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Eric - adult - swe/eng

Occasionally an artist, always a problem. Born in '97. If you think that makes me 'old' we got no business hanging out. My blog is not appropriate for minors. Married to the love of my life.

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thegothbutcher

crabussy

just found out one of my best friends irl is a system ! she's known for over half a decade but she only just found the means to let me know. you know how prevalence of this type of existence is estimated to be roughly as common as redheads, if not more? IT'S TRUE. you could be interacting with systems every day!!!! I know it gets so lonely but there are so many people going about their lives as part of a system. plurality is a normal variation of the human experience and it's all around you. we're all gonna be okay I think

maxfact

One time I invited someone my old discord server from another discord where they were using PK, and I thought, "oh I should add that bot here too so they can use it!" A few days later a few of my friends came out to me as plural because they saw this and since then I have met soooo many systems lol. Like a light switch they realized I was cool about it and all the sudden I was privy to a massive group I had like, no experience with.

I'm so good at asking only the most sensitive and not at all invasive or offensive questions /j (I'm told this is true but I still feel like it isn't lmao)

crabussy

this is how it is!!!! a lot of people think systems are almost impossibly rare with "I've never met a system in my life" as a reason but trust me, YOU HAVE. we just aren't giving out that info willy nilly, because we don't know who will be safe to tell. it's incredibly stigmatised!

non-systems, you can make the world a more wonderful place, a safer place for your friends and peers, JUST by having an open mind and making it known that you're someone people like me can trust. really all it takes [:

#if you take a second to think about how dissociation is a very common trauma mechanism #and combine that with how unfortunately common abuse during developmental years is #it is not at all strange to consider plurality isn't as rare as the zeitgeist has been lead to believe