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Mommy has gone high tech and bought a diaper sensing device that attaches to the diaper and every time I wet my diaper it sends a message to mommy phone that I made pee-pee in my diaper it evens sends a message to tell her its time for a diaper change.
Someone get me this pleaseeee. đ
This is actually genius haha
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Diaper Punishment, Diaper Discipline & Diaper Training: A Short History (1/3)
For more than two thousand years, various forms of diapers have been used on infants with the sole purpose of catching urine and feces excreted in an uncontrolled manner. Up to the 19th century, diapers were barely comparable to the well-known modern versions and were rather made provisionally from wool or linen yarn instead. In the 19th century, the terry towelling diapers appeared, which were later often combined with rubber pants to increase their effectiveness. The first disposable diapers came up after World War II, and due to the convenience they offered for busy parents they displaced cloth diapers more and more in the following decades.
However, in each generation, mothers and fathers, wifes and husbands, girlfriends and boyfriends existed who were able to see the potential of diapers far beyond their practical function. Those few discovered their usefulness for educational purposes and learned to appreciate their correctional influences on the behavior of young adults and partners.
This post is part of a series of illustrated articles intended to show the evolution of diaper punishment into diaper discipline and, eventually, diaper training.
Part 1: Before 1990
Up to the 1990s, diapers were used for educational purposes mostly in form of diaper punishment, i.e. usually for a short amount of time in order to punish and correct recent misbehaviour, for instance back talking, neglecting duties and inappropriate behavior. Since diapers were only worn for a short period of time and often supervised by a caregiver, the implementation of further rules was not necessary. The caregiver would either demand to use the diaper for its intended purpose or the disciplinary action was more focused on the humiliating aspect of being diapered for a set amount of time. In many cases, diaper punishment was combined with additional measures like spankings or enemas.
Figure 1. An illustration of a mother about to give her adult daughter an enema. The lubricating cream as well as the plug indicate that the enema is not given for medical reasons. The humiliating aspect contributes to the general punishment of dealing with the cramps caused by the hot, soapy water in her intestine until she is allowed to relieve herself on the toilet in the background. Protective rubber panties are already prepared on the cistern and are to be worn afterwards (ca. 1960).
Figure 2. A young woman showing her boyfriend the state of her towelling nappy during a hike, a pair of plastic panties pulled down to her knees. The smile on her face suggests that she is already used to wearing diapers on a regular basis (ca. 1970).
Figure 3. A young woman undergoing a form of correctional long-term diaper punishment in a precursor of modern diaper training facilities, which was a common procedure for women cheating on their partner. Supervised by nurses, cribs, straightjackets and plastic clothing made sure that diapers stayed on and got used for their intended purpose, while mattresses and furniture were adequately protected. A desired outcome were incontinent wifes or girlfriends, since studies showed that the temptation for cheating again basically dropped to zero (ca. 1970).
Figure 4. In order to increase the humiliating aspect of her diaper punishment, this young woman has been placed on a toilet with her cloth diapers and plastic panties still on (ca. 1980).
Figure 5. Two young women working as housemaids, just dressed in lingerie and diapers. The perspective of getting changed into a fresh diaper once all of their duties were fullfilled served as a very effective incentive for them to get housework done as quickly and thoroughly as possible (ca. 1980).
Diaper Punishment, Diaper Discipline & Diaper Training: A Short History (2/3)
For more than two thousand years, various forms of diapers have been used on infants with the sole purpose of catching urine and feces excreted in an uncontrolled manner. Up to the 19th century, diapers were barely comparable to the well-known modern versions and were rather made provisionally from wool or linen yarn instead. In the 19th century, the terry towelling diapers appeared, which were later often combined with rubber pants to increase their effectiveness. The first disposable diapers came up after World War II, and due to the convenience they offered for busy parents they displaced cloth diapers more and more in the following decades.
However, in each generation, mothers and fathers, wifes and husbands, girlfriends and boyfriends existed who were able to see the potential of diapers far beyond their practical function. Those few discovered their usefulness for educational purposes and learned to appreciate their correctional influences on the behavior of young adults and partners.
This post is part of a series of illustrated articles intended to show the evolution of diaper punishment into diaper discipline and, eventually, diaper training.
Part 2: 1990 - 2010
In the early 1990s, disposable diapers were used more often than cloth diapers due to the convenience they offered for caregivers, which easily compensated for the slightly higher costs. The reduced workload also offered new opportunities: Since diapers had proven to be a very effective tool for treating any kind of misbehavior in young adults, why not making them a long-term arrangement? Since changing diapers became a matter of seconds to minutes with no additional work included, why not letting them become an integral part of someones wardrobe if they had such an positive effect on the behavior? Diaper Discipline was born, and soon a variety of concepts evolved differing in intensity, duration and overall goal, diffusing through society in private households and in form of official diaper disciplining facilities. In private households utilizing this form of discipline, diapers usually replaced every other form of underwear (and the toilet, of course!) for a set amount of time (ranging from months to decades), and were commonly combined with other rules, e.g. bedtimes and household chores. Punishments were not only given for general misbehavior, but also for misdemeanor with respect to diapers, for instance taking them off without allowance or toilet usage. The diaper discipline facilites were established as a consequence of an increasing demand by caregivers who were, for various reasons, not able to provide a proper way of diaper discipline for their partners / young adults. The programs carried out in those facilities were very strict and led to diaper dependency within a few weeks / months in many cases, but the reported increase in behavior justified the strict and consequent approach.
Figure 1. With an anxious look on her face, this young woman observes a nurse pulling the straps attached to her straightjacket tightly between her legs shortly after her arrival at a diaper discipline facility. The combination of straightjacket/straps, disposable diaper and plastic pants made sure that diapers stayed on and were used for their intended purpose without undesired leaks, but still enabled nurses to easily check the diapers condition. The smile on the nurses face reveals how much pleasure and delight she apparently finds in forcing a young woman to make her first and inevitable steps towards diaper dependency (ca. 1999).
Figure 2. A bed prepared for a new patient at the St. Brutus Correctional Facility, which became famous in later years as one of the strictest existing diaper discipline facilities. The facility looked in particular after young woman new to diaper discpline which had repeatedly trouble to keep their diapers on. The overall concept was pretty simple and basically aimed for achieving incontinence of their clients as soon as possible, since it proved to be the most effective solution to the problem. Using a combination of catheters, laxatives, absorbent diapers, plastic pants and various forms of fixation, this goal was usually achieved irreversibly within a few weeks (ca. 1995).
Figure 3. A young woman in her sleeper receiving an enema, which was a common procedure in private households to help them overcome their shyness when it came to messing their diapers. The spreader bar does not allow her any resistance against the water flooding her intestine, and also makes sure she cannot resist the subsequent emptying into her diaper by clenching her legs together. The fact that she is completely ready for bed indicates that she had to sleep in her messy diaper afterwards, which was recommended to encourage voluntary bowel movements during the day (ca. 2004).
Figure 4. The horror in the face of this young woman captures perfectly the moment she realizes how quick and effective all these tubes, combined with just a minimum of shackles, removed both her bladder and bowel control, a point often referred to as the âpoint of no returnâ by leading diaper discipline experts. From now on, diapers were not only considered a embarassing form of underwear, but first and foremost a necessity for the rest of their lives (ca. 2007).
Figure 5. Long-term diaper discipline also required new tools for a 24/7 disciplining approach, even when out and about. This young woman is safely padded in a disposable diaper with a pair of yellow plastic panties on top. To make sure that she does not remove her diaper under any (unsupervised) circumstances, a diaper safety belt matching the color of her dress has been put on top. The perspective of never being out of diapers again, regardless of the cirucmstances, acts as a catalysator for continuous diaper usage, leading to small bladders, weak sphincters and eventually (desired) incontinence within a few months (ca. 2009).
Diaper Punishment, Diaper Discipline & Diaper Training: A Short History (3/3)
For more than two thousand years, various forms of diapers have been used on infants with the sole purpose of catching urine and feces excreted in an uncontrolled manner. Up to the 19th century, diapers were barely comparable to the well-known modern versions and were rather made provisionally from wool or linen yarn instead. In the 19th century, the terry towelling diapers appeared, which were later often combined with rubber pants to increase their effectiveness. The first disposable diapers came up after World War II, and due to the convenience they offered for busy parents they displaced cloth diapers more and more in the following decades.
However, in each generation, mothers and fathers, wifes and husbands, girlfriends and boyfriends existed who were able to see the potential of diapers far beyond their practical function. Those few discovered their usefulness for educational purposes and learned to appreciate their correctional influences on the behavior of young adults and partners.
This post is part of a series of illustrated articles intended to show the evolution of diaper punishment into diaper discipline and, eventually, diaper training.
Part 3: 2010 - today
By 2010, diaper discipline had substantially grown in both notability and popularity, and diapers had become an integral part of daily life in many private households and facilities all around the globe. New impulses came in particular from the Generation Y (also known as the Pampers Generation because most of them were put in disposable diapers as babies and toddlers). Consequently, the further development of diaper discipline was majorly driven by two dominant traits, which is âŠ
the continous search for entertainment and input, and âŠ
the question âWhy?â, i.e., the enduring tendency to question existing principles or concepts: Why should diaper discipline solely be done for a purpose without any fun? Why should we not take advantage of our knowledge in psychology and physiology when it comes to diaper discipline?
As a result, the âgame with the mindâ became a central aspect of diaper discipline, leading to the exploitation of (forced) regression and conditioning in the scope of diaper discipline, which is then usually summarized by the term diaper training. While the general goal did not change by any means, for instance diaper dependency, inducing bedwetting etc., the methods in achieving that goal changed significantly. Two main approaches can be distinguished (there is, however, a broad spectrum of intermediate concepts, using aspects from both approaches to various degrees):
The strict, forced approach: Diapers and training concepts are introduced abruptly, and compliance is enforced by punishments (humiliation, spankings, corner time, delayed diaper changes, enemas) until the client has become accustomed to the new regimen and diapers become a natural part of daily life.
The gentle, manipulative approach: Diapers and training concepts are introduced step-by-step, and compliance is ensured by conditioning and positive reinforcement (giving orgasms once the diaper has been used properly, sweet talk, diaper pats, loving attention) until the client has developed a strong desire to be in diapers (or any form of dependency) and external forcing is not necessary anymore.
In both approaches, the same tools (medical or printed diapers, locking plastic pants, restraints, onesies, enemas and suppositories etc.) are used consistently and without exception, however, the difference consists in the way they are introduced, i.e., either in form of a caring or a punitive way, while the outcome remains of course the same. The right approach in a given situation depends on individual factors, but mostly on the preferences of the caregiver. In the following, you will find several examples of modern diaper training.
Figure 1. A young woman is severly tied up to a bed in a correctional facility using a strict approach, suggesting that she is fairly new to diaper training. Regular fluid intake makes sure her diaper does not stay dry for long and that she gets used to using her diaper frequently. The restraints allow easy access to her diaper area, either for a change or for further diaper training reinforcement means like forced orgasms etc., and the locking mittens ensure that she has no ability to fight those procedures. The chances of her keeping any part of her bladder control for longer than 8 weeks is basically zero by now (ca. 2011).
Figure 2. A young, happy woman standing in front of a huge pile of her own diaper supply, which is openly stored in her house. The smile on her face suggests that she has been in a gentle form of diaper training (including some regression aspects, as indicated by the stuffie she hugs tightly) for quite some time. Her attire, attitude as well as the diaper packages in the background suggest that she has fully accpeted being back in diapers, and it can be assumed that her diaper dependency was irreversible by the time she put on the very last diaper from the pile behind her (ca. 2012).
Figure 3. Tied to her bed and being deprived of any hearing, seeing or speaking, this young woman has no choice but to focus on the thick padding between her legs. After a while, the only stimulant becomes the warmth frequently spreading throughout her triple-boosted diaper, and her desire for any sensory input leads to a increased wetting frequency, which in turn erodes her bladder control all the quicker (ca. 2015).
Figure 4. A very effective and technologized form of diaper training is shown in this picture, which has been taken in one of the most modern diaper training facilities in the world. Various sensors record continously several physical and physiological parameters of this young woman, for instance the wetting frequency, body and diaper temperature, electrical brain activity, and electrodes can be used to stimulize specific nerves. This method allows, for example, to decide with scientific precision whether bedwetting has already set in. To that end, statistical algorithms evaluate the recorded time seriesâ of electrical brain activity and diaper wetting events. Once the diaper wetting events fall together with low-frequency delta waves, which indicates a phase of deep sleep, diaper training scientist can conclude that bedwetting has been induced permanently (ca. 2018).
Figure 5. A gentle diaper training approach by conditioning with elements of regression is illustrated in this picture. A vibrator is pressed into the clearly wet (and most likely messy) diaper of the young woman bound to the chair, and despite her fighting against the upcoming orgasm, her face reveals that her mind has already given in and she has already passed the point-of-no-return. Understandably, the lady on the left side obviously enjoys enforcing a mental diaper dependency on her young client, giving her mind no other choice than to learn to thoroughly enjoy cumming in a soggy diaper (ca. 2017).
Figure 6. This picture is a perfect example of a strict, but gentle and caring diaper training approach with dominating regressive elements. The strongly feminine dresscode of the lady on the right side is supposed to emphasize the contrast between the mature caregiver on the one side and the young, diaper-filling woman on the other side. Although the atmosphere is kept loving and caring, the situation is certainly handled with consistency and without any exceptions. The young woman on the left side receives an enema, which indicates that she is still new to diaper training and regression and still has trouble (or refuses) to use her diaper for its intended purpose. Since toilets are definitely not a part of the training, the experience of releasing the enema into a diaper certainly fosters future compliance when it comes to using her diaper, along with praising words once she has thoroughly filled it (ca. 2016).
@bby-lttl-spc is a diaper perfectionist when she puts on the mommy hat!
D/s 101: If you call yourself a Dominant, donât do this stuff...
You have adopted a title that should come with a giant heaping dose of honor, respect, and trustworthiness.Â
1. Donât make demands of submissive girls that donât belong to you. You should know the difference between having the ability to control your own submissive, and how you should be treating all the rest that donât belong to you.
2. Donât talk intimately/woo other submissives behind the back of the one that belongs to you. All the time and energy you have to put into the submissive world should be aimed at your own submissive. If you want a different submissive, do the right thing, and break with the one you currently own first.
3. Donât ditch submissives. How would you feel if the person you depend on for nearly everything suddenly went up in a puff of smoke, and was never heard from again? How would it effect your ability to trust someone else to take up the same role in your life? Stop ghosting, and ruining perfectly good submissives.Â
4. Donât cut your submissive out from contributing to your relationship. Yes, I know she put you in charge, but relationships evolve, and if you donât attend to what she wants out of yours, your relationship is likely to evolve in separate directions. You can still be in charge, and listen to her wants and needs, I promise.Â
5. Donât ask someone you just met to be your submissive. Itâs your job to inspire her to submit to you, by getting to know who she is, and showing her that you are the single most qualified man to be her Dominant. Donât be lazy. Being a Dominant takes a lot of focus and energy. If youâre not up for that, go find another title to adopt.Â
6. Donât put your submissive on a shelf when caring for her is not convenient to you, and take her down off the shelf when it suits you. Submissives are human beings, and though some of them like to be treated like objects from time to time, they should not be ignored when you donât feel like dealing with your relationship. If you donât have to the time and energy to adopt the role of Dominant for someone, then donât do it in a half-assed way.
7. Donât compare your current submissive with past submissives. Itâs not a competition. You should be making her feel like sheâs the most important person in your current world, so donât make her feel like sheâs less than other submissives, or that youâre pining for something you no longer have, and feel you canât have with her.Â
8. Donât skimp on the essential ingredients in D/s relationships. Donât be that guy who limits your submissives safeword in any way. A safeword is the difference between consensual sex, and possible rape and abuse. Donât skimp on aftercare. Let her know how much you appreciate all the control she continuously allows you to have over her, and how well she is performing for you. Itâs the difference between a proud and happy submissive, and a sad and confused one.Â
9. Donât make unilateral decisions that your submissive is directly opposed to. You donât get to decide your submissive needs a sister because it suits you to have a second submissive to play with, when itâs patently against her wishes. Once again, itâs her relationship too.Â
10. Donât lie to your submissive. Itâs all about trust. Itâs trust that inspires her to submit to you. Itâs trust that inspires her to allow you to continue to hold her submission. One or two breaches of trust, and it all falls apart.Â
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Reduce Sexual Endurance with âOrgasm Trainingâ
Would you, too, like to have a diaper baby that has no reason to come out of diapers? Would you like your diaper baby to be so useless for sex and penetration that they never have any excuse to be untaped from their Pampers? If so, this training is for you! Destroy your diaper babyâs sexual endurance so they canât last long enough to ever have a reason to be undiapered.
Your âorgasm trainingâ program starts with a few simple rules: -Your diaper sub does not have permission to touch themselves without permission. -Your diaper sub should be prepared to orgasm often - and regularly. -Your diaper sub should have a way to track time. Most cell phones offer a stopwatch capability that can easily be forwarded to you upon completion.
You may also choose to include other various rituals with your orgasm training including use of certain toys, watching only censored or other types of porn, methods of clean-up or cum disposal, or other things that fit your dynamic. If youâre training them to be your subservient diaper sub, you might as well train them alongside other sexual ideals while youâre at it.
Set aside a lengthy time period where all orgasms for the submissive will be quick and succinct. You may have to limit yourself use of your human âtoyâ during your training to achieve this. I recommend a month or more for full efficacy of this training.
During the training time, the submissive is not allowed any sexual touch of the genitals. Showering and bathing with cleaning purposes is allowed, but no sexual touch is allowed. During your agreed-upon timeframe, any time the submissive touches their genitals - with permission from you, of course - the only goal is orgasm as quickly as possible. Once sexual touch is begun, the only possible outcome is orgasm - and as quickly as possible.
To allow variance in training, you may consider assigning various porn viewing or other adult activities to be done before any touching is started.
To track progress, it is recommended that the submissive (or yourself) start a stopwatch and time the duration from first genital contact to the orgasm.
With regular training sessions (4-8 a week), you should see slow improvement to your submissiveâs orgasm time. You may choose to correlate this with their need to wear diapers or include humiliation play to make them aware of their place - or just to include more fun within the training regiment.
Notes: -If you find that your diaper sub is now trained to a certain type of penile/vaginal sensation for orgasm or are concerned about it happening, require other sensations and orgasm methods. While this may make it difficult to accurately track training progress over time, it will require the submissive be accustomed to orgasming quickly with many different types of sensation. You may consider sex toys, diaper rubs, humping objects, and other sensations.
(All sexual ideals aside, this is what worked well for us for âorgasm trainingâ. It may or may not work well for your submissive or body type, but we found this was surprisingly successful when we gave it a try. Itâs also worth noting that this training may not work well for those who are stressed out by time limits or have difficulties orgasming in the first place. And for further, more-personal information about how this training has worked for us, there are posts up on SubscribeStar for our supporters.)
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This silly little baby showing off her Safariâs while the PS4 Updates - what else are you meant to do on #SoftSunday
Updated Library For Kinksters
I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the updateâŠ
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Consent
Consent & BDSM
Guide to Consent
Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Wonât Ask For
50 Rules for Daddies
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Alternative Names For âDaddyâ
Alternative Domme Titles
Aspects Of Control
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Daddy Up!
Defining A Daddy Dom
Dominants Need Training Also
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
Help For New Doms
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How To Be A Good Dominant
How to Find a Submissive
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
So you want to be a Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Dom Commandments
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissiveâs Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
Littles, Subs & Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
26 Baby Girl Jobs
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
A Bottomâs Responsibility
A Dominantâs Advice To His Submissive
A Man Who Knows YouâŠ
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Attraction to DD/lg: A Littleâs Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
âHow do I find Daddy?â A guide to help you safely find the Daddy youâre looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Novice Submissives
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Signs Of A Fake âDominantâ
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
What is a Little?
When newbie subs, with asinine âdoms,â need to run away.
Why I call him Daddy
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Mental Health
BDSM practitioners âhealthier and less neuroticâ than âvanillaâ peers
Body image & BDSM
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
Is BDSM normal?
Love your Vulva â a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
On Cutting
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Things to Do When Youâre Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
Relationships
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say âI Love Youâ
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
Communication Is Key
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Date Night In A Jar
DD/lg In Public
D/s and Domestication
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When Youâve Found âThe Oneâ
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
What Is Real Love?
When He Doesnât Call
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Safety
Another life ruined because of the morality police
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldnât
Limits in BDSM
What is Emotional Abuse?
Self Improvement
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Self Care
10 Ways To Be Happy
10 Truths To Live By
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How to be Yourself
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How To Ignore Haters
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Slut Shaming Explained
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
Sex
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
Basics of Breath Play
D/s or Kinky Sex?
Fetishes Explained
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Sensual Biting
Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
Sex: Practical Details
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Squirting Notes
Toys
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
BDSM on a budget
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Training
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
Age Play: A Short Guide
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Glossary of BDSM Terms
Guide To Blood Play
Guide To Bruising
Guide To Talking Dirty
Guide To Wax Play
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Introduction To BDSM
Newbieâs Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Some Thoughts On Rules
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
Topping from the bottom
Always a reblog because why???
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Some very good information, opinions, and insight that has helped me contextualize my desires and better understand this community.
âMY FAVORITE VIDEOâ!
âFORCED IN DIAPERSâ!
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âFORCED IN DIAPERSâ!
What happens when you soak through your goodnites instead of asking for a change? Thatâs right, a spanking and a thick diaper
age ranges in littles
now obviously these arenât applicable to all littles, and some of this list is a little more gendered towards boys because i am one and donât have a lot of experience with girl littles or nb littles, but i tried my best. /)v(\
little traits:
đ¶đ» one year old: -sometimes nonverbal, when verbal, usually a lot of non distinct sounds, or very basic words/baby talk -toilets and potty training are pretty much a definite no -typically wears diapers -hasnât graduated to a sippy cup yet, so still uses a bottle -will eat solid foods, but nothing too big yet, mostly softer foods that tend to be sweeter -definitely needs a bib when eating regular food because theyâre very messy -frustrated more easily -slightly more needy, and wants to be cuddled and held a lot more often -will play with basic learning toys like blocks or rings, and enjoys teething toys(depends on the little, though) -still uses a pacifier -crawls more than walks
đŒ two year old: -much more verbal, but much more babytalk rather than full words -sometimes a bit more bashful -will still use a bottle, but can switch between a sippy cup and bottle; they usually prefer softer mouthed sippy cups to the harder ones -mostly eating solid food, milk is more of a comfort food in a bottle now -still uses a pacifer often -may be starting to potty train, and switching more from diapers to pull ups; likely still wears diapers when sleeping -will put almost anything in their mouth -much more adventurous and playful; likely plays with more educational toys and has taken a slightly larger interest in tv, but too much or too loud hurts their little eyes and ears and they could get overstimulated -typically has a fascination and love for animals and the outdoors -walks more than crawls -may carry around a comfort item everywhere(teddy bear, blanket, paci, etc) -bottom wiggles
đ three years old: -definitely using the potty more often -less babytalk, more coherent sentences -might usually decline a bottle, and is adjusting to harder mouthed sippy cups, but probably still prefers softer ones -definitely still uses a pacifier -when using a bottle, sometimes itâs comfort or theyâre not feeling too great -dinosaur chicken nuggets are a favorite, and theyâre learning that they really donât like their vegetables -definitely potty training at this point and not using diapers as much at all anymore; usually pullups and overnight diapers -loves games like hide and seek, and is learning tag -still fascinated by the outdoors and likely has a new love for animals -eating hard foods and soft foods, and likely enjoys chips, animal crackers, graham crackers, and different kinds of sweet dry foods -isnât eating typical baby food as much if at all, but still wonât necessarily eat âadultâ food, even if cut into tiny, bite size pieces -requires a lot of attention and a careful eye, because they can be mischievous
đŹ four years old: -doesnât wear diapers anymore -may not use a pacifier as often -likely wears pullups as a security thing, but is in training pants and can usually stay dry -uses hard mouth or soft mouth sippy cups, and has said goodbye to the bottle(for the most part) -has a new love for tv and different kinds of games that require more coordination -likely loves car rides and trips, as well as trips to the zoo and aquarium, because animals -much more easily bored, but very energetic -likely still messes up on certain letters or words, and could have a slight lisp, but sentences make sense and there is much less babytalk, if any -might be getting more interested in dress up -more interested in art, but less coordinated(think finger painting and macaroni art) -has a stuffed animal collection -monsters in the closet are a common occurence now
đŠđ» five years old: -has likely developed a love for tea parties, imaginary friends, and superheroes and/or princesses -disney is very important to them -theyâre likely learning how to read, and their speech is very well formed at this point -theyâre definitely out of diapers and pull ups, and only occasionally have accidents, which usually upsets them greatly -rarely uses a pacifier -only uses hard mouthed sippy cups, and is graduating on to regular water bottles -fascinated by just about everything -is likely a picky eater, but not as picky as when they were younger -enjoys coloring -can sing along to literally every disney song, itâs kind of insane -loves candy, chocolates, and anything sweet -a lot more playful and mischievous -likely still requires a nap during the day -enjoys playing with cars and/or baby dolls
đ§đ» six years old: -accidents are almost unheard of -likely has begun to enjoy star wars, star trek, harry potter, or another child friendly fandom -watches a lot of cartoons -eats as much candy as possible when they can get away with it and always regrets it but keeps doing it -can be very naughty or very nice -hates being scolded with a passion -still loves disney -no babytalk, maybe a slight lisp, but sounds just like any other adult when speaking for the most part -might still watch shows geared towards younger groups -can read and do more complex puzzles -still fascinated by the world and loves car rides -pizza is a favorite food, but dino nuggets and mac and cheese are still high up there -mostly uses water bottles rather than sippy cups
đ€ seven/eight years old: -thinks theyâre a lot bigger than they actually are -only use water bottles because anything else is âfor babiesâ -watches less disney to seem cooler, likely -more interest in video games and consoles; likely has a 3ds and some games, or maybe a different console -knows a couple swears but wouldnât dare say them -can sit through movies -loves star wars and superheroes and princesses a lot more -imaginary friends arenât as common, neither are tea parties -enjoy light up sneakers -love forts and often think people of other genders around their little age, or other people in general have âcootiesâ -likely more athletic and willing to participate in sporty events -can endure longer car rides and shopping trips -rarely throws tantrums -significantly less clingy
This is what I was talking about for the anon! May help you find your age range, but itâs not something you hafta stick to!!đ
Updated Library For Kinksters
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Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Consent
Consent & BDSM
Guide to Consent
Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Wonât Ask For
50 Rules for Daddies
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Alternative Names For âDaddyâ
Alternative Domme Titles
Aspects Of Control
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Daddy Up!
Defining A Daddy Dom
Dominants Need Training Also
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
Help For New Doms
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How To Be A Good Dominant
How to Find a Submissive
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
So you want to be a Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Dom Commandments
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissiveâs Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
Littles, Subs & Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
26 Baby Girl Jobs
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
A Bottomâs Responsibility
A Dominantâs Advice To His Submissive
A Man Who Knows YouâŠ
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Attraction to DD/lg: A Littleâs Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
âHow do I find Daddy?â A guide to help you safely find the Daddy youâre looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Novice Submissives
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Signs Of A Fake âDominantâ
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
What is a Little?
When newbie subs, with asinine âdoms,â need to run away.
Why I call him Daddy
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Mental Health
BDSM practitioners âhealthier and less neuroticâ than âvanillaâ peers
Body image & BDSM
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
Is BDSM normal?
Love your Vulva â a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
On Cutting
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Things to Do When Youâre Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
Relationships
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say âI Love Youâ
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
Communication Is Key
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Date Night In A Jar
DD/lg In Public
D/s and Domestication
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When Youâve Found âThe Oneâ
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
What Is Real Love?
When He Doesnât Call
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Safety
Another life ruined because of the morality police
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldnât
Limits in BDSM
What is Emotional Abuse?
Self Improvement
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Self Care
10 Ways To Be Happy
10 Truths To Live By
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How to be Yourself
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How To Ignore Haters
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Slut Shaming Explained
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
Sex
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
Basics of Breath Play
D/s or Kinky Sex?
Fetishes Explained
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Sensual Biting
Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
Sex: Practical Details
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Squirting Notes
Toys
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
BDSM on a budget
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Training
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
Age Play: A Short Guide
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Glossary of BDSM Terms
Guide To Blood Play
Guide To Bruising
Guide To Talking Dirty
Guide To Wax Play
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Introduction To BDSM
Newbieâs Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Some Thoughts On Rules
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
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Updated Library For Kinksters
I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the updateâŠ
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Consent
Consent & BDSM
Guide to Consent
Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Wonât Ask For
50 Rules for Daddies
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Alternative Names For âDaddyâ
Alternative Domme Titles
Aspects Of Control
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Daddy Up!
Defining A Daddy Dom
Dominants Need Training Also
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
Help For New Doms
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How To Be A Good Dominant
How to Find a Submissive
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
So you want to be a Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Dom Commandments
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissiveâs Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
Littles, Subs & Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
26 Baby Girl Jobs
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
A Bottomâs Responsibility
A Dominantâs Advice To His Submissive
A Man Who Knows YouâŠ
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Attraction to DD/lg: A Littleâs Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
âHow do I find Daddy?â A guide to help you safely find the Daddy youâre looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Novice Submissives
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Signs Of A Fake âDominantâ
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
What is a Little?
When newbie subs, with asinine âdoms,â need to run away.
Why I call him Daddy
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Mental Health
BDSM practitioners âhealthier and less neuroticâ than âvanillaâ peers
Body image & BDSM
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
Is BDSM normal?
Love your Vulva â a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
On Cutting
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Things to Do When Youâre Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
Relationships
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say âI Love Youâ
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
Communication Is Key
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Date Night In A Jar
DD/lg In Public
D/s and Domestication
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When Youâve Found âThe Oneâ
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
What Is Real Love?
When He Doesnât Call
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Safety
Another life ruined because of the morality police
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldnât
Limits in BDSM
What is Emotional Abuse?
Self Improvement
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Self Care
10 Ways To Be Happy
10 Truths To Live By
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How to be Yourself
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How To Ignore Haters
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Slut Shaming Explained
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
Sex
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
Basics of Breath Play
D/s or Kinky Sex?
Fetishes Explained
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Sensual Biting
Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
Sex: Practical Details
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Squirting Notes
Toys
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
BDSM on a budget
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Training
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
Age Play: A Short Guide
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Glossary of BDSM Terms
Guide To Blood Play
Guide To Bruising
Guide To Talking Dirty
Guide To Wax Play
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Introduction To BDSM
Newbieâs Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Some Thoughts On Rules
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
Topping from the bottom
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