Why does people always want to annoy other people?
Lina hates the new house door. She really is f*cking frightened of this thing. And we just got this very VERY cheap automatic door closer because of our lying neighbors. Maybe I already mentioned that we have problems with the people living under our apartment. It started right in the beginning (even after they did some stupid shit and we still were trying to be friendly and helpful).
Before they moved in there were two young boys in the apartment (they are related to the people living there now). We never had really a problem with them as person, they were actually nice but used so much fragrances that it killed me and woke up my MCS =( So sure I was ranting and rave, uh you know… didn’t sleep for weeks and felt more and more ill .. you just get angry. And after two years… those new people moved in… We didn’t know about that, actually they should have told us and for some days Lina was sooooo damn frightened of all the loud noise. And right in the beginning they just turned off the water without asking us… that was really not cool!
They have two kids (they are not always at home, not always in the kindergarten (which is pretty unfair as a lot of people want their kids to go there and they are just taking their places)) but I know, it is not easy with kids so sure at a time in the evening we were quieter and understanding if they were louder. I took their clothes from the garden when they were falling from their balcony (which happens on a regular basis) and put them in front of their door (not anymore, so now there are lying things around in the grass…for months) and well we really tried to be friendly. But they started to lie to our landlord with the absolute most ridiculous things.
They said we put too much trash in the box and don’t put it outside for the garbage men to take (as I am interested in zero waste, that is just… ) And actually I was the person who put it out for the first time at the right time. We hopefully will get our own trash can soon (we have to talk about this with our landlord) because we really have little residual waste and we are using the compost in the garden, so we are paying for their trash at the moment which is… annoying on different levels.
My husband is doing the garden for years almost on his own (which is absolutely fine for us, in the beginning we paid “someone” but actually it was done by my man, which is just stupid, but well…). You know, like mowing the grass, cutting the large hedge (which really takes a lot of time and is hard to do). The garden doesn’t belong to our apartments in the house but we are allowed to use it on an agreed arrangement. But they were saying we don’t do anything!
They lie about talking to us about those things (never shared a word) and they behave like the most unfriendly person. Closing the house door right in front of our face, shutting it always when I have to kind of air the staircase to our apartment (I have MCS and they use fricking lot fragrances). They lock up the house door after I open it again because it is really bad and after shutting it close really hard I almost couldn’t open it up. They know about my illness, but after airing the staircase (which doesn’t really get better as their apartment smells badly) they just spray fragrances around just to annoy me. It is really ridiculous. I don’t want to have anything to do with those horrendous people… but they keep doing those things in purpose. We have a life and just want to live… but like that it is … hard.
And I also think they WERE in our apartment when I didn’t lock it, which is really NOT cool. And I think after they overheard me telling this to some of my friends on the phone, they started to tell lies about people wanted to break in. (which is extremely ridiculous to say as I work from home and my dog would tell me if there was someone breaking in.) They told our landlord they called the police at least two times because burglars and well… we are kind of living outside of town, more on the countryside and well… you know other neighbors don’t know about it. And they would have talked to us. That is why we have this really stupid automatic door closer which doesn’t even really work which is kind of funny. I am sure the landlord will tell us to pay it, but we didn’t want or needed it, so naaah we won’t paying that sh*t.
They also block the road or the courtyard with a small truck on a regular basis (if they would just walk like five minutes from this house to a parking area it wouldn’t be a problem.) People around us are also pissed about that.
And I could go on like this for pages.
And that is the reason my illness doesn’t really get any better and why I often don’t have the strength to use Instagram that much anymore. I just can't deal with that too, as I've got my mind elsewhere... many 'elsewheres'.
Sorry for the long text (and mistakes), but I really had to get this out of my mind.
