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My lesbianism is entirely restrictive. The restriction is on men, that any man who tries to approach me in any way that’s not 101% platonic or who thinks of me in any way that’s not 101% platonic even for a second will go to jail for life. Bless the Lord. :)

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Dear girls, be intensely wary of men considerably older than you obsessed with “mentoring” you. They’re most likely trying to groom you. Speaking from experience.

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I want to make it clear I’m not just speaking to underage/teen girls. Any younger girl, and this can happen to not that young women as well.

Just because the guy isn’t technically a pedophile, doesn’t make him any less predatory. When you’re in your 20s you may not be a kid anymore, but you’re not fully developed as an adult either. You’re still vulnerable to predators who have the advantage of more experience and thus tools you don’t yet have, in addition to the other advantage of power imbalance due to gendered relations.

A man who wants to be your mentor, especially if he says he wants to “shape” you or anything similar, is a man who’s trying to turn you into his puppet, to make you “develop” (be molded) into the girl/woman that serves his pleasure, even if not directly sexual.

There’s predators who get off on the intellectual performance of the younger female objects of their obsessions. There’s predators who get off on your social development fitting their not-necessarily sexual fantasies. There’s predators who get off on the idea of taking a depressed girl and becoming her “savior”.

There’s people who get off to feet and fucking statues, you best believe there’s predators who get immense satisfaction from mental games against vulnerable girls/women even if they’re not (directly) sexual. And even if those things aren’t sexual at all to you, it will fuck you up. Because you’ll know or feel that you’re being used against your will, that you’re not being treated as a human, you’ll feel trapped, you’ll feel controlled, you’ll feel hopeless and disgusted with what he’s turning you into.

It’s about control, it’s about possession, it’s about ownership of who you are, it’s about having the perfect doll to play with.

It’s about you becoming mentally, emotionally, intellectually, socially dependent on them. It’s about a boost of their egos.

Regardless of your age, but especially if you’re considerably younger than him, and you see signs of him being fixated on this, RUN AS SOON AS YOU CAN.

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i just think the more “woke” white feminists, even the ones who aren’t liberal feminists, and who think they’re very witty, are so funny, bc they’ll be like

“wow, i wish women could be represented as ugly bog hags more! i wish we had more non-sexualized female characters who are dumb, incoherent bitches! i wish we had more weird and bizarre female characters who aren’t necessarily empowering but have a certain charm!”

whereas women of color will be like

“wow, i wish there were women of color who were represented with a full spectrum of humanity, and weren’t infantilized, sexualized, villainized, desexualized, tortured, brutalized, fetishized, or demonized in any way”

the difference is just so fucking funny to me because there are woc characters who are dumb and incoherent and are treated as less smart by the surrounding white characters (i know we all love the suite life of zack and cody but the white girl being smarter and more “kind” than the dumb rich asian girl wasn’t actually that funny in hindsight) and there are woc characters who are weird and bizzare and ugly and what not but they’re treated as garbage (by the writers and fandoms alike) and it’s just

it’s soooo funny

white women want to be represented in a negative and ugly light and see it as misogynistic that they aren’t whereas woc are like “wow can we please get one show where we’re treated as human beings, thanks”

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i drew all of the ultra beasts + necrozma from pokemon sun and moon

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date a girl who is terrible at winking. date a girl who just tilts her head and blinks all three of her eyes.

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Rick Riordan finally snapped and released emails he sent to The Lightning Thief movie makers….

I can’t stop laughing

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Tony: I can’t find it!

Rhodey: What are you looking for?

Tony: My happiness

Peter: *walks in with his hand stuck inside a peanut butter jar* Hey, can someone help me tie my shoe?

Tony:

Tony: I found it

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Spider-Man: Homecoming’s Gag Reel

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EVERY MOMENT OF THIS IS PURE GOLD

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“My parents… are dead” OMG

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Everyone crumpling in the background at “Peter-man.”

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u guys,,,,,, actually want to fuck monsters? like literally actually for real??? u see a huge terrifying monster and think big sexy??? u wanna scary ass bloodthirsty beast to fuck u??? a mothman???? a wearwoof??? VENOM????????????? these arent just memes??? not just jokes??????? u guys arent joking?????????