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TW: DID
Havent been on in awhile.. finally in trauma therapy, and my new health team thinks that I've been misdiagnosed. They want to test me for DID. Needless to say, that has stirred up a lot of emotions.
To those in my DMs that are deactivated now, I wish you all the best in the universe. You have helped me more than you may ever know. Thank you ♡
Think I'm taking a break from age regression and little space for a while.
Seeing all of my unused little activities (like, everything except the clouds) with no CG to use them with is making me really depressed. Especially because I already have 2 partners. The one that wants to be my cg is 2000 miles away, and the one that is indifferent to it all, is the one I live with. So, I packed up my whole room until further notice. It just hurts.
And for those who are still following my boring life, thanks for sticking around 🧡
TW: sobriety
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Update:
So, I'm still doing agere stuff, as I've recently gone sober and clean off of multiple things at once. So, it's currently one of my only coping mechanisms.
I also just switched out my hormone tablets for the injections, and they're way stronger so that most likely has had something to do with me being super overly emotional lately 😅
Sorry I'm a wreck. Thanks for sticking around loves 😭💝🧸
Think I'm taking a break from age regression and little space for a while.
Seeing all of my unused little activities (like, everything except the clouds) with no CG to use them with is making me really depressed. Especially because I already have 2 partners. The one that wants to be my cg is 2000 miles away, and the one that is indifferent to it all, is the one I live with. So, I packed up my whole room until further notice. It just hurts.
And for those who are still following my boring life, thanks for sticking around 🧡
TW: Impending eviction, homelessness, mental illness.
UPDATE: The landlord told my partner that we cans stay until the end of the lease so long as I take my post(s) down talking about him and the situation.. so, yeah. Okay I guess.
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If you read this far, may the gods bless you.
Thank you, loves 🧡
🍂Little-Fall🍂
Positivity for teen and tween regressors who are always regressed
How to Calm a Fussy Little: LDR Version
🌻Find the root of the problem, like hunger or fatigue or missing you and plan accordingly
🌻If you can, call them so their fussiness doesn’t turn into a tantrum
🌻If you can’t call them, have them do tasks for you so keep their mind off whatever’s making them fussy
🌻A nap may be necessary
🌻If they can, tell them to use their baba (bottle), paci, or little gear that calms them
🌻Text them with a voice recording of you saying something calming or soothing, like “shhh baby, Daddy/Mommy is right here” if you can’t video call
🌻If they get really fussy often, pre record them a video saying you love them + other soothing things
🌻Have them cuddle with a stuffie or pillow - when I miss daddy I fold my pillow in half to make a Pillow Daddy
🌻Have then drink tea, hot chocolate, or another warm beverage without (much) caffeine
🌻Remind them you’re there for them, always
🌻Remind them you love them, even if they’re fussy
🌻Reward them if they calm themselves down
🌻But if they throw a tantrum, try not to lose patience and calm them down as quickly as possible
🌻Be aware that more fussiness than normal, not regressing often enough or MUCH more than normal, etc. can be a sign they’re going through something, never hurts to ask
🌻After all the fussiness and possible tantrum is over, remind them that it’s ok to be fussy and express those feelings (in fact, my daddy thinks it’s adorable when I get fussy over missing him)
Who else gets super fussy? I know I do..as I write this it’s 4:25am and I’m up because I’m fussy from missing daddy. Anywayyyyssss hope this helps!
-Pumpkin 🧡
Masterlist of stims
i have brainstormed every possible stim (not every single one but most i can think of) throughout the entire day
first of all, stimming is a healthy and important way for autistics and other ND individuals to regulate their emotions. stimming helps us to express and understand emotions. We stim when we're happy, upset, angry, overwhelmed, anxious, scared and even when we're bored.
it is very important that we are allowed to stim freely because suppressing them can be painful.
i hope this list will help you discover the different ways you can express yourself. stims don't always come naturally, and sometimes we need to discover sitims that work for us. Browse them, try them out, see what works for you.
what is stimming?
- any type of repetition using any senses of the body
- it is fluid and infinite
- it's quiet and loud
- unique to each person
- voluntary/intentional and involuntary/instinctual
why do we stim?
- to communicate
- to regulate emotions
- to express emotions and feelings
- to understand what we're feeling
- to distract
- for fun
- and sometimes just cause we're bored
Physical stims
hand flapping
hand waving
waving your arms
arm flapping
shaking your body from head to toe
wiggling
dancing
tapping on a surface or yourself
touching each finger to your thumb one at a time
running your tongue over your teeth
rocking back and forth or side to side
swaying
cracking your knuckles or toes
wiggling your toes or fingers
bouncing your legs
clicking your teeth together
snapping
clapping
pacing
tapping your feet
jumping
spinning in circles
rapid or hard blinking
bouncing while sitting or on your toes
running a hand through or over your hair
pulling your hair (in a safe, gentle way)
twirling your hair
squeezing your hands together
tensing and relaxing muscles
nodding and moving your head and neck
moving your jaw side to side
opening and clenching your hands
tapping fists together
rubbing your palms of your hands together
rubbing fingers together
rubbing lips together
giving yourself a hug
smacking your lips
rubbing your skin
moving your ankles in a circle
running or jogging
deep, meaningful breathing
rubbing your feet together
Stimming with aid of objects
playing instruments
swinging
rocking or spinning in a chair
going down a slide
clicking pens
drinking liquids
bouncing on an exercise ball
messing with jewelry
fidgeting with a stim/fidget toy
using chewelry
opening or closing things
painting or drawing
being under a weighted blanket
building Legos
splashing water
typing on a phone or computer
petting or scratching an animal
playing with playdough, slime, etc
jumping on a trampoline
messing with flip sequins
running your hands over soft and sensory friendly surfaces and fabrics
using the app "antistress" (an incredible app honestly)
Vocal stims
humming
singing
whistling
repeating a word or phrase out loud or in your head (echolalia)
counting out loud
clicking your tongue
Auditory stims
listening to music
listening to the same song over and over
listening to a stim toy
Visual stims
watching rain fall
watching kaleidoscopes
watching a ceiling fan
waving your hand in front of your face
watching yourself stim
staring
watching the light dance on the walls
calm down jars
sensory jars
watching liquid stim toys
watching an hourglass
watching soothing videos
watching ANY type of pleasing thing
Olfactory (smelling) stims
sniffing the air
using bath bombs
lighting a candle
wearing a necklace/bracelet that holds a scent
lighting incense
smelling food
putting on perfume or lotion
Gustatory (eating) stims
eating
chewing gum
sucking on a mint or sweet
sucking on a lollypop
hi... I was wondering if you could give me some tips on how to sleep better at night? I have a very super duper hard time sleeping alone :<
Sadly I dont have any good answers for that! I myself struggle with sleeping and I don't have good advice besides maybe hugging a stuffie 🧸
-Teddy
If you find sleeping hard I hope this helps!
Put your phone on night mode: you can do this in settings or you might need an app-this turns down the blue light helping you sleep.
No tech 2-hours before sleeping: this keeps brain activity low.
Set a schedule: if you start going to bed at a certain time each night you start getting tired around that time every night.
Listen to a specific song every time you try to sleep: if you do this every time you want to sleep you can turn on this song and start to get drowsy.
Meditate: this can help your brain start to gear down
I hope this helps anyone! ❤️✨
My sleep is always in very short increments, and usually involves nightmares or night terrors. I'm going to try these ideas and see if they help at all. Thank you for these! 🧡
My favorite forms of affection:
Holding hands.
Resting their heads over my shoulder.
Lying on their lap or chest.
Kisses on the forehead.
Playing with my hair.
When they give me that look of admiration.
Them making me laugh.
Giving compliments.
Putting their arms around me.
Making me feel heard and seen without even trying.
Random hugs when words aren't needed.
When they remember the things I am passionate about.
Buying me food.
Them checking on me constantly.
When they respect my boundaries.
When they talk to me about things that reminds them of me.
When they speak their truth.
When they say they love me.
When they lift me up, support me and make me feel valuable and capable when I least believe in it.
Valid reasons to regress
To cope with trauma
To ease symptoms of mental illness
To help with stress
To fall asleep
To relax after a hard day
Because it is involuntary
To relive your childhood
To have the childhood you didn't get but always wanted
Because it makes you happy
Because your therapist suggested it
To aid in self care
Because you want to
Because it makes life easier
To play with other regressors
Any reason you have is a good and valid reason!
Whoever you are, your regression is valid!💖
Also, anybody new feel like making friends?
Shows for Age Regressors!
I have a super long list of shows in my notes that i watch when I’m regressed! So I’m going to share that list with you guys! These are for a range of ages, not just babies or kiddos!
(the red ones are my favorites)
- Max and Ruby (YouTube)
- Poccoyo (Netflix/Hulu)
- Word Party (Netflix)
- Pinkie Dinkie Do (Youtube)
- Rugrats (Hulu, KissCartoon)
- Arthur (PBS Kids App)
- Blue's Clues (Nick Jr App)
- Sesame Street (Youtube, Hulu)
- Muppet Babies [1984] (Youtube)
- Bubble Guppies (Nick Jr App)
- Clifford the Big Red Dog
- Caillou (Youtube)
- Little Bear (Youtube)
- Dragon Tales (Youtube)
- Big Comfy Couch (Youtube)
- Between the Lions (Youtube)
- Barney and Friends (Youtube)
- Mister Roger's Neighborhood (Youtube)
- Berenstain Bears (Youtube)
- Maya and Miguel (Youtube)
- Charlie and Lola (Youtube)
- Franklin (Youtube)
- The Backyardigans (Youtube, Nick Jr App)
- Maggie and The Ferocious Beast (Youtube)
- Wonder Pets (Nick Jr App)
- Dora the Explorer
- Oswald (Youtube)
- Oobi (Youtube)
- Ms.Spider's Sunny Patch Friends (Youtube)
- Teletubbies (Youtube)
- Sofia the First (Netflix)
- Doc McStuffins (Netflix, Hulu)
- Bob The Builder
- Sid the Science Kid (Hulu)
- Peppa Pig (Youtube, Nick Jr app)
- Curious George (Hulu)
- Olivia (Youtube)
- Peppa Pig (Youtube, Nick Jr app)
- Franny's Feet (Youtube)
- Little Baby Bam (Netflix, Youtube)
- 64 Zoo Lane (Youtube)
- Handy Manny (Netflix)
- Pororo the Penguin (Netflix, Hulu)
- Llama Llama Red Pajama (Netflix)
- Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood (PBS Kids app)
- Babar (YouTube)
- Wibbly Pig (Youtube)
- The Adventures of Paddington the Bear (Youtube)
- Madeline (Youtube)
Regression isn't always giggles and smiles, sometimes its:
🍼 Putting a paci in your mouth to stop yourself from having a panic attack 🍼
🍼 Silently crying on a stuffie's shoulder because you're alone and scared. 🍼
🍼 Regressing when you shouldn't and feeling guilty about it. 🍼
🍼 Shaking a rattle when you're depressed to hear the comforting noise. 🍼
🍼 Cute band-aids to cover sad things. 🍼
🍼 Being scared you're going to annoy your Cg if you text them too much even thou you're really sad and just want to hear their voice. 🍼
🍼 Ordering off the children's menu so you don't binge 🍼
🍼 Playing soft lullabies while falling asleep so you don't have flashbacks. 🍼
💕 It is okay if your regression is sad or impure. Its okay if its sad sometimes and its okay if its always sad. You are so strong for getting through everything, little one. I'm so proud of you. 💕
This is what I needed to see today. Thank you 💜
Unnoticeable littlespace
♡Kawaii socks
♡Baby toiletries
♡Disney music
♡Pink clothes
♡Fuzzy clothes
♡Dresses and skirts
♡Cute hair clips
♡Baby/kid snacks
♡Cute bags decorated with clips and pins
♡Candy
♡Magical girl animes
♡Fairy lights
♡Cozy cute bedding
♡Toy “collecting”
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Who's been taking pictures of me on the living room floor? 🤔🖍
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