I Wanna Be Defined By The Things That I Love

♡ Hailey (She/Her) | 28 | Swiftie | Pisces ♡ AZ 3/17/23 & Philly 5/13/23 Daylight ♡ The Prophecy ♡ Dear Reader Rep era is my everything ☆ ♡ Taylor liked x1 ♡ ☆

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💗 I want to be defined by the things that I love 💗

so here is a master list for tags on my blog! Purple are my favorites, pink are external links, blue for everything else!

My asks tag & My anons tag 🗣️ (shoutout to Seakgeek & 🌌)

Beloved mutuals tag 🫶🏼

Yearning hours tag 🫡

Fav songs: daylight | opalite | the prophecy | dear reader

Posts that have 10k to me

Taylor songs in the wild 🎶

For @taylorswift: taylurking tag 👀

Hobbies: Hailey reads, Hailey bakes & Chef Hailey 😋

Link to my Etsy Shop!

Artist Hailey — all things art & Etsy shop related! 🎨

In my YouTuber era — my YouTube channel is all about my Etsy shop journey but I like to chat on here about behind the scenes (like when I stay up till 1am editing a video) Link to my channel!

retail Hailey — the adventures and dramas of the retail store :D

Hailey Tag — everything else lol 💖

BONUS: did you know I have secret side blogs (yeah thats right I don't annoy yall as much as I could)

Multifandom side blog @candidsunset

Aesthetics/quotes side blog @starryeyedlife

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Okay I gotta go to bed, this was hilarious I’m glad you guys found it entertaining 😂

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Congratulations on bullet dodged (and you weren't even looking)

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I have a zero tolerance policy towards negging (like in my personality) and have had eventually stopped being attracted to people who are just mean to me & the things I like. You don't have to like the things I like (and I like some uncool things in my time) but being openly desparaging is not cool. If I even get the vibes you think you're too cool for me I will not leap.

Okay I actually googled this to make sure I understood the term fully (learned something new tonight thank you!) and yeah this behavior fucking sucks. Sorry I’m too confident for your lame ass to take me and my interests down a peg 💀

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Which song do I use on IG tomorrow before I block his ass

Manchild

Expectations

Remaining time: 22 hours 50 minutes

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could you say his messages reminded you of a song, and then send him a link to sabrina’s song manchild? (joking joking)

I was facetiming a friend when the second round of messages came in and I was literally like hold on hold on I need to do something and pulled up manchild 😭😭😭😭😭😭

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You dare slide into MY DM’s and insult the peoples princess on this, the weekend of her WEDDING!?!?!?!? Jail.

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If yall want to see the screenshots of the tweets he sent me originally and then IMMEDIATELY deleted (but I already saw it lol) here they are

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Listen I'm all for some playful negging but like being straight up insulting and demeaning like that is INSANE work.... like ew gtfo 😬

The whole convo was just like dude wtf am I READING and every time I opened IG there was ANOTHER MESSAGE

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I won't settle for a guy with a fake job They seem so desperate for lovin' But, baby, I'm not Gave my heart with zero stipulations Now I take careful consideration I'm not kissin' any boy that is passive Their indecision is painfully unattractive Past mistakes are just new information These days,

IVE!!! GOT!!!! EXPECTATIONS!!!!!!!

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i normally don’t like to call people losers but that man IS a loser omg. i’m sorry you had to deal with this

I mean yeaaaaaah but I kinda knew this a little bit bc like he tried to flirt with me in October by randomly DMing me at midnight one night to say “you’ve always been so nice, and hot I’ll be honest” and we haven’t talked since so it’s just so random for him to slide in my DMs on the Fourth of July to do *gestures broadly* whatever this is 😭

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is he writing a "paper" or adding to his list of justifications for being a sexist weirdo

Like truly that is the most baffling part of it. The rest I’m like oh! that was dumb as shit but that part I was like genuinely what the fuck does that even MEAN

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Guys and their dating-flirting stategies. So bad. So dire out here. Sometimes I ask myself, what are you even trying to do? What is the point of this excercise and behavior? How do you think this will better the way I think of you at all? DIRE strats out here.

ITS SO BAD OUT HERE HELP GET ME OUT

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No bc I was fully committed to leaving him on read but one of his messages was like “actually this would tie in really well to a paper I’m writing can you explain WHY that made you immediately angry I get that it’s my fault but I just want to understand” and like bro WHAT PAPER?????

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I don’t even date how did this happen to me lmfao

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Do you guys remember that coffee barista from last year who I thought had a crush on me but I wasn’t interested? He DM’d me tonight some anti Taylor swift tweets he liked, immediately deleted the photos and said sorry that was dumb an you didn’t ask for it but I already saw them so I told him he shouldn’t try and flirt with girls by insulting their favorite musicians and to fuck off! What a saga

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ANOTHER UPDATE TO THE SAGA he continued to dm me after I left him on read bc he was genuinely baffled that I got mad at him and wanted me to explain why I immediately got so “vitriolic” and then followed that up with screenshots from his sisters who are swifties talking about how much they love her and his contributions were “god is real and he looks down upon us in shame for we worship fake idols” and “I can’t believe you guys are swifties” as examples of his humor

Sabrina play manchild!

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Do you guys remember that coffee barista from last year who I thought had a crush on me but I wasn’t interested? He DM’d me tonight some anti Taylor swift tweets he liked, immediately deleted the photos and said sorry that was dumb an you didn’t ask for it but I already saw them so I told him he shouldn’t try and flirt with girls by insulting their favorite musicians and to fuck off! What a saga