LGBT+ and Proud

Hiya! We are a group page trying to answer asks, and give advice in order to help others diversify their games! Feel free to also ask questions/advice pertaining to real life too Please check out the section of About the Mods

[simblrpride]

hi everyone! @simpossibly here. I’m starting fresh with an empty blog that I will hopefully be able to build up into a useful resource for those of you with lgbtq+ sims!

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I'm asexual and aromantic and a few weeks ago I realised that whenever I think of myself being in a relationship it's with other girls. Do you have any my tips? -acecactus_anon

im not ace nor aro, so if any of the mods could add to this or correct me that’d be great lol. imo, your sexuality and preferences are really fluid so if you feel like dating girls, go date girls!! and if you realise that after dating girls you’re not rlly feeling like it, then thats fine too!! it’s rlly no biggie if u play around with ur preferences a bit to see what u like and what u don’t! i hope i helped u a bit!! - xo mar

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you could be a lesbian/homoromantic ace!! the split attraction model doesn’t work for everyone, but it sounds like you’ve got a clear, distinct idea of what your orientations are. I know not everyone is comfy using homoromantic so a lot of ppl call themselves ace lesbians, but I don’t know your gender, so I don’t wanna assume you’re a lesbian/gay. hope this helps!

- em <3

[lockejhaven]

Do you know any male/nonbinary simblr friends (smaller simblrs)? I really want to follow more diverse people but it's hard when all I can find are female simblrs.

HECK yes I love shouting people out! x

@kaydandthesims

@rainb0wguy / @rainb0wsimmer  

@pinealexple

@prismaish

@plumvv

@lgbtsimblr

(listed below are mods from the lgbt simblr page)

@faliens

@loudphase

@springtimesims

@mortimergth

@plumvy

@pixelated-plumbobbies

@soulevans997

@nice-being

@dopesims

@apricotio

To anyone I’ve tagged, if I have misgendered you, or you simply wish to be removed from this list, please let me know! 

[marys4ue]

Pride Flag Shirt Overlays

+ Random base game CAS rainbow recolours

👉Download 👈 (All merged) (Simfileshare)

Download folder (Contains unmerged versions and such)

Pride flag shirt overlays in Gloves, Leggings, and Socks. These add pride flag logos on top of most basic tops, allowing you to turn a variety of basic tops into a pride item for your Sims!

Also features “mix and match” overlays, also in Gloves, Leggings, and Socks, These are additional logos which can layer over the initial overlays. Pick a different category than the one you chose for the original overlay, and mix-and-match freely. These allow you to create pride logos featuring two identities, allowing for a massive variety in how your Sims can express themselves (Some mix and match overlays can stand-alone as well, since pride icons which were not flags were added here).

Also, there are a few base-game items recoloured in rainbow swatches. Chucked in as a bonus, see the download folder if you don’t want ‘em, or only want ‘em. A couple of pieces of jewelry and such. Adds one rainbow swatch to a few base game items, no custom thumbs. I don’t remember every item I did honestly. But the cap, ring, collar and earrings in the first preview pic are all in there.

More details? Way more details? Wanna drown in details? Check under the cut!

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[astral-glass]

💮 Happy Pride month with pride birds! 💮

[tiger-in-the-flightdeck]

They’re all so cute, I love them

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I'm asexual and aromantic and a few weeks ago I realised that whenever I think of myself being in a relationship it's with other girls. Do you have any my tips? -acecactus_anon

im not ace nor aro, so if any of the mods could add to this or correct me that’d be great lol. imo, your sexuality and preferences are really fluid so if you feel like dating girls, go date girls!! and if you realise that after dating girls you’re not rlly feeling like it, then thats fine too!! it’s rlly no biggie if u play around with ur preferences a bit to see what u like and what u don’t! i hope i helped u a bit!! - xo mar

[birdhism]

Happy Pride Month! 

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Happy pride month to all our lovely followers!! ❤️

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sooo i have a very problematic crush on my best friend, which is great 'cus she's bi and has had crushes on girls before. the thing is, 1. i've only ever dated boys so she probably thinks i'm straight and 2. the girls she's liked before are literally... nothing like me? at all? so yeah, send help pls

hey!! i think this got sent in a while ago, i’m sorry if the situation has changed and we weren’t able to help (i’m going to be more on top of answering asks from now on, i was going through a rough spot for a couple weeks)my advice is to always go for it, although i know that can be hard. it might be a good idea to let her know you’re not straight, because seeing as she’s dated girls i’m guessing she’s not either!as for not being her type, you guys are friends so i’d say you probable ~fit her criteria~ :p❤️~Red

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do you by any chance know of a custom pronoun mod? or any sort of pronoun mod? im really tired of having my sims misgendered based on their bodies. i know you can remove gender settings for clothes/makeup, but feminine clothes still tend to look strange on masculine frames, and that doesnt address nb sims at all. id really appreciate some help with this!

hi!! i’m on mobile so sorry for the ugly links.i found one mod for ts3http://pixelswirl.tumblr.com/post/142465645289/pressuresimming-socialjusticesimblr-tired-ofi haven’t been able to find any mods for ts4, but i did find an explanation of how to mod the game to use gender neutral pronounshttp://forums.thesims.com/en_us/discussion/839837/gender-neutral-pronouns-modi didn’t check the first link, so i’m sorry if it’s an outdated mod :(i wish i could help more ❤️~Red

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Do you typically interpret a sim having the unflirty trait with them being aro/ace? And what's your reasoning behind why or why not? I'm really curious where others stand on this

hello!!! well, for me (mod ayman) it depends how im writing the character!! usually i only have sims for my stories, and if they are aro/ace i dont decide that around the unflirty trait!! i kind of just imagine they’re awkward if they have a crush, don’t like pda etc etc. thats just my opinion!! wby??

- ayman

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As someone with ptsd regarding sexual assault, I can see where someone might not want to be sexually involved with someone based on their genitalia, especially if they are a lesbian. Because it can be really scary for them and may give them a feeling of reliving their trauma. And when it comes down to it in other situations, everyone has the right to decide who they give consent to and should never feel pressured into giving consent based on social standards.

hello! thank you for your input! i appreciate it~Red💕

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Hey is it considered transphobic if a lesbian isn't willing to sleep with someone who has a penis? I'm sorry if this ask is weird.

hey so,, this is definitely a weird ask, mainly because i’ve seen it with the exact same wording on multiple other blogs.i can’t say for sleeping with someone (but it probably is the same as being in a romantic relationship for this situation) but if your sole reason for not being ROMANTICALLY involved with a person is their genitalia, that is generally considered transphobic. it creates a sense of “otherness” around trans men and women. again i can’t say for sleeping with someone, so if any trans followers would like to chime in, please go for it.**keep in mind all the mods are actually minors, so please DO NOT be excessively descriptive, and try to keep it general**~Red❤️

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hey!! long time no talk haha, my crush broke up with her gf a little while ago and I think I cried. I'm just a wimp and haven't asked her out yet. how should I? -girl crusher

hey boo! if you’re going to ask her out, make sure it’s not too soon after she’s broken up with her gf. if “a little while ago” is too soon it could end up messy :( as for asking her out, i asked my ex out by just dropping it into a conversation. (although the conversation was about me bribing her to go out with me sisjsjs more on that later)i really do this that one of the best ways to go about it is to not make it a big deal. i can’t remember if you two are friends sorry ah but if you are try and do it in a way so it won’t be too awkward if you get rejected. i can probably help out more if you want it!!~Red ❤️

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Important

hi guys! we, the mods, as a group have decided to no longer be partners with @bonustraits.

they have been let know, and they know why.

at this moment we aren't going to go in depth as to our reasons, but whatever they say is up to them. please don't try and put our blogs against each other.

if you send in an ask about why we are splitting it is not guaranteed to be answered. if you do send in an ask, non-anonymous messages about this are more likely to be answered. thank you all!

this was written by mod red, and reviewed by all the mods. any addendums by other mods will be marked under this with whoever wrote it.

[simreaper]

a year later………i bring you………. TOP SURGERY SCARS, NEW AND IMPROVED!!!! the first set of scars were alright, but this time around i wanted a cleaner, maxis-matchier version with more skintone options. so here it is! details and download links below the cut.

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Happy Trans Day of Visibility!

Hey! Happy trans day of visibility to all our trans/nb followers!

If anyone is looking for binders, gc2b is having a 15% off sale until midnight tonight with the code TDOV2018

~Red ❤️💕❤️