Days Gone By

Every now and then kind of Tumblr.

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His eyes

His eyes spoke where words do not and the weight pulled me                 into                         the                               depths where I lay now, waiting for him

[autodidactics]

walk towards yourselves today

[conscious-love]

How to Stop Choosing the Wrong People

I’ve chosen many men because my pain and dysfunction recognized them as sources to keep the pain alive. For example, I’ve chosen angry men because anger remains something which is unresolved in myself. Some women gravitate toward unavailable men because they were abandoned or neglected in childhood. Humans are creatures of habit — our minds seek the familiar.

Research both Codependency and Trauma Bonding. This will help you discern whether you’re choosing someone out of love and compatibility, or due to your dysfunctional past/mindset.

Heal all that is unhealed in yourself. Become aware of your unconscious needs and meet them yourself, that way you don’t seek them unconsciously from someone else.

Become whole on your own so that you don’t feel that you’re lacking. Learn to approve of yourself so that you don’t seek approval from others. This way, you won’t choose people out of desperation, but rather because they would be a healthy addition to your life. You won’t settle for toxic people anymore, you’ll drop them as soon as you figure them out.

“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”

— Carl Jung

[rosenectars-deactivated20221220]

Happy first day of spring. Here’s a cute little flower of a poem from my first book “Bittersweet” coming May 2018.

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[green-sea-blog]

Some goodbyes makes you feel like you’re dying every day, some makes you feel reborn every day.

(via doofblog)

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[soupsane]

緑茶米 [Pixiv]

[mirayama]

Who are you?  Wherever you are in this world, no matter what, I will find you.

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Self reflective

When you’re well aware of things rationally, but your emotions tend to get the better of you. Most of my life has been this type of battle, but experience can only be gained by wading through those failures and challenges.  My fellow self-reflectors, fight the good fight.

[dreamjerky]

[conscious-love]

Relationship goals: Merging with my higher self, inner peace and a life free from toxicity.

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Heart

It’s hard to believe in a time when my heart will finally be okay again. 

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http://nanomortis.deviantart.com/ “Breaking Boundaries”

Going to do my best!

[riddlemetom]

This is the Hogwarts Express, reblog to get on it.

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Never rebloged faster

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me: you're gonna be fine. you're a strong capable woman.

me: aww thanks, it means so much coming from you

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One of those quiet afternoons where you start to think too much about why you’re unlikable and have no friends.