Life by Nea

Follow my life as a student, with mental health problems, in Sweden. My blogg is: https://lifebynea.com/

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Alive, but dead inside?

Hey everyone. Its been so long since I wrote on here, but I am alive. Or at least as alive I can be fighting my bad mental health. I have been struggling a lot lately, and life has felt hard. All I can do is try and hang in there and hope I soon will get the help from the health system as I have been promised again and again the last two years. I have a time next week and hopefully that will get…

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Hi Everyone!

I been kind of MIA for months and it sucks. I have been wanting to come on here to write for a long time, but the truth is that I have not really know what to write. My mental health has declined and I been fighting like crazy just to get up out of bed most days. I will not go into too much detail at this post, but I been struggling and even though I have wanted to share this with you I have not…

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Okay so now that Amber and Depps trial is happening and ever since it came out that Amber "has bpd and hpd therefore it justifies abuse" fuck no.

Besides the Amber's psychologist diagnosed her way too quickly and word for word said "borderline is a common factor in women who psychically abuse their partners". That's all sorts of wrong in that sentence.

Abusers are abusers because they're shit people, it doesn't justify or depend on a diagnosis. Anyone who says that people with borderline are all abusers need a reality check.

People with borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder, or any other personality disorder or mental illness can love, support others, have beautiful friendships and relationships, amazing careers and lives.

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Abusive is not a symptom of BPD

Not all borderlines are abusive and not all abusers are borderline.

Not everyone with BPD is a narcissist

Bpd is NOT multiple personalities

Just because Amber Heard is a bad person and has BPD does not mean Bpd=bad people

Not all borderlines are liars

In my experience a lot of borderlines I know are the most brutally honest people I've ever met.

Pete Davidson has BPD and isn't an abusive asshole.

Stop creating this stigma around a group of people who did absolutely nothing to deserve the shit you've been saying about them just because of Amber Heard.

A lot of those with bpd endured actual traumatic abuse in all forms FOR YEARS. It is involuntarily and for a lot of them- they wouldn't have it if they weren't abused and grew up in loving homes or weren't bullied relentlessly. Imo I believe she was misdiagnosed but I'm not a professional.

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Tuesday Truths

As some of you might have noticed I did not post a Motivational Monday post yesterday. I just did not have the time or energy. I have been working hard on my mental health and trying to keep my head over water. But it is though and I am struggling. I want this blog to be uplifting and help people. However, I still feel like being honest is the best thing I can do. I hope you all can be…

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Motivational Monday ~ 7th of March

Motivational Monday ~ 7th of March

The world is still a mess, but I figured that we all might need some motivation. I have a full week ahead of me with schoolwork and housework. Last week I kind of just logged out from everything, including doing the laundry. My heart goes out to all people living in war areas, I know that there are more places than Ukraine that are affected and I can’t get my head around the fact that we are…

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Monday

It’s Monday again and with everything going on in the world, I just don’t feel like writing a motivational Monday post. I am trying to keep up with the news and my thoughts are with all the people fleeing and fighting. I know a lot of people in Russia do not want this war and that it’s not their fault. I hope you all try to be kind to one another. I don’t really know what else to write. I just…

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To all of you currently in Ukraine and affected by the situation, I'm praying for the safety of you and all of your loved ones. To everyone else, when it comes to keeping yourself updated on the situation, don't accept everything you read on the internet (especially social media) and keep an eye on your national news channels. And I really hate having to say this at all, but out of respect to everyone affected please do not make jokes / memes about what is happening right now, especially if you are safe and comfortable far away from the actual reality of it. I'm still educating myself on everything and I hope you'll do the same.

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Motivational Monday ~ 14th of February

Motivational Monday ~ 14th of February

Monday again and it’s Valentine’s Day. We don’t really celebrate Valentine’s Day in my family. My husband and I usually stay in and just enjoy each other’s company. This year will not be any different since I have been sick for almost a week. Got a bad cold and just have no energy at all. However, I still wanted to do a Motivational Monday quote. I love the tv-series The Good Place and it’s that…

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Motivational Monday ~ 7th February

Motivational Monday ~ 7th February

Monday again and the sun is shining. I have already had a productive day and it makes me happy. I decided to start this week in the best possible way by just starting doing things that needed to be done. I wrote a list yesterday of what I needed to do this week and I have already tackled 5 things, which makes me really happy. I remembered this morning a quote I read the other day, which motivated…

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Motivational Monday ~ 31 January

Motivational Monday ~ 31 January

It’s the last of January 2022 and I can’t believe we are already a month into 2022. It feels like 2021 was yesterday, but a lot of things have happened so far this year. I will not tell you all, but I am feeling happy and looking forward to a lot of new challenges. I had some problems deciding this week’s motivational quote, which is the reason I am posting so late. But I finally found a good…

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