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[straddlingizzystradlin]

[tiredyke]

me: yeah im not really into sports

me when any women’s sports come on:

[rxdxct3d-deactivated20260301]

Every day is international lesbian day TO ME

[getting-messi]

Back in 2018, an Argentine journalist gave Messi his mom’s lucky red ribbon when the team was struggling.

Fast forward to 2022, Messi still has the ribbon as Argentina become World Champions🥹💙

[saudisociety]

my love language is remembering small details about u

[her-stars]

i’m such a whore for that lovey dovey shit

[dailyniallnews]

niallhoran: J'adore la mer 🇫🇷

[her-stars]

i just love it when the person I call beautiful calls me beautiful back it's like ecstasy <3

[dailyswiftgifs]

x

[skeletonea]

I'd look so good next to Izzy

[iluvrocknroll]

Slash practicing guitar in his mothers basement, 1983

[straddlingizzystradlin]

whore (affectionate)

[talkiermango502x]

Tw: homophobia

My family always told me and my sisters that there was no such thing as same-sex attraction. Rather, it was a choice that people made because they were lonely, ugly, or insecure and unable to attract/hold on to someone of the opposite sex. I just grew up believing that gay couples were in these relationships because they just…couldn’t find someone “correct” to love them.

Now I want you to imagine how I internalized that once I started experiencing attraction to other girls and developing feelings for them. Or when I realized I couldn’t connect with men on a romantic level, but had no issues connecting with women. I completely believed I was too ugly to attract men, so I was experiencing this false attraction to women. Or that I was just too lonely and not getting enough attention from men. This is all laughable since attention from men is a dime a dozen.

Once I grew up and got away from my family, I was exposed to other opinions and realized this was an entirely false narrative. However, that didn’t remove the internalized homophobia I directed inward at myself. So, anyway, I’ve had a lot to unpack during therapy and I’m still working on being able to accept this as a label for myself. Some days it feels so impossible and I feel so broken.

[medkitting]

No because I still haven't come to terms with the fact that I'm lesbian, even after being out to myself and my friends for almost a year now

It's just never gonna click, man. Why can't I like a guy. I could have so many options and so many possibilities but I just had to be gay. I could've dated that kid who liked me way back in elementary school, that dude I walk to geo class with, or some even random guy. I could get the most ridiculous crushes on the stupidest fictional dudes. Having any of that would make me so happy, but no. I just had to be lesbian huh?

It never bothered me, not loving men. I was out as aroace (I am aro and aspec, but I keep those parts of my identity more private for personal reasons) but it never bothered me, because I didn't have to like anyone. But now I'm stuck here, and I don't know where I went wrong.

But, here I am. While all my friends grow up and start dating, I'm just left here wondering why I'm like this and why I can't be normal. Why I can't be out there getting with guys and having the time of my life when instead I'm just stuck. Uuuuuuuuugh

[lifesnoteasy]

that second paragraph hit way too close home #lesbian acceptance #please god make me straight

[dailyniallnews]

Rolling Stone UK

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Rolling Stone UK

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Rolling Stone UK