Erik Kessels - FAILED IT! - How to turn mistakes into ideas and other advice for successfully screwing up
That Erik Kessels wrote quite a different book becomes visible straight away: The front cover is on the back cover and vice versa.
Kessels emphasizes making mistakes is nothing negative. No, in his opinion it is a, if not the, useful tool to create. In this book he shares his fascination of the odd and “wrong” of every day life.
The author points out examples of when so-called “mistakes” or sometimes even accidents, actually turned out to be brilliant ideas.
Not from this book, but still applicable: “Nur aus Fehlern lernt man!” (German proverb; ~ One only learns out of mistakes.)
Kessels suggests that it is part of being human to fail and questions why it seems everyone is resistant to or works against it. These sparks of inquiry towards issues in society ignite my reflection-engine and make me think about failure and success.
Simply defining failure and success can take ages and will never be definate. I just recently heard of an interview-question that was asked for a place to study. “How do you define success?” Think about that one for a while. It can drive you nuts.
What one can learn from this book is that failure can lead to creativity and therefore provides diversification, which today is commonly seen as something positive. The author therefore shows many examples from one of his fields of proficiency - the arts.
Nevertheless, he also has the opinion that one can fail to fail, or in other words, make mistakes the wrong way. I am pretty sure that by saying that, he actually wants to tell that not making mistakes is one of the biggest mistakes, if not the biggest mistake, one can make. Speaking of right and wrong: What is right, what is wrong? Does it even matter after all?
I support the thesis: Considering causes complexity, which ultimately leads to issues in one way or the other. Looking at this thesis, simplicity, banality, should be the way to go. And this is also something, Kessels agrees to.
Advice is constantly given throughout the book and can be broken down to the chapter headlines used. “Screw up. Stand out.” “Make mistakes. Every day.” “When a view is flawless, interrupt it.” “Dare to be disliked.” “Keep it simple.” “Work on your backyard.” “Don’t be boring”
“Have the confidence not to care about what other people think.”
“You can’t predict the unexpected, but you can learn to recognize it.”
“Have no fear of perfection. You’ll never reach it.”
“Perfect is the enemy of the good.”
“We are all failures. At least the best of us are.” - J.M. Barrie, author
“Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor.” - Truman Capote, author
I myself, do not favour fail-culture this much. I do agree with most points in this book, however I do not see it as fundamental to make mistakes on purpose and force them on ones’ own. But I wouldn’t say it is entirely unneccessary to make mistakes. I think the main advice that can be read between the lines of this book is to make the best out of everything, since the best is not always what we expect nor what we want it to be.