship that doesn’t work just to prove something about your orientation.

Straight people are often in many relationships before they find a permanent one – if they do at all. They get the space to say, “This relationship didn’t work because we as individuals weren’t right for each other,” or “The timing wasn’t right.” They aren’t required to question their orientation because a relationship didn’t work out. You deserve the same space, and anyone who increases that pressure on you is in the wrong. 

You are a person, not an abstract concept of gayness or biness or whatever else, and your partner is a person too. Your relationship and your choices about whether to enter into it or stay in it should be about what is good and healthy for you and your partner as real people, not as abstract concepts with no emotional needs or complex lives outside the relationship.

You’ll have other chances. It’ll be okay.

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This needs to be said time and time again. If you’re a lesbo and you have a hard time attracting other lesbos, you DO NOT need to ‘settle’ with a man. If you are a man and have a hard time attracting other women, you DO NOT have to ‘settle’ for another dude or go into a cuck lifestyle. There are resources and people who can help you learn to attract the women you are looking for, and plenty of women are looking to date beautiful people like you. 

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