hi, friends :)

these are mostly just some things I wish someone would tell me when i’m struggling. I hope you can get something out of them as well. Ask me anything

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sometimes it can feel like everything bad is happening all at once. when that happens, make sure to lean on the people who love you (i promise they exist and they love you and they want to be there for you)

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you ..

…have no idea how important you are to the people around you! keep going!!

(perfect reminder at the perfect time. thanks, friend <3)

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you don’t have to go “all-in” when healing. baby steps in the right direction are more than good enough <3

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hi everyone!

i’m looking for people from Barbados to interview! i’m doing research and i need the perspective of those who have lived in Barbados for at least a year.

i have really appreciated when you guys have helped me out in the past! share this!

let me know if you’d be interested in being interviewed/answering some quick questions!

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reminder that it’s okay to still feel bad sometimes even if you’re doing “better.” it’s okay to feel out of control when things are going “right.” and it’s okay to still seek support even if it doesn’t look like you “need” it.

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What is a favorite fact that you like but feel like you never have a chance to share? More than one favorite is also totally acceptable.

i have been thinking about this question for so long. it is such a good one! the only thing i can think of is that i love the fact that rockhopper penguins are approximately the size of a newborn baby (20-22 inches long and 4.5-6.5 lbs; don’t know the conversions sorry). they’re one of the smallest penguins and i think that’s so cute and we’re not talking about that enough.

but i’d love to hear other people’s favorite facts!

thank you for the awesome question, friend!

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ohhh, I just found this blog and isn't it just darling?? 🥹🫶🏼 thank you for existing, my dear. there's a wonderous healing presence residing here <33 i pray you extend all the positivity to yourself as well !!

this is so sweet! thank you! i will admit i do sometimes come back and re-read what i posted because sometimes i forget to extend the positivity my way. glad you exist <3

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I just wanted to come on here and say: Thank you for existing. You're blog has helped me through so many tough times and every time I feel myself falling apart, I come here. You have helped so many people and u dont even fully realize it. I'm not religious but, you truly are a blessing <3

thank you so much, friend! glad you’re here! this made me very happy to read :)

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it’s okay to let go of things you thought you once wanted. we’re ever-changing creatures. it’s natural to shed old skins.

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I love you

love you too, friend! glad you could be here! <3

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recovery can be difficult and can take a lot longer than you expected. don’t be hard on yourself for getting burnt out. have compassion even when it feels like your not recovering “fast enough” or “correctly.” everyone is on their own path.

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I saw your last post and I hope, that your busy life isn’t draining you and you have enough sleep and time for yourself!

And yes, thank you for your blog❤️

thank you so much, friend! been focusing on good times, good food, and good sleep. sometimes that’s all you need :)

thank you for being here and being kind <3

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hi, friends :) turned 3 today!

happy birthday to us!! thanks for all the support!

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thank you for making this blog <3

i’m glad you like it :)

life’s been busy and tough recently so i haven’t been posting much, but i always appreciate everyone for being here

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Thank you for helping me to understand and to grow.

thank you for being open to understanding and to growing! it’s not easy. glad you’re here <3